How To French Kiss A Guy Like A Pro

Just like everything else in the world, always make rigorous preparations prior to making love to your guy. Before you make out with him, try grooming a little bit. A quick but thorough shower will do you some good because even though we aren’t vocal about it, freshness is such a turn on for guys. And the same applies when you are about to French kiss your boyfriend even if it’s for the very first time. Here are some other things that you can do in an effort to deliver the perfect French kiss, one that will blow your boyfriend away:

Yes, girls, if you want the love of your life to always keep you in mind after a mind-blowing French kiss, then find a way to make sure your lips are as soft as cotton. Thankfully, women are fairly soft compared to guys, and that means that you will most certainly be on the safe side with a little lip gloss. Just make sure that it has been applied a little earlier so that your lips are erotically sensual by the time the two of you start French kissing.

Do I really need to explain this? Come on! You want to kiss your boyfriend/guy and not choke him with bath breath. If you are looking to giving him a good time, the best thing for you to do will be to make the necessary plans before you proceed with it. Once you do that, everything will work out in your favor as you will even be confident when kissing him. And to be honest, he will also be much more comfortable kissing you right back when your breath smells like Colgate, and not like last week’s soup you had at grandma’s.

Before you embark on your mission of French kissing your boyfriend’s soul away, you need to understand the importance of creating the mood. As it is the case with girls, guys also love it when the mood is just right before they get down to some serious intimacy. So before doing anything, make sure that you know what turns your boyfriend on and then make sure you are going for it without further ado. If he loves hip-hop, play some on the background and put him in a good mood. Do that and all I can assure you is that your man will be all over you and you won't even understand how excited he will be when you French kiss him the right way. Again, make sure that you set the mood according to what tickles his fancy the most. Do that and you will be on your way to being the Hall of Famer in his heart.

As a brilliant woman, I guess you already know that men are visual creatures whether they make out or just checking you out. What I mean by that is that your guy/boyfriend gets aroused by what he sees which is the same way a woman gets aroused by what she hears or smells, apart from what she sees. If you wear some lingerie, especially as you make out, you will be setting him up for the best French kiss of his entire life which should always be your ultimate goal. Now that you have prepared yourself for the French kiss, here is what you will be required to do. Always remember to be as confident as possible so that in the end, you can make it all worth it:

And now that you are in a position to get your guy or boyfriend’s attention, it would be a good thing for you to test things before taking things to the next level. For instance, you will need to start by kissing him on the lips first and gage his reaction. It is important to touch his face from time to time because men love it when you touch their faces. Someone has to stimulate those nerve endings and since touching himself looks stupid, guess whose job that becomes?

If you really want to make a connection with your boyfriend through that sensual French kiss that you have been practicing, then you need to be slow. Patience is always the key and your boyfriend will surely love you for it. Take things very slow and make sure that your lips and his are in synch. Once you do that, then it will be easy to sneak your tongue in there without taking chances. A French kiss is all about teamwork from both ends – between a guy and a girl. And as you are kissing, make sure that you are doing all the other sensual things that you do when you make out with your guy. Do something out of the blue, like grabbing his butt and squeezing it just because! When you excite him, then the French kiss will be ten times more incredible.

For the umpteenth time, always make sure that you are taking things gradually, especially if it's your very first time. It’s good to always take things as slowly as possible but at the end of the day, also make sure that you aren’t forgetting that there is a thin line between crazy and really crazy. Be a little freakish, but don’t go all the way unless you really want to freak your love out in every sense of the word! That said, try and start with a nice, gentle touch of his lips and then gradually try sneaking your tongue inside and wait for the outcome. If he responds with putting his tongue out, then you can go all the way. And remember to not get carried away during the French kiss so that you don’t end up ruining the momentum that you worked so hard to build when you swallow his tongue by accident.

Let’s not pretend that we can stop breathing just because the French kissing was too good. And now that we have agreed on that, the next thing that we will have to do is proceed with learning how to breath and by doing so, also letting your guy/boyfriend do the same. Your boyfriend will appreciate you even more if you learn a couple of tricks that allow him to breathe before you can resume with the French kissing. Do this the right way and he will most certainly love you for it.

I know that sounds a little freakish but when it comes to French kissing, you have to let your tongues do the talking. Once your tongue is inside your guy’s mouth, try to feel his tongue and judge the situation. If your boyfriend’s tongue is a little stiff, then you might have sneaked into the guy’s mouth a little too early. Pull out and give him time to wrap his head around what is happening. Yeah, I know it’s kind of funny but sometimes we guys take time to register whatever is happening to us. So always try to read our body language and prepare us for what is about to hit us during the make-out session and you will be good to go. And if your boyfriend isn’t ready, don’t be afraid to pull back for a little and embark on kissing his lips gently and lovingly.

The moment you start French kissing your guy/boyfriend, chances are that he will like the feeling. So, make sure that you are using this against him by just putting your tongue inside his mouth for a while and pull it back. If he likes it way too much, he is going to return the favor by sneaking his tongue past your soft, sensual lips (thanks to the lip gloss we talked about in the beginning). French kissing is even better when there is teamwork. So, it wouldn’t really hurt if you try to initiate some teamwork because it will surely pay off.

When you are kissing him especially for the first time, you shouldn’t really worry too much because there is no guidebook on how to French kiss in a specific way. So, don’t be afraid to kiss him some different ways as long as it's natural and you aren’t overdoing it. It is important to read your lover's body language before and during the French kiss and everything will surely fall into place.

A wise man once said practice makes a French kiss perfect. Yeah, I know you haven’t heard about this because that wise man was, well, yours truly. So, if you want your guy, boyfriend or the guy you just kiss to pass time to enjoy it, you can have practice sessions during your random make-out sessions. As earlier stated, kissing is all about teamwork and the more the both of you practice, the better you will become and in the end, it will make your love life rock!

Sometimes, it really doesn’t matter how good your French kiss is. There are times where your guy/boyfriend isn’t just into it and at such times, you need to pull back before you end up making things even worse. There are many factors that can make even the most tempting French kiss be shunned. For instance, your love might be having a lot on his mind and just isn’t ready for such kind of intimacy. He might also not be ready for it, and that is something you need to be ready for even if it is your very first time.

French kissing is a very important part of intimacy and it is the duty of every girl to learn. You shouldn’t just be doing it so that you can please your boyfriend, rather, do it so that you can enjoy and boost the level of excitement in your sex life!