Your 101 Relationship Guideline to a lasting long love

It's true we all like to live in fantasies and fairytales. But it's also really hurting when someone reminds of the realities. So, it is always better to expect more rational things from life and especially from something as sensitive as a relationship.

So, what exactly are we dealing with when we talk about setting relationship goals? Here's what:

Distance? Surprising, isn't it? Even though it's a deceiving thought, but a little distance always proves to be helpful. Take out some time to do your own work or tasks, without the involvement of your significant other. It is fine to not need your partner at all times. After all, if you need some space, they might too. But don't get too far, obviously.

Yes, this is really important for a relationship even if things are going pretty well without it. Speak your heart out to your partner and hear what their heart wants to say in return. You'd be surprised what these little conversations can do to get you lasting love.

There's nothing purer than wanting your partner's dreams and wishes come true.

Everyone wants approval for these little things, and especially when that approval comes from your loved one. Is there a better feeling? No matter how high the aim is set, your support is really what will get them to achieve it. The support assures you, that you're not alone in any field of life, whether work or just studying.

Don't let sex get boring just like the daily routine work. You know your partner and they know you, so why not use that to please each other by little efforts that spice things up? People often ignore aspects like these, and this turns out to be one of the major relationship issues. Because frankly, how else would someone express their love, if not by intimacy? Never take your physical relationship for granted and figure out new innovative ideas to surprise your partner. Make their day, and they'll make yours.

There's no such thing as a perfect couple. And there is a definite need to understand this while handling an argument. True maturity is, understanding each other's flaws and caring for the little things they want or don't want. This is the key to solving any issue at hand.

Of course, how can we forget the ultimate ingredient? Your goals and plans are of no use if not backed up by love. It is the emotion which rules them all. Love your partner unconditionally and make them realise. Not everyone is capable of it, you know.

The thing about true love, it never lessens, only grows. And for growth, it needs the attention, care and efforts. The more you cherish it, more wonders it can do for you and your partners. Many people have been moved by the core, that's the power of love.

It is never late to think about improving what you have with your partner. You can never reach a limit on love, as love is infinite.

Everybody loves to be handled with sincere care and concern. We never know the battles one has within their minds. So, never lessen your feelings especially when it comes to your partner, always increase your compassion for them.

The worst feeling you could give to someone is of being ignored. Active listening and taking out more time for your partner is a definite way to make that person really special and loved. There might be things your partner tries to tell you, but you're missing them due to lack of attention. Simple signs and clues can lead you to your partner's heart and whatever is bothering them.

It's always admirable when someone goes out of their way every once in a while to express their love and make their partner joyful. Even small gestures matter like planning a date night or just sending a spicy text. Make them laugh at every opportunity you get.

There's no such thing as ego in true love. If you want to make your relationship the strongest, forget these petty emotions and embrace the act of being grateful to your partner for the love they give you.

Romance can never go out of style, from the classiest movies to simple poetry, great examples of romance have been set since long. A little spark of romance can strengthen your relationship beyond your thoughts. It's the little things that matter the most. Arranging cute dates and getting flowers, these are only the basics. Romance can never be limited by age or maturity. It happens as per your heart's desire.

Just listen and express what your heart wants, and the rest will happen by itself.

It is a great misconception that distance ruins everything about a relationship. It is the oppposite actually. No one can know what love feels like, unless they have been through life, in its absence.

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If you're in a long distance relationship, don't lose hope as we have the perfect guideline for you to follow:

It's not necessary to keep check of everything your partner does. Giving space is very important. If you keep talking 24/7, things are bound to get boring and hectic.

Regular and creative communication is appreciated, especially texts like "Good Morning" or "Good Night" on a daily basis, as this shows your partner that you remember and love them. Sending each other snaps and audios can break the boring regular small talk and make things more interesting.

Suggest each other the things you like and ask them to try those. Whether it's a movie, a novel or even a game. When you know your partner is doing the same thing as you, the connection can be felt within.

To keep things hot and intense, a little tease is often helpful. There should always remain a sexual tension between a couple, even if they're miles apart.

Even though little arguments are healthy for every relationship, but that does not mean they should always be there. Try to avoid the things and actions your partner dislikes, like going out with a particular person, or visiting a disliked place. The lesser the conflict, lesser is the chance of getting misunderstood.

Literature has proven to be therapy in every single field. The psychology of love and relationships are best defined by some of the amazing writers below:

Top of the list is this book, thoroughly written after understanding the psychology of relationships. It might help someone to keep out of a marriage counsel as healthy communication guidelines are so well written here.

The sensitive topic between the comparison of men and women is very smartly portrayed in this piece of literature. 

This book refers to the different types of love and their needs accordingly. This helps people to better understand their partners and express their love in the way required.

Letting go of insecurities within yourself and in others, and acceptance in your hearts, this is what the author has tried to express in this piece of literature.

By the direct experience of handling the loving and supporting relationships among people, this therapist has come up with this amazing book.

The feeling even better than falling in love, is staying in love. Your love can last as long as you work for it. The mutual understanding between two people and how much they are willing to give to each other matters the most. So, start giving your loved one the care they deserve with a little extra love their way to make them feel special.