70 Get To Know You Questions For Couples To Get To Know Each Other Better

You want to get to know one another, well here are some questions to ask to help you get to know one another deeply and become a couple.

By MJ Faublas
70 Get To Know You Questions For Couples To Get To Know Each Other Better

Getting to Know You: Question & Answer

For years now you've dreamed of meeting one another, and now there you are facing each other. Could've been a twist of fate, but you are in each other's lives. But like all couples, you have to go through the steps of getting to know one another. For some, it can be a difficult task that ends the relationship before it could even start. But luckily for you, the blueprint below is your guide to get to know one another and bring your love to fruition. 

Prior to even thinking about bringing on a questionnaire into your relationship, you must first realize that as curious as you are about him/her, he/she is just as curious to get to know you. So take this process slow and allow the conversations to take their natural course. Getting to know one another is a simple task, but if forced can become one of the most complicated aspects of your relationship. So, take it easy and allow your relationship to blossom as it was meant to.

First Date Questions for Future Couples

The first date can be one of the most nerve-racking experiences of your adult life. But rest your head and know that you have a guide that will help you get through it with ease. For the most part, after reading this guide, the most stressful aspect of your first date will be what you wear. 

Here are 10 questions to start your venture into one another's lives. These questions are romantic, for adults, couples, and will help you get to know one another deeply. Let's get to know one another:

Keep the Questions Light & Fun

Your first date should be light and filled with fun childhood stories that keep you both engaged in one another as you get to know one another. By sharing your happy memories of your childhood, you will establish a connection built on joy and the lighter side of life. These questions are designed to be engaging. Being open-ended questions allows you to get to know your date deeply. The questions even help you to decide whether you'd like future dates with your romantic partner. 

If you're happy with the answers, then this will be a guarantee that you are deeply interested in your partner and you two have a high chance of becoming a romantic couple. You both will get to know one another and will end the date knowing where the next step in your new romantic encounter will lead.

  1. Where did you grow up?
  2. What was your favorite thing to do as a child?
  3. As a child, what superhero did you most admire?
  4. If you could have any superpower for one day, what would it be?
  5. What's your favorite color?
  6. Where're your favorite places to visit in the world?
  7. What do you do for a living?
  8. Is this something you dreamed of doing when you were a child?
  9. If you could do anything else, what would it be?
  10. So when will I see you again?

Second Date Questions

The second date is the test of time. This date passed the icebreaker first date, and as a potential couple, you two have a deeper understanding of each other's mindsets. During this second date, your goal is to become more open with your date. The only way the relationship will work is if both of you are honest with one another. No matter the question, answer it as honest as possible.

You will be happy that you took the time to get to know your date, for as the relationship moves into being a couple, you will have established the foundation needed to keep your relationship romantic. So use these questions with purity in your hearts and delve deeply into one another's lives to build a strong relationship that most couples wish they had.

Bring on the Deeper Questions

This second date is the final call in understanding whether your relationship will make it into the realm of couples. Keep good eye contact to build a bond with your date. The strong the bond, the easier it will be to answer the questions. These questions are in place to help you get to know one another more, so feel free to change them around if you'd like.

Most importantly, these questions are to be used with the understanding that your date is also trying to figure out whether they'd like to become a couple with you. But, most importantly, relax and have fun, it's your second date!

  1. What's your favorite drink?
  2. What's your favorite movie, song, and album?
  3. Are you a cat or a dog person?
  4. Are you a morning or night person?
  5. What do you wish you could tell your child self about life?
  6. How was your relationship with your parents?
  7. Were you a rebellious teen?
  8. Are (Were) your parents married?
  9. Are marriage and a family important to you?
  10. So when are we going out again?

As you can see, the goal is to use each question to lead into the next, keeping the conversation fresh an ongoing. As always, the final question will always be whether there is potential for a future date. As adults, we find ourselves in these silent moments when getting to know someone new, but these questions are here to help you keep the conversation going and get to know one another deeply. These questions will work in helping you build and become a trusting couple.

Third Date Questions

You two made it! And by now, you're probably pretty sure that the two of you are about to become a couple. As you have seen the questions above have helped you get to know one another and most importantly, they work in helping you, two break the ice and continue building. 

Well, now with this magical third date, we must delve deeper. You have to break into the consciousness of your date to really get to know whom they are. The following questions are designed to help you become more comfortable with your date and create your own world with one another. As you dig deeper into one another's minds, emotions, and past, you will make the final decision of whether you two will move to the next level of becoming a couple. 

Good luck!

Deeply Conscious Conversations...Sparked with Questions

Just know you've been warned, these questions can be reversed and asked of you, so be ready to be open and honest with your date. These questions delve into your dates conscious regarding their past relationships, family, and friends. But don't stress, they are simple questions. These questions are light as always, but they allow your date to open up beyond the light "small talk" questions.

Are you ready? 

  1. Where do you see yourself in 5 - 10 years?
  2. Are you happy with your current life experiences?
  3. If we're relaxing, what movie would you put on?
  4. If you could stay at any age, which would it be?
  5. Who's your favorite person, dead or alive? Why?
  6. How do you relax after a long day at work?
  7. What's your dream car?
  8. What's your most embarrassing adolescent experience?
  9. How old were you when you had your first heartbreak?
  10. What are we doing on our next date?

You did it and should be proud of yourself. If these questions taught you anything, it should be that the next date will be filled with more personal questions. As you get to know your date, you'll get a better understanding of whom this person truly is before committing to becoming a couple.

Let's plan that next date already.

We Know Each Other Couple Questions

Yes, you've survived several dates, many sleepless nights on the phone. You might have even gotten so comfortable with your date that you two have created nicknames for one another. This is a good thing. It means that all those questions weren't so scary and that your date was happy to share those memories with you.

Now, these questions are set up to help you finalize your decision to move forward. With these questions, you'll have all the information you need on your date to become a couple or go your separate ways. Remember, practice honesty and answer these questions if they are posted on you as you would like your date to answer them.

Have fun.

Maybe...Maybe Not Questions

  1. If you could be one animal for a day, what would it be?
  2. What website do you visit the most?
  3. How many best friends do you have?
  4. How small (or big) is your inner circle?
  5. Are you easily impressed?
  6. When was the last thing someone did that impressed you?
  7. Where do you feel most comfortable?
  8. Are you an Alpha type?
  9. When was the last time you got into a physical confrontation?
  10. What happened to cause you to get last truly upset?
  11. Do you like strawberries?
  12. Are you a beach or a park person?
  13. Are you ok with PDA?
  14. Do you have a type?
  15. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
  16. What's your idea of a romantic evening?
  17. Do you think money brings happiness?
  18. What would make the world a better place?
  19. When was the last time you spoke to your mom?
  20. Should we do an indoor or outdoor date next time?

Questions to Keep the Relationship Going

Now that you have gotten to know your date and have possibly made the decision to see them on a more permanent level, congratulation on becoming a couple! These questions are now designed to bring about the next level of your relationship. As a couple, you will face many highs and lows, and getting to know one another early on will help you to mend the relationship when it seems broken.

But as always, remember to be open and honest if these questions are posted on you. The questions below are going to walk you through the first stages of being a couple. As you ask the questions, feel free to share answers as well even if your date does not ask them of you. By opening up and answering the questions you feel compelled to answer, this will show your date that you are an honest person and that they're making the right decision by being with them.

Let's dig deeper and get to know one another.  

The Questions That Will Change Everything

These questions are light, emotional, sexually driven, and overall fun to ask. Get ready for your date to ask you to answer some of these questions as well. Remember, the questions are for the benefit of the both of you, so the more honest you are the better your relationship will be later on.

Now, let's get to the questions:

  1.  Do you view the world as seeing the glass half full or half empty?
  2. What risks do you feel are worth taking?
  3. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  4. Who have you taken for granted in your life?
  5. How was your last romantic relationship?
  6. Why did you two break up?
  7. Are you open to new love?
  8. When was your last date?
  9. Are you addicted to anything?
  10. Do you like chocolate?
  11. When was the last time you had sex?
  12. Did you enjoy it?
  13. Have you ever had a threesome?
  14. Have you ever had a one night stand?
  15. Are you happy in your life at the moment?
  16. If you could change anything about your life, what would it be?
  17. Do you see me in your future?
  18. What is something you dislike about relationships?
  19. Is your heart content?
  20. Will I see you tomorrow morning?

Ok, that last question was a stretch, but you get the idea. Only ask these questions if you are ready for the answers. Each question depends on the next to build the conversation through each date night. You should not jump through the questions, only ask each date night question in the date it corresponds to. But most importantly, as always, have fun with these questions.

Let the Conversations Begin

Hopefully, you use these questions to build your relationship and have fun the entire time. When it comes to dating, adults always seem to make things harder than they truly are, so use these questions as the blueprint to build a relationship that will last the rest of your life.

Just imagine, years from now, you will look back and remember that article you read filled with those questions that you asked your date, and many years later, you two are going strong. We are building a relationship for the future here, so be pleased as you ask these questions. Never ask questions you would not want to answer yourself. 

As a new couple, you will have built more questions in your mind to ask your love and to get to know each other even deeper, so, just enjoy these 70 questions. Use these questions as the foundation of what will be the best relationship of your life. Oh, yeah, please, smile as you ask these questions so that your date is at ease and more comfortable to answer them. 

No one wants to feel as if their on an interview while on their first date, the sole purpose of these questions is to help you get to know one another and build your relationship's foundation.
Be nice, happy, and flirty with these questions. Best of luck with your love endeavor.


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