How To Make A Girl Jealous And Miss You Like Crazy

Is it your desire to make your girl jealous and miss you badly? Then sit back, relax, and read this piece to know just how to do that.

By Emmanuel Onitayo
How To Make A Girl Jealous And Miss You Like Crazy

When A Girl Becomes Jealous

If a girl has become jealous, that means she wants more from you than she currently has. In other words, a jealous girl wants a greater and more exclusive "possession" of you more than she is currently getting. Jealousy isn't just a female thing; men too can be jealous although their exhibition of jealousy may be a bit different from the female folks. Primarily, anyone that loves to be in charge or dominate cannot escape being jealous. So, when the control or domination seems to be slipping off their hands, they cannot but feel jealous. Girls are like that in a relationship. Having given their hearts to a man, they often feel entitled to him alone and doesn't want the man to "look elsewhere". Most girls become jealous because they love a guy so much and they feel they may lose him if they don't work harder to keep his attention. For this reason, therefore, we can say jealousy is a telltale sign of love.

Girls Love Attention

The reason you can get a girl to become jealous and crave you badly is that she loves attention, and exclusive attention for that matter. It's not always good news for any girl to learn that another girl is sharing her boyfriend's attention with her. So, for you as a guy, you can become a treasure in the sight of a girl if you know how to manipulate this one need of hers very well. She'll become jealous and incomplete without you. Be aware that before you can make her feel jealous, you need to first reveal what stuff you are made of. In other words, if she doesn't find anything special in you to be jealous of, your tactics may not work. In most of the points that would be discussed here as a way to make her jealous and crave you more, the ground rule remains that you first show her a lot of love and care, then you withdraw. As it goes, when you withdraw, she starts doing the chasing. She has tasted something she doesn't want to lose and she's going to do her best to get your attention always. This approach may be necessary when you are dealing with a girl that is proving hard to get or you are working on making your ex-girlfriend want you back. If you can strike up jealousy in her in either of these two cases, she'll feel she is losing something that she has to go back for.

How To Make Your Girl Jealous And Miss You

It's hard to find a guy that doesn't like to hear the statement "I miss you" from his girl every now and then. It shows that one is being valued, treasured, and thought of. A girl being jealous about you also means she's madly in love with you. There is a kind of inner confidence and pride that swells up in you when you know that your girl is competing seriously for you. To some extent, you also get to control how things go in your relationship more than you would ordinarily be able to. However, it has to be established that making your girl jealous and miss you can have at least two possible consequences. First, you may be lucky in that she may become glued to you so much that if possible, she wants to be with you forever. That way, you get a lot of commitments and possibly, relationship investments from her. The second possible result is that she begins to see you as a hard-to-get guy and contrary to what you hope to achieve from making her jealous, you may be unfortunate as she backs off completely or become vengeful. It's good to be aware of these two sides so you know how to control your seduction. As soon as you notice that you are getting more of the second result, you know it's time you take things easy especially if you seriously love the girl. Without much ado, here are those things you can start doing to make her miss you seriously.

1. To Make Her Jealous, Be On And Off With Her

The principle here is to give her maximum attention for a while after which you would now withdraw. In other words, you, first of all, smother her with love, then ignore her. The experience of love which she had registered in her brain would make her want to have you back desperately. For instance, if you have always chatted with her over text regularly before and you now withdraw, she's likely to become curious and jealous. However, for this approach to work, you would have to ensure that whenever you are with her, you make her feel your presence. Give her a lot of attention, care, and support before you withdraw. If you withdraw from a girl that hasn't been feeling your presence before, it may just be your undoing. Instead of her missing you or feeling jealous, she may dump you entirely.

2. To Make A Girl Jealous, Leave Her Out

Let's say she is in the company of her friends and you are there too, you can strike the jealousy chord in your girl by complimenting her friends and people around her but leaving her out. In another scenario, you may be chatting over text in a group, for example on WhatsApp. While you should not be rude to her in any way, if you respond to other members' chats but refuse to acknowledge hers, she'd definitely become jealous. Of course, you also don't want to be silly about that; the things you compliment others around her for should not be very sensitive things like their curves or beauty. You can just pick on their hair or shoes and tell them loudly how you so much love it. Remember that the two important points to make this effective in making her jealous is that you are dishing out the compliments first only to people around her and second, right in front of her or on a platform where she can hear what you are saying.

3. Make Your Girl Jealous By Speaking Well Of Another Girl Before Her

Discussing just how great another girl is before your girlfriend can really make her become jealous. She is going to do everything she can to make you feel that there is nothing the other girl has that she doesn't have too. She's likely going to monitor your call logs and WhatsApp messages to find out what the other girl has been doing to win your admiration and before you know it, she would start imitating her. Again, you would have to be careful not to send the impression that you have fallen in love with the other girl by being too critical of her. Remember your aim is to make her jealous and not to jilt you. If you dwell too much on the supposed qualities of another girl, instead of her becoming jealous, she may interpret it that she is no longer attractive to you and that may be the beginning of the end of your relationship.

4. While You Ignore Her Texts, Become Active On The Social Media

This is a serious way to make a girl jealous; refuse to reply to her texts or calls but get busy with another girl on WhatsApp or other social media. For WhatsApp, she can see if you are online and then she'll be wondering why you haven't responded to her calls or texts. It's usually a great cause for jealousy for a girl that loves you desperately to see you being preoccupied with someone else at the expense of the attention she thinks you should be giving her. You can later call her back to seemingly apologize but let her know you have been having some discussions with a girl and that it was going so well that you didn't want to break the flow. This will make her seriously jealous. She'll be wondering what exactly the content of your discussion was that really took your attention from her. She'll seek to redirect your attention back to herself.

5. Upload Some "Harmless" Pictures Of You And Other Girl Online

Your girl would surely become jealous she sees a picture of you and another girl on your social media page. You can even make such pictures your WhatsApp or Facebook display picture. This is going to really get her jittery and jealous. Uploading a picture of you and another girl would send the message that you appreciate that girl above her and it will make her want to do everything possible to surpass whatever quality that girl possesses that makes you upload her pictures. Again, you need to mind the kind of pictures you are uploading online. For instance, a picture showing a girl sitting on your lap or hugging you passionately would not make her feel jealous; she's going to hate you for it. So, just like in other approaches, you need to ensure that not more than one meaning can be read into the pictures you are posting on your social media page. The pictures really have to be "harmless" to get the desired result.

6. Do Something Without Her And Brag About It

Girls want to always ensure that your fun comes from them. Your girl would really be surprised and jealous to know that you did something without her contribution and it went so well that you are proud of it. As you talk about this and probably laugh and brag about your success, she would wish she was the one that helped you to accomplish the task so that the whole attention and all the praise would now be directed to her. Now that that is not the case, she'll become jealous. The thing you did without her input can even be with the aid of other guys. In other words, instead of asking for her help, you choose to seek help with another person (can be a guy or girl) and then, you seem to be proud and satisfied with the result. It's definitely going to drive her nuts. You know the message that communicates to the girl? That means you can find your joy and solution to issues without having her input. She won't like this because she knows the danger in it.

7. Chat With Another Girl Over Text While She's With You

This is another potent way of making your girl jealous and crave your attention more. When you are both together, occasionally concentrate on your phone and chat over text with another girl. The content of your chat must, however, be casual such that if she eventually insists on knowing what you are chatting with that girl on, you don't become unnecessarily secretive about it. Chatting over text with another girl while your girlfriend is still beside you is a message to her; she'll feel she's not the only one courting your attention and as such, she'll want to work harder to secure you.

8. Laugh At Something She Doesn't Know About

Your girl seeing you laugh over something she isn't aware of will make her curious and jealous at the same time. She wants to know who or what is usurping her role in your life because to her, it's her pleasure to make you happy. So, seeing you having a great time and not being able to figure out what the reason is, would definitely make her become jealous. This can be as simple as just looking at your phone and laughing or smiling.

9. Excel At Something

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You never know how much a girl can become jealous of you until you excel at an endeavor. She'll do everything to "protect" you from slipping out of her hands. Girls all over love stars and guys who are well acknowledged in society. It serves their pride well to introduce you to their girlfriends and family members. No wonder many of them lurk around movie and music stars. In fact, if you want to increase her jealousy for you, just ignore her a bit after you have just recorded a landslide victory in something. She'll literally be begging to have your attention back.

10. Always Look Good

All eyes are always on guys that dress and look well. Even without them making advances to girls, girls all over crave to have a deal with them. So, when you look good always, your girl would get a little bit more jealous because she'll always be afraid someone somewhere might be working hard to replace her. And if in addition to your smart look you occasionally withdraw from her, she's not only going to get jealous but miss you desperately. You can even feel she dreads losing you.

In Making A Girl Jealous, Avoid Doing These Things

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It's good to remind you that not all acts actually make a girl jealous. In fact, if care is not taken, you may ruin your chances of having a girl in a bid to make her chase you and feel jealous. There are some things you must not think of doing in your bid to make a girl jealous and these things are briefly discussed here. First, never consider kissing another girl in her presence; It's not going to be funny if you do so. Kissing is no more a way of making her feel jealous but rather betrayed. It's a sign that you have found someone else that resonates with you more than her. So, unless you are done with the relationship, this is not the way to go. Again, you need to realize that there is a difference between insulting a girl and making her feel jealous. Nobody becomes jealous when insulted, not even a fool. If you insult a girl you like in your bid to make her jealous and miss you, you would eventually have yourself to blame as she's going to avoid you like a plague. Furthermore, when trying to make a girl jealous, don't keep too far away. That's because there is a level of withdrawal that is unacceptable to a girl. A girl would most likely interpret a prolonged withdrawal from her as a sign you have ceased to love her. Therefore, be sure of the message you really want to send to her.

Final Thoughts

In portraying how complicated girls can be when it comes to the expression of their feelings, someone has likened them to shadows. When it comes to shadows, the more you run after them, the more they run away from you. As a guy, you don't want to put yourself at the mercy of a girl. You want to be in charge and get her to love you at your own pace. So, the way to go is to make her become jealous of you. Everyone can become jealous but girls are more prone to that especially when it comes to a relationship. They want to ensure that no one shares their guy with them. If they see you chat over text, they want to know the person is. A girl would also love to know if possible the contents of your WhatsApp and Facebook chat. If you use this innate attribute of them and if you exercise caution when necessary, you can make any girl become jealous, miss you badly, and crave your attention over and over again.