10 Signs He Doesn't Love You Anymore
You are truly in love with your boyfriend. But, there is something that is making you suspicious that he doesn’t love you back and that he isn’t really in love with you anymore. How do you really know if he doesn’t love you anymore? This can be hard, especially when you don’t know what to look for when you suspect that your boyfriend doesn’t feel the same anymore. You need to know these 10 signs in order to know for sure if he doesn’t love you anymore, or if you are just insecure and that you might have gotten something wrong about your suspicion that he might not love you anymore.
The importance of being in a loving relationship
It is important to make sure that you are in a loving relationship where you are in love with your boyfriend and where your boyfriend is in love with you. There isn’t another way to have a successful relationship. Relationships are already hard enough, but being in a relationship where your boyfriend doesn’t love you anymore, it is going to be even harder. You are going to become insecure and he is going to put you down and hurt you in any possible way. Not a relationship that you want to be. If there are children involved, you need to know that staying in a relationship where there isn’t love, you are going to give your children the example of how a relationship should be. Even, if this isn’t the correct way. You need to get out of the relationship and find someone that will be able to love you and your children without any problems. You need to show your children that a loving relationship is essential in order to have a happy life. These are the signs that he might not be in love with you anymore, or he wasn’t in love with you, to begin with:
1. A common sign is that he can’t say that he loves you anymore
The first and most common sign that he doesn’t love you anymore is if he can’t say that. He might be saying something like “I like you very much, but not in love with you.” Or, he would say something like: “I love you, but as a brother loves his sister.” These are the most obvious reasons that he doesn’t love you anymore. However, there are also some other signs like when you are saying that you love him and he doesn't respond or make if he didn’t hear you. Or, even worse, he is just changing the subject. This might be cruel, but this is the most common signs that your boyfriend isn’t in love with you anymore, and that he even might have someone else that he loves a lot more. You shouldn’t force your boyfriend to say that he loves you. He needs to mean it before he can say it. And, if he doesn’t love you, you shouldn’t stay with him. Even if you love him. He should also not tell you that you know that he loves you. He should be able to say the words “I love you” and mean every word to believe that he is really telling the truth.
2. He isn’t listening when you are telling him something
You are telling him what happens to you today or talking about something that was bothering you during the day. After talking for a while, you realize that he is playing on his phone, or just watching television and it is obvious that he isn't really listening to you. And, if you are asking him if he listened to you, he replies that he did listen. But, if you are asking him what you should do about the situation, he looks confused. When this happens, you need to know that he doesn’t love you anymore and that he doesn’t care enough to listen to your needs or problems that you might have. You should just make sure that you don’t confuse between not listening and not hearing you properly. Especially, when he is watching something on television.
3. He compares you to other women
This is something that no woman wants. That your boyfriend is comparing you to other women. He is saying that he wishes that you could cook like another woman, or that you could dress like other women. If he starts to compare you to other women in general, you need to know that there is something seriously wrong with the relationship. He is irritated by the way you are doing things, because he doesn’t love you enough, anymore. You are a person with your own preferences, and there isn’t any reason to be compared with other women. And, when this happens you need to know that love isn’t in your relationship anymore, and you don’t need to take the humiliation to be compared.
4. Signs is that he is avoiding physical contact with you
Women like to be touched and getting a hug or two from the man she loves. However, there might come a time when your boyfriend is avoiding physical contact with you. He isn’t holding your hand anymore when you are going out, or he is just saying goodnight without giving you the normal kiss. Or, he isn't holding your hand when you are among his friends, and he normally did. Something that all women know, is that man likes touching their woman and holding her hand when they are going out. This is to say to the other guys that she is taken. If this is something that he did do before, and suddenly he isn’t doing anymore, then you need to know that he doesn’t love you any more or the way he should. This is normally the first sign that this relationship is doomed. You need to talk to him about it and see what he is responding. He might indicate that he isn’t sure about the relationship anymore.
5. Your boyfriend doesn’t come to visit you much often
Every night after work, your boyfriend made a point to come and visit you. Sometimes he also brings dinner and a movie with him. However, this is getting more and more common that he doesn’t come to your home as much anymore. And, when you are phoning him about why he isn’t coming over, his response is that he is busy or that he is really tired. Yes, maybe he is really tired, especially if he changed work. However, if he doesn’t have any reason not to come over, you need to realize that he is trying to tell you something by staying away. The best way to get answers is to talk to him and to make sure that you know if he still loves you or not. You need to make sure that you are not just getting lame excuses on why he isn't coming to visit you and taking you out as much anymore.
6. He doesn’t love you anymore when he doesn’t trust you
You didn’t give your boyfriend any reason not to trust you. You didn’t cheat on him, ever, and you didn’t lie to him before. But, you are getting the feeling that he is really not trusting you anymore. He is wondering all the time if you are doing that can ruin your relationship. Normally when someone can’t trust one that didn’t give them reasons, might mean that there is something seriously wrong in the relationship. If your boyfriend doesn’t trust you, it might be because he is the one that can’t be trusted. Love and trust are going hand in hand. The one can’t go without the other. So, if trust isn’t there anymore, love might also not be there anymore.
7. Your boyfriend is telling you that he needs space
This is another sign that your boyfriend isn’t in love with you anymore. He is asking you for some space. What space, because he isn’t there as much anymore? Maybe he isn’t in love with you and he wants to get out of your way so that he can go on with his life, without you. The moment that a boyfriend is asking you for some space, you need to see the warning lights that there is something seriously wrong with your relationship. And, that the reason might be that he wants to get out of the relationship because he doesn’t love you anymore. Don’t stay with him when he just needs to have some space.
8. Signs that He isn’t in love with you anymore and keeping secrets from you
It can be obvious when he isn’t in love with you anymore. Not only are you seeing that he is keeping secrets from you, but he is lying about it when you are talking to him about the secrets he is keeping from you. Secrets are the start of a broken relationship and if you know for a fact that he is keeping secrets from you and lying about it, it might be a sign that his love gone out of his heart. That he even might have someone else in his heart now and doesn’t want to tell you what it is. Secrets are something that can be ruining any type of relationship because trust is broken and hearts are sore. If he can’t answer you straight when you suspect that he has a secret, then you need to make sure if he is still in love with you and interested in this relationship. You don’t keep a secret from the one you love.
9. Signs that Your boyfriend is trying to change who you are
You are who you are, and there isn’t any reason why anyone should want to change you. Especially the one you love and that is supposed to love you for who you are. He was satisfied with the real you, when you just first met and when you first started dating. This was because he was in love with you and was loving you deeply. Now, that is starting to change, he is trying to change you so that he can try to love you again. This isn’t right and you should not even consider changing for anyone. Even not for the one that you love. You should be proud of who you are and he should love you just the way you are. This isn’t a healthy relationship when he is trying to change you and make you into something that you aren’t and that might cause you to be unhappy. You deserve better and he is for sure not in love with you anymore.
10. Important signs when he is putting you down and criticize everything
This is the last sign, but also the sign that is going to be the most hurtful. There are so many relationships where the boyfriend is criticizing everything that this girl is doing. And, that he is putting her down. Not just when they are in private, but also in public and with friends. He isn’t in love with you and might not like you anymore. And, therefore he is trying to get you to leave him so that he isn’t going to be the bad guy in the relationship. Don’t let anyone put you down or even criticize everything that you are doing. He might not love you anymore and everything that you are doing is irritating him. This isn’t you, it is his problem and you can leave him without any hesitance.
Your boyfriend doesn’t love you anymore. Now what?
Now that you know that your boyfriend isn’t in love with you anymore, now what are you supposed to do? Should you just go on with the relationship and make if you don’t notice it, or should you move on and find someone that you deserve? The one thing that you need to know, is that if your boyfriend doesn’t love you anymore, he isn’t the right one for you. You shouldn’t be in a relationship that is going to hurt you more than making you happy. You need to make sure that you find someone that is going to make you happy and that deserves you.
Making sure about his feelings next time
Now that you know how it feels to be in a relationship where your boyfriend doesn’t love you and where you know the signs of not having a loving relationship, you need to be careful next time. There are many men out there that think that they can go out with a woman, even if he doesn’t really love her. He doesn’t care about her feelings and he is putting her down every step of the way. You need to make sure about his feelings before you are seriously committing. You should judge all men the same, but you need to be careful about those that don't care about your feelings and that doesn’t love you at all. Yes, there might be some men that are going out with women that they don’t love anymore, but there are some men out there that are really in love and just don’t show it often. This is why you should make sure about his love for you before you are going to get hurt again. Take things slow and make sure that you don’t land in the same situation where you need to follow these signs to see if he is still in love with you. Or, if he is trying to say to you that love isn’t something that he feels for you. Getting hurt once is still okay, but if you are making the same mistake twice, you might be the one that is going to be the fool. There are too many people out there that are in an unhappy relationship or an abusive relationship, just because the boyfriend doesn’t really love the girl and he is putting her down and humiliates her as often as possible. It is important to know that if you are in a relationship where there are common signs that he doesn’t love you anymore, then you should end the relationship as soon as possible. The right one is out there and you will find someone who will love you for the real you. There are many women out there that are wondering if their boyfriends are still in love with them and if this is going to be a relationship that is going to work in the long term. Before you are going to decide that he doesn’t love you anymore, you need to make sure that this is really the truth and not just you that are insecure and worried for nothing. This also is something that happens a lot. This is why it is important to know for sure if he loves you or if he doesn’t love you anymore. And, if you realize that he doesn’t love you anymore, using these signs, then you need to make sure that you are ending the relationship as soon as possible. There isn’t any reason why you should be in a relationship where love is just going one-way. You deserve better.