How To Flirt With A Girl Over Text And Be A Master At It

Ok, let's start this article with a well-known statement: no man is an island. A free translation of this sentence would be that none of us was created to be alone. Simply, through our entire life, we are taught to interact with other people, so we make several contacts, both for personal and work lives. We meet friends, random passersby and lovers, and in some way, flirting is a part of our everyday life. Admit it, how many times have you flirted with a waitress, a cashier or some random girl on a street? Ok, that doesn't necessarily need to be a real flirt. Sometimes we do it unconsciously, but it's a much more frequent case when we flirt with someone who we really like and with whom we want to get a closer relationship. A simple, natural smile or unconscious touch can be seen as a sign of flirt.

So, here we are: you met a nice girl and got her number, and let's face it, if she didn't want you to accept your flirt, she wouldn't have given you her number. That means she wants to stay in touch with you somehow, and it's clear she's expecting your next move. Now you have a chance to show yourself as a master of flirting over text. The first step is the hardest. When you meet a girl you like, you know that your first conversation won't last forever, so if you were lucky enough to get her number, you know that the next step is to get her attention over text. You can also arrange a first date or find out something more about her. Somehow, without any kind of texting, no serious flirting can begin today. This kind of communication over texts can have certain advantages, especially if you are shy. This is a perfect way to get some closer contact with the person you like. We'll give you a couple of tips and some of the best examples on how not to blow this opportunity because sometimes girls can have bad tempers. That's why you maybe won't have a second chance, so use this one the right way.

Yeah, yeah, face-to-face flirting is better, but texting also has its advantages. You can send a text to a girl you like any time of the day. If you don't have a clue about what to say, you can always wait for some sort of inspiration to come to you, as there won't be any unpleasant silence when you just don't know what to say. When you are out of words or you just don't have the time to text her, you can always send her some gifs or funny videos. That will get her attention until your inspiration for texting comes back. But don't bother her with all sorts of nonsense you find on Internet, she'll get bored very soon.

Then, there's no need to be perfectly dressed. You can look like a hobo, lie in bed in your teddy bear pajamas or walk around in your underwear. The lack of a visual effect cannot always be a disadvantage. You don't have to be your the best version until you get face to face with her. The girl can't see you, so there's no need to be freshly shaved or wear perfume to seduce her. Leave this for the potential first date with her. The point of your texting is to keep her interest in you and to make her want to know more about you. Your words and typing must leave nothing but the best impression on this girl.

Although flirting this way gives you a certain freedom, be careful. If you are not completely honest with a girl you like, you can easily get stuck. Girls have like a billion gigabytes of memory, and they remember everything you send them. So, don't try to be someone else. For example, if you are not funny in private, you shouldn't force humor in texts. You can try, but don't exaggerate. If you two really like each other, texting will lead to the first date. If you're lying even a bit, this girl may be disappointed, and you certainly don't want that. You can easily forget what you texted her two, three days ago. For example, as a part of your flirting, you wrote that the previous night you were at home playing video games, thinking of her, but the next day you text her to tell her how great your night out with friends was. So, let's repeat it for your own good: girls remember everything, EVERYTHING. Additionally, when you don't see her face, you can hardly know in what mood she is. Is she mad, bored, trilled or excited when she gets your text? Well, you then need to guess what kind of text to send her. You'll never know until you take a shot.

The first step is the hardest. However, you came to the girl you liked and started a casual chat. Of course, she already knows your intentions and will make it clear to you whether she'll give you a chance or not. If she gives you the green light, your flirting mission can start, so you must leave a very good first impression that will lead you to the next step. You can be the master of flirting over text if you just follow a few simple rules of what you should and shouldn't text her. You really shouldn't use some common pick-up lines you found on the Internet. Be imaginative and come up with something interesting and unique that will get her attention.

There's a huge chance a girl you like will blow you out if you send her a message without introducing yourself first. She will definitely read your text, but if it's something like 'hey, what you're doing' or 'what's up'', it might not be interesting for her and she'll simply ignore it. But if you try and come up with a unique approach, she can easily be interested in the conversation. For example, you can write how hard you tried to find her number and that you deserve a chance at least, or something like that. Be moderately funny and make sure to ask questions. If she answers you quickly and continues with the questions, you break the ice. The best results will be achieved when you get her attention and she wants to find out more about you.

Girls adore compliments, and that's clear to everyone. So, with that being said, you just can't make a mistake, or can you? Of course, there is a difference in giving compliments in person and via messages, but the point is the same: do not exaggerate. Still, you just met a girl, maybe you saw her just for a couple of minutes. That's why you shouldn't be rude or insistent in your text messages, but you will definitely leave such an impression if you constantly text her that she is beautiful, sexy, gorgeous, and so on. The key is in balance. For example, from time to time tell her that you like her opinion or that you find her interesting and funny and that times just flies when you text her. Compliments don't always have to be about her physical appearance. In this way, she'll know that your flirt is serious and that she won't be just one-night stand to you.

This can be a potential 'minefield', especially if you're not quite witty in private. Some men simply don't know how to be funny, so they try to be sarcastic and start teasing the girl they like. That is acceptable for a while, so be careful. Everyone loves a good joke, even girls. But if you still do not know each other very well, be careful when it comes to making fun over text. Don't be vulgar or insulting, so no nasty or racist jokes with this girl.

Then, your jokes should not be about the girl you like. No matter if she's also funny and it seems you two have a similar sense of humor, just avoid this. Your jokes must be light. No way you call her some funny nicknames because you still don't know each other well. Maybe it'll be possible later on when you get in some kind of a serious relationship, but for now, forget about it. If you have a lack of inspiration, you can tell her something funny that happened to you. For example, text her about that time you dropped your phone in the toilet. If you have reached a level that is suitable for flirting, then you should relax and play the game with words and start with a little harmless flirt.

Rule number one: don't let the girl wait for your text too long. If you initiate this kind of conversation, keep it up to date. If you don't have time to text her or she's too busy, just say so. Tell her you'll get in touch a bit later and problem solved. Flirting over text doesn't mean you should 'bomb' her with numerous consecutive messages. You just need to find the perfect timing, that's all. We can't tell you the precise number of messages you should send her, that would be a stupid advice, don't you think? A good text sent in the right moment can be a score. It may be best if your texting takes place in the evening, but sure not to disturb her. However, if she's busy and she still shows interest in your flirting, she might tell you when is the best time to reach her.

In most cases, the texting that begins in the early evening will last until late night, and that's the beauty of it. This is a clear sign your flirting skills are paying off. She's thinking about you the whole day and can't wait for you to text her. Usually, not all girls are awake at night, so sometimes it is best to send a good morning text the following day. She really won't appreciate if you wake her up just because you want to flirt. Remember her during the day and she will be pleasantly surprised. A couple of short but effective messages and you'll become the master of flirting.

We repeat that if you want to flirt successfully with a girl, she must be interested in you somehow. Flirting over text is not a one-way road because when it becomes one you should know that you no longer have a chance for anything. After a successful message to initiate a conversation, tell this girl something about yourself. Of course, we don't think it is a good idea for you to immediately brag about having a good car or a successful business. Write her something that gives the impression of you as an interesting man. For example, text her that you traveled to Japan recently or that you ate stir-fried grasshoppers. This is also a good excuse to ask her out, like you watched a trailer for a new movie showing in the theater and you would like to watch it together. If she accepts, flirt master, thumbs up! Just text her something that will separate you from others and that can be a great topic for your further conversation. If a beautiful girl attracted your attention, be aware that you are not the only one who is interested in her at this moment, so you have to stand out from the crowd somehow.

This does not mean you have to become an FBI agent, but you should definitely ask her things that interest you about her. Of course, it doesn't need to be about personal issues. Something simple just to start, for example, what is her horoscope sign or where she likes to go out to. You just need something to start the conversation over text. After you get to know each other, these questions can be a bit more intimate, but surely save that for later. Don't use any opportunity to flirt. Sometimes, even girls are not in the mood for that. If you notice she changed her writing style or that there are no smilies in her texts, you're doing something wrong. Girls like to talk, and men are not really good listeners, but they can become 'good readers'. If after your simple "how's your day?" text, she answers with a long message complaining about a boss or colleague, read it and give her advice or offer some help. This is a good sign that she is beginning to trust and confide in you.

When you start to flirt with a new girl, that means you have given yourself a chance for a new relationship and potentially a new love. Really, there's no need to look back and return to the past. If you were with someone who hurt you, you don't have to mention that at the very beginning with the girl you just met because you'll look desperate. Bragging about the girls you were in some kind of a relationship with is unacceptable. Maybe you think you'll look like a Casanova, but the effect will be completely opposite. If you want something serious with her, don't show yourself as a womanizer. Show her that she's special to you. Use your flirt skills to convince her that, at this moment, she's the only one you want, so save the stories and questions about exes for later.

Not everyone is capable of flirting. Some men are much more comfortable with flirting via text. Girls are also aware of the fact that men are now less interested in old-fashioned flirting face to face, but that doesn't mean that girls refuse to flirt over text. They certainly will be glad you tried so hard to get their phone number. Additionally, sometimes it's easier for girls to reject the flirt via text messages than in person. If you fail in getting the girl's attention over text, she will make it clear to you that your flirt attempt crashed and burned.

Times change, and with them a lot of things. Modern times make people live fast: nowadays, nobody has time to spend it with dear people, friends and family. Even a simple text sometimes requires taking some time, which people usually lack. Not to mention that there's just no time for making new contacts in their life. Living virtually is now the way things are. In other words, our entire lives depend on the Internet and smartphones. Many of us will agree that the modern way of communicating through SMS messages, Viber, Facebook messenger, etc., can't replace the live contact and communication, not to mention a live flirt. Flirting over text with someone you like can be a good start, but it can't and won't last forever, so the time when your text flirt will become an actual live flirt will come.