How can a sugar baby thrive in sugar dating?
In sugar dating, there are certain unwritten rules that sugar babies have to abide by at all times if they are to be successful. Without further ado, these are the 15 tips that any sugar baby can use to succeed in this type of dating:
1. A sugar baby should never get attached
The first one of the most important rules of being a sugar baby is to never get attached. The fact that your sugar daddy is with you is purely for fantasy reasons. So, when you feel like you are starting to get attached, it would be a good idea for you to take a couple of steps back and reevaluate what it is that you are doing in that particular arrangement. Always know the reason you are with him and try abiding by it. If you get emotionally attached, maybe this just isn’t meant for you because, at the end of the day, you will only get hurt. You will always be a second priority and that is all you will ever be unless your sugar daddy decided for it to be otherwise. So, before trying out sugar dating, it would be wise to learn how to effectively get your emotions in line.
2. Never lower your guard
A smart sugar baby will always put her safety first. First and foremost, she knows that she isn’t the only one having an intimate relationship with the sugar daddy. So, the best thing that a smart and successful sugar baby should insist on is safe sex. And if he insists on going in raw, then both of them should get tested. Contracting an STD or getting an unwanted pregnancy shouldn’t be part of sugar dating as long as you are smart enough. The same way that you protect your health and well-being is the same way that you should protect your emotions. And how can you protect your emotions? You can do so by not falling in love with him unless you are sure of a future with him, which in most cases is highly unlikely.
3. A sugar baby is self-sufficient
As a brilliant sugar baby, you should understand that it is important to rely on yourself from time to time. For instance, if you are supposed to meet with your sugar daddy, you can find your own way home. You should also have a backup plan for paying your bills or fuel your car if at all your sugar daddy encounters his fair share of problems. If you are self-sufficient, your sugar daddy will even respect you because you aren’t the kind of woman that depends on other people. And a realization as tiny as that can make him stay a bit longer than he intended, which is always to your benefit.
4. Lower your expectations
As a sugar baby, you should know that what you and your sugar daddy have is just but a fling that can end at any time. Therefore, it is best for you to come to terms with the nature of the arrangement in order for you to be successful as a sugar baby. As a matter of fact, things will become much easier if you know your place without expecting anything else besides your upkeep and some average sex from time to time. One of the most important tips that you can use to thrive in the sugar dating arrangement is not putting pressure on him to do things for you. So, if he chooses to get you an expensive gift, let him. If not, it’s all good as long as he is giving you what he promised at the beginning of the arrangement.
5. As a sugar baby, it’s your job to show appreciation
You need to appreciate the efforts that your sugar daddy is putting in. He has a lot of responsibilities that need financial attention, but he still manages to pay your rent, fuel your ride and dress you like a princess. That being said, it is your duty as a responsible and smart sugar baby to show appreciation if you want for the arrangement to continue. It is just one of the many unwritten rules of the game that you need to know to thrive in it.
6. Make the most of it
As stated earlier, such kind of arrangements doesn't last. So, as a smart sugar baby, you need to make the most out of it. Make sure that you travel to places you’ve always wanted to go to, buy all the nice things you desire, and so forth. But most importantly, you need to save the money for a rainy day. And by a rainy day, I mean the time when your sugar daddy gets tired and call it off. Unfortunately, that is how most of sugar dating arrangements end and when it happens, you need to have squeezed the most out of it so you live to enjoy life with zero regrets.
7. A good sugar baby is discrete
As a sugar baby, you need to learn how to keep your mouth shut. In most cases and to the public, your sugar daddy is a loving man with a wife and has no intention of changing that kind of image. So, you will need to exclude him from the selfies you take while out on vacation. You can also extend the courtesy by not telling your friends all about him. Always agree to meet him in places that are private, especially when he asks for it, and everything will most certainly be ok. These are the unwritten rules that make these types of arrangements work, and you have no other choice but to adhere to them all the way.
8. It’s all an arrangement
For the umpteenth time, a sugar baby needs to understand that this is an arrangement with no strings attached. After the sex or vacation or date, your sugar daddy will leave you for his family. There will be certain rules that you need to know and stick to for you to be a successful sugar baby, and knowing your place is one of the most important tips you can use.
9. A smart sugar baby asks when not sure
If you aren’t sure about certain things with the arrangement you have with your sugar daddy, as a sugar baby you are entitled to ask. If he wants sex, don’t be afraid to ask what’s in it for you. But the way that you ask about it should be in a very gentle way so you make it impossible for him to turn you down even if he wanted to. It's highly likely that your sugar daddy already understands the rules pretty well, as chances are that you aren’t his first rodeo. The same should apply if you don’t know what his fetishes are. By asking, you’ll show that you are interested in making him happy and your sugar daddy will reciprocate. Making him open up is one of the most important rules that you shouldn’t ignore because it can prolong the arrangement to your financial benefit.
10. Satisfy your sugar daddy
If you want your sugar daddy to stay, then, as a devoted sugar baby, you need to fully understand the importance of staying focused on pleasing him. As mentioned above, you need to give him the opportunity to open up. If he loves the missionary position and taking you from behind, or maybe he is into role-playing and has a fetish that he is probably too scared to ask his wife to try, you should be in a place to offer him exactly what he wants, like the smart and dedicated sugar baby that you are. Do that and he will most certainly keep you a little longer.
11. A good sugar baby is always patient
As a sugar baby, patience is a very important virtue that you need to have in order for you to be successful as far as sugar dating is concerned. First and foremost, you need to fully understand that you aren’t his first priority. So, when he cancels plans or doesn’t call you back, it is for you to understand that he is busy elsewhere without him telling you. The same applies when he promises to get you something but seems to be delaying it.
12. Ignore the naysayers
The “holier than thou’ part of society shows its disgust when it comes to sugar dating. But as a top sugar baby, you need to brush it off because you know what you want and aren’t afraid of getting it. Let people call you a gold-digger if they want to, it’s not your fault that they are busy digging iron. It’s your life and you know what you want. Listening to them will only bring you down, so do yourself a favor sugar, baby, pay them no mind!
13. A sugar baby should look good
Don’t get it twisted, you are a trophy, so how about you make the effort to look the part. Take some time to hit the gym and update your wardrobe. Be on that old man’s mind and make him always look forward to seeing you. As a sugar baby, you are there to fulfill his sexual fantasies, and that means you need to invest in your look if you are to be successful in this kind of relationships. You can carry out your little research from popular magazines to find the best look for you. Even better, you can ask a stylish friend for some tips. The money that he is giving you can be used to get you some new clothes and designer perfumes. And if your 'blesser' is very generous, he can offer you enough to enroll in a nice gym where you can get in shape.
14. A smart sugar baby never settles for less
As a smart sugar baby, you know that you won’t be in this business forever, as people get old and get replaced with younger, more attractive girls. It’s just the bitter truth that every smart girl knows. So, if you are to do it, do it with the best. Don t get a man who has a problem getting you an apartment or a monthly allowance. Always carry out your research so that when you get down to it, you are making the most out of it. Just don’t forget to save extra money for the rainy days.
15. A successful sugar baby goes with the flow
A clever sugar baby plans her schedule around her sugar daddy., meaning that she will always be available when he wants to meet. If you do that as a sugar baby, then you are bound to be successful in your quest and make a lot of money while at it!
The above-mentioned tips on how a successful sugar baby carries herself are just but a few. Always make sure that you are looking for more so that you get better at this with time. But as stated above, you should always protect yourself and avoid letting your emotions from getting in the way. That being said, if you are the kind of girl who is easy to fall in love, then this isn’t something you want to try. Now, go get that money, girl!