36 Questions That Will Make You Fall In Love With Anyone

The best experience people feel is when we fall in love. It isn’t always easy. Ever ask yourself if there was a way to get someone to fall in love with you? There just might be questions you can ask. A psychology study asked perfect strangers to ask each other 36 questions. The result of these carefully chosen questions is a powerful connection. To begin asking your partner the following 36 questions. At the end look into their eyes for 4 minutes. The questions you ask become more intimate the further you go. The first set of questions you ask to make the participants think about and explain themselves. Finish these questions and you’ll fall in love.

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest? This question when asked reveals the type of person you and your partner find most interesting. 2. Would you like to be famous? In what way? Ask this question to see the aspirations of your partner. 3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why? The answer here tells confidence in speaking without preparation. It also slightly increases vulnerability 4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you? Ask this question to see what makes them content. If you fall in love you will know what they look for every day. 5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else? Show the amount of confidence and spontaneous behavior you have. 6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want? Ask this question to see which aspect your partner would emphasize. Is a sharp mind or a healthy body more important? This will indicate where their focus is. 7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die? This increases vulnerability and trust by asking you to consider the scary thought that haunts you and your partner. 8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common. Ask this question and the idea of a relationship begins. Sharing traits are important to every relationship. 9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful? This simple question when you ask continues to build trust. It establishes common things with what you’re grateful for. 10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? This simple question asks the answer to consider the issues one had while little. Vulnerability will further increase on the answer from your question. 11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible. This is a great connection after the previous question. You need a connection to fall in love. Telling the detailed story of your life provides a connection and vulnerability. 12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be? Again, you will share a deep, maybe secret want. Sharing desires help to fall in love.

The following set of questions to ask. Will continue to suggest you fall in love. These do this by asking about personal memories, and beliefs about a friendship. As you show more vulnerability and trust it is easier to fall in love. 13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know? The answer to this will let you begin to fall in love. This shows which you are most uncertain about. This is the question you want to answer most. 14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it? Sharing your dreams is a great way to check compatibility and get you to open up more. You’ve got to be open to fall in love. 15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life? This question will give a very telling answer. This shows the type of person you are, what you value and what gave you best feeling after you finished. 16. What do you value most in a friendship? Ask this to set the standards for your budding friendship. This also allows you to think about what is important in any relationship. 17. What is your most treasured memory? Sharing memories of your past continue to show what kind of person you are. You have to know what kind of person you will fall in love with 18. What is your most terrible memory? Ask this and you will get vulnerability from your partner. You will also share in a sad moment. Handling it sensitively increases trust. 19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why? The answer to this question explains how the person answering views their life. A bond will increase over the answer to why you would change. 20. What does friendship mean to you? Ask this to again establish to essential important parts of any friendship. The answer will show what kind of actions are important to you. 21. What roles do love and affection play in your life? This question prompts the person answering to explain 22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items. Things are probably steaming up after you ask this question. That connection should feel much deeper. 23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s? Sharing about your childhood helps to establish an idea of life leading up to now.

25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “ This begins to establish the two-separate people as sharing in something. This changes strangers into a partnership 26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “ This informs the partner how they could help support you. 27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know. Ask this question to build up a relationship. Each romantic relationship should build on what’s important to a friendship. 28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met. This builds trust between the two of you. Ask this question results in developing of affection and attraction. It is easier to like someone who said they like things about you. 29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life. This continues to break down normal defenses and increases vulnerability. To fall in love you need to be vulnerable and trust your partner. 30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself? Ask this question to find how often your partner is vulnerable and feels their emotions. 31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already. This step helps to build mutual attraction. 32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about? This shows the ideas which are most serious. 33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet? Ask this question to strengthen trust in feeling vulnerability. 34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why? Answering this shows what possession is most important. This helps share your truest identity 35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why? How this makes you fall in love may seem odd. Answering this question lowers wall the most out of any question so far. Your openness will be at an all-time high. 36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen. This question builds on all the previous ones. After vulnerability and trust are built between the two partners. Asking for help starts the beginnings of a cooperative relationship.

This step will seem awkward at first. Staring into the often said “window of the soul” is odd at first. After a minute or so the strangeness will fade, and if you pay attention you can feel a bond forming. After all the questions if you can stomach looking into each other’s eyes for the whole four minutes, you will have a strong relationship. You've already told them your worries, fears, and happiest moments. Your partner will know you very well at the end.

After the questions, you will have a greater understanding of yourself. You will know a lot about your partner. You may even fall in love. You must remain open to fall in love. If you do not care for the answers of your partner you may not end up in a romantic relationship. You will have a deeper connection with any person you ask and answer these questions to. They are made to carefully touch on the essential aspects of love. Any loving relationship needs to share both trust and openness. The less trust and vulnerability you have the harder it is to fall in love. Each of the questions asks the person answering to reveal themselves. Gradually they build up into more serious and generally secretive. They have slowly suggested you share deep things about yourself. You will feel love after these questions. Go try it and see if you will fall in love.