60 Personal Questions To Ask A Girl To Really Get To Know Her

Get to know your girl better! If you ask these 60 questions on your next few dates, and you'll get to know her better in no time.

By J.A. Roberts
60 Personal Questions To Ask A Girl To Really Get To Know Her

Asking Your Girl Questions Will Help You Get to Know Her on a New Level

Whether it's the beginning of your relationship or you've been together awhile, you can always get to know your girlfriend better. Asking her questions is a great way to learn more about her, and knowing these answers can bring you closer together. Here are some questions you can use to start some great conversations, and we promise, you'll know your girl much better after asking them.

Ask Fun and Random Questions to Get to Know Your Girl

Random and hypothetical questions are a great way to learn more about how your girl thinks and what she values.

These questions are fun conversation starters, too! These will get her talking and more comfortable opening up to you. Here are a few faves: 1.) If you were stranded on a desert island, which 3 of your friends would you want to have with you? 2.) If you were an animal, what animal would you be? 3.) If you had your choice of $200 every day for the rest of your life or $2 million right now, which would you pick? 4.) Which famous person would you most like to meet in this world? 5.) If you could only eat the same 5 things for the rest of your life, what foods would you choose? 6.) What do you think your dog/cat thinks about you? 7.) What's the one place you most want to visit in your life? 8.) If the world were going to end tomorrow, what would you do with your last day on earth? 9.) If someone offered to pay you $1 million dollars to live a year without wifi, could you do it? 10.) What’s the scariest/funniest movie you’ve ever seen? 11.) If you found a lot of money, would you keep it or try to return it to whoever lost it? 12.) Is it ever ok to cheat in school? 13.) What’s one thing you think we should eliminate from the planet? 14.) What’s your favorite food? 15.) Would you be able to spend the night in a house that’s said to be haunted?

Ask Questions About Her Dreams and Goals

Learn more about what motivates your girl with these questions.

16.) What do you enjoy doing the most in this world? 17.) What's a problem you'd like to help solve in your life? 18.) Describe your dream life when you are 20, 30, 40. 19.) If you could study anything at all, what would you want to learn about? 20.) What’s one hobby you want to learn? 21.) What’s something you are really good at? 22.) Would you rather do one thing the rest of your life, or change careers many times? 23.) Is there something you’re good at that no one really knows about? 24.) If you could learn one new skill every year, what would you want to learn next year? The year after? 25.) What are you most looking forward to right now? 26.) What are some things on your bucket list? 27.) What’s one new habit you want to develop? 28.) What do you believe in? 29.) If life could be more like a movie, what movie would you pick? 30.) What’s one thing you hope to accomplish in your life?

Get to Know Her Family and Friends

If you want to love the girl, you have to love her friends and family.

Get to know more about the people she's close to, and you'll get to know more about her, too. 31.) What do your siblings do to get on your nerves? 32.) Which of your friends is the one you would call in an emergency? 33.) What’s something a friend could do that would cause you to stop talking to them? 34.) Which of your parents is stricter? 35.) What’s something you admire about someone in your family? 36.) Where does your family come from? Do you have relatives in other places? 37.) What’s a family tradition you love? One you hate? 38.) What’s important to you when you are picking new friends? 39.) Who is the most generous person you know? 40.) If you could give your best friend one piece of advice that she/he had to take, what would you tell her/him? 41.) Have you ever ended a friendship and regretted it? 42.) If your friend didn’t like me, what would you do? 43.) If you could travel for 3 months with one member of your family, who would you pick? 44.) What’s your favorite thing about your house/room/neighborhood? 45.) What’s the best gift you ever gave someone?

I never learn anything talking. I only learn things when I ask questions.- Lou Holtz

Ask Questions About Her Fears and Worries

Find out what keeps her up at night.

Knowing what she’s worried about will help you understand why she does certain things and what motivates her decisions. It’s also a great way to find out how you can be a supportive partner. 46.) What trait do you dislike most about yourself? 47.) If you would eliminate one fear for the rest of your life, what worry would you get rid of? 48.) Is there a time when you’ve failed at something you really wanted? How did you react? 49.) What character trait has gotten you into the most trouble in your life? 50.) Would you rather be poor and happy or rich and alone? 51.) What’s one unhealthy habit you’d like to change? 52.) Do you have a phobia about something? 53.) What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done in your life? 54.) What keeps you up at night? 55.) Is being fearless a good thing? 56.) Are you superstitious? About what? 57.) Is there something from your past you regret? 58.) Has someone ever hurt you? 59.) How would others describe you? How would you describe yourself? 60.) What’s the one thing you doubt most about your abilities? No matter what you ask, be sure you listen to her answers, try to connect with her on a personal level, and be engaged when you are talking. If you do, you’re on your way to a great relationship!