50 Intimate Questions To Ask A Guy

No doubt, effective communication between any two partners in a relationship requires time, attention, sincerity, and even, sacrifice. Sitting down and just talking things through is not enough; you need to be able to ask your boyfriend the right kind of questions including intimate ones. 

And intimate questions in this context means more than just bedroom conversations alone; it entails a lot of other important issues too. Practically, to get the most sincere answer to your intimate questions, a right atmosphere needs to be created to make both of you feel relaxed.

Below are some sets of intimate questions that you can ask a guy, particularly your boyfriend. The questions are grouped into different categories with some being sexually inclined, while others are romantic, career-based, and others are just cute and intimate questions you can ask for conversation-sake only.

1. What triggers your desire when it comes to smell, taste, sight, and touch? Listen closely to his answer here because his response will show how intimately connected he has been to you. In case he has not, he will be interested in finding out about them which means the goal of asking this intimate question has been achieved.
2. What element(s) do you think is/are indispensable to a good sexual relationship
3. What do you love most about your own body?
4. What is your best key element to a better way of enjoying sex?
5. How do you feel about pornography? There are different views on this topic. Some consider it to be normal while others say it is cheating. Ask your boyfriend this question to see whether you have the same line of thought on it.
6. What is the favorite thing we can do together while in bed? Whatever his answer to this question is, note it down. If it is possible, you may want to give him the privilege of enjoying it.
7. What is the definition of love according to you?
8. How many girls have you ever slept with? This question is like digging into his past and it means a lot. You will either discover whether he is the solo type or a player.
9. Do you see us together for a long time? If his answer to this question is something aside forever, then, you have reasons to doubt being with him. There shouldn’t be any time limit in love.
10. When was your first kiss? This is a funny but intimate question that would allow you to know your boyfriend a bit more.
11.  Do you have anything you want to reveal to me? This is possibly a great way of making him open up to you. It is a question that is more of a tricking type. This will make him feel comfortable pouring out his mind for you.
12.  What is your greatest achievement in life? His greatest achievement might be his first-degree certificate or the day he bought a car. Just ask to find out whatever it is.
13. How do you react to provoking situations? This question speaks more of his personality.
14.  Have you been in love before?
15.  Are you the religious type? Knowing the stance of your boyfriend on this subject is not only intimate, it is necessary too. So, take him seriously on this.
16.  Are you comfortable staying around me? Your guy or boyfriend should be comfortable being with you always. But if he has not got to this stage, that means both of you might need to work things out.
17.  How do you like describing me to your friends? He should definitely have something great and wonderful to speak about you. But that does not stop you from finding out how exactly he describes you to his friends.
18. What element do you think can ruin our relationship? This question needs no explanation because we all know how breakups have become rampant these days. Ask this question to know how to brace up.
19. What do you consider your biggest fantasy? This invasive intimate question is a funny type to ask your guy. Ask him about his fantasies, you may end up enjoying a big wide ride in his world of fantasies.
20. Is there any way I have hurt you unintentionally?
21.  Describe a perfect relationship. Ask him this question to express his mind for you. He probably has been longing for this opportunity.
22. Have you done something in your past that keeps hurting you? The unforgotten past that still hurts him must be reconciled. If not, you will feel the effect later on. Therefore, if he has such a situation, make him feel at peace and happy to have a clear conscience.
23.  What is the best way of showing love?
24. Have you ever cheated on someone before? You need to ask this question to know whether you are in a relationship that will be fruitful or not. Most times, a guy that has serially cheated on someone should be avoided.
25. What is your thought on our first date?

If you plan to spend the rest of your life with your boyfriend, you need to ask your guy these questions to know about his past.
 

26. How many girlfriends have you had before now?
27. What did you really see in me that got you attracted?
28. How would you feel if you saw me and my ex-boyfriend intimately conversing?
29. How long was your last relationship before you broke up?
30. What is the toughest and roughest thing you ever gone through in life?

Do not hesitate to ask him these cute questions no matter how flirty you may consider them to be. It shows you are comfortable with him.
 

31. What part of my body is your favorite?
32. I caught you while staring at me. What part of my body were you actually looking at?
33. What style of hair do you prefer on me; short hair or long hair?
34. How do you feel when guys are checking me out in your presence?
35. If I ask you to massage my whole body, where will you start from?

36. Do you prefer sex during the late hours or early in the morning?
37. What is the best sex position you consider hot and cute?
38. What is the wildest thing that you have ever done sexually?
39. How long was your longest intimate session ever?
40. If I give you the chance of touching a part of my body, where would you touch?

If you want to have an idea whether you and your boyfriend are a perfect fit, you need to ask some hard and sincere questions that will indicate where both of you are heading to in future. Dive into his future as possibly as you can. But do not forget about your present relationship, because some future questions might give the guy the wrong impression of you.
 

41. What do you intend to do when you retire from work?
42.  What do you think of our relationship in the next six years?
43.  How do you imagine us having a lot of kids?
44.  Will you allow extended family members to stay with us in our home?
45.  Which one would you prefer -  living in the city or in the outskirt of a town?

46. What kind of compliments (or question) would you prefer to hear from me?
47. What kind of gift would you like to receive? A cute homemade gift or one purchased from a store?
48. What is your view on soul mates and love at first sight?
49. How do you know that you are really in love with me?
50. Will you believe a friend of yours that reported to have seen me with another man?

There you have some 50 romantic, cute, and intimate questions you can start asking your guy straight away. These questions should help you know what the mind of your guy is on certain issues that affect your relationship.
 

Some of those questions too are capable of turning him on sexually and as such, before asking those romantic questions, be prepared for it. Have fun and get intimate with your guy as you put some of these questions to him.