Unsure About Your Appearance Of Your Privates?
When you start to doubt your own beauty, you start thinking about solutions. If you feel insecure about your belly, you think about exercising, changing your diet or getting a liposuction. If you think your lips are not thick enough, you may want to fill them in the style of Kylie Jenner. And, even if you consider your penis to be "ugly," then you may explore alternatives. There are men who literally undergo cosmetic surgeries to change what they believe are defects in this area of their bodies. According to Research Gate, these techniques are applied in patients who want an aesthetic improvement to increase their self-esteem. You can feel empathy - and respect because it is their body and they can do whatever they want with it, obviously - for the people who decide to take this path, but more than that, we would like to eliminate everything that convinced them to resort to these types of operations. It is said that we are in the 21st century and it has not been normalized that all penises are:
Different in every sense of the word.
Totally natural and made to fit the body that wears them.
Perfect as they are.
But well, it still happens, and many men suffer from this.
5 Top FAQs About Your Privates Answered
1. Is it normal for one testicle to be bigger?
As is well known, the testicles are responsible for producing testosterone, the hormone that is responsible for male physical traits and other factors of great importance, such as the creation of sperm or sexual desire. Over time, the size of the testicles changes slightly. In an adult man, the standard measure is between 1.5 and 3.1 inches long and 1.1 wide.
Given this reality, it is also normal for one of them to be larger than another. They can even vary in location. Several studies have shown that 65% of men hang more on the left testicle than the right one. In addition, this testicle is usually 10% smaller. However, it is essential to have this aspect under control, since any variation may be a consequence of a medical condition.
If one of the testicles has measures superior to the other’s, it is probably due to an accumulation of fluid. This disorder is called hydrocele, also known as water cyst. It is usually accompanied by pain and intense discomfort, which may disappear on their own. Even so, it is recommended to see a specialist who examines the situation better. A testicular tumor may also be the reason for this increase in size. Learn to explore yourself to diagnose the disease early.
However, if one of the testicles seems smaller, it is normal for a genetic disorder, testicular atrophy after a surgical procedure, an infection or a cryptorchidism. That is, when the testicle has a delay in the descent from the abdomen to the scrotum.
2. What is considered big or small for my penis?
Since the beginning of time, men have always been concerned about the size of their penis. And it is normal because in addition to being the member with the most nerve endings, it is the one that gives them pleasure. Therefore they want it to be liked and attract women, and because of this, they think they need to have a perfect size. But what is the perfect size?
A penis is considered to be large when its size in erection exceeds 6.7 inches, it can be called "macropenis”.
The overall average in the USA is 5.1 inches. Remember that the shape and size of the penis is inherited, such as the color of the eyes and the shape of the feet.
3. Is there a way to make my penis bigger?
The treatment to increase the size of the penis usually begins with the most natural options such as vacuum pumps, medications, stretching devices, and exercises, but when the results are not satisfactory, or the penis size is very small, the urologist can Indicate the performance of surgery. Some of these procedures are:
Exercises are usually the first treatment option since they have no contraindications or cost and can generate some results. Some of the exercises that offer better results are:
Normal stretching: hold the body of the penis, 1 cm below the glans, and then slightly stretch the penis with enough force to feel that it is pulling forward, but without causing pain. Hold this position for 20 to 30 seconds and relax. Then you must repeat the technique by pulling the penis down, up, and then right and left.
Inverted stretching: place the big toe of both hands 1 cm below the glans and the other fingers under the penis, to support the organ. Then, gently pull the skin back with the big toe, but without moving the fingers that are down, until you feel that the skin is stretching, but without causing pain. Hold this position for 20 seconds and relax. Finally, repeat these steps 5 to 7 times, resting 5 seconds between each repetition.
Normally, these exercises should be done with the flaccid or semi-rigid penis, but you should avoid doing the exercises with the erect penis, as it can cause damage to the body of the sexual organ
In addition to the exercises, there are some devices that help lengthen the penis and that can be used at home for a few minutes. This type of treatment usually includes a device or weight that is placed at the base of the glans penis and generates pressure on the body of the penis to lengthen it.
Although the results are not immediate, with continuous use, and after a few months it is possible to observe an increase in the penis during the erection, since the body is lengthening and, therefore, can receive more blood.
However, this type of device should only be used after consulting the urologist, as some purchased in online stores, can create excessive force under the penis, resulting in possible injuries that could end up creating difficulties in erection, for example.
Pumps are an excellent option to increase penis size quickly, however, their effect is short since they work by increasing the amount of blood in the penis during erection at the time they are used.
So the pumps are indicated for men who pretend to slightly increase the size or thickness for a short period of time or who need help to maintain the erection for longer than normal.
To use this type of pump it is very important to read the manufacturer's instructions or consult the urologist since the use of excessive pressure can cause injuries to the sexual organ
The medications used to increase penis size are generally the same used to treat problems in the erection of men such as Sildenafil (Viagra), Tadalafil or Vardenafil.
This type of medication increases the amount of blood in the penis and, therefore, in addition to ensuring a more effective and lasting erection, it can also improve the size and thickness of the penis, but only while the effect of the medication lasts.
Although they are relatively safe, before using them, the urologist should be consulted to identify if there are any health problems that may be affected by the use of these medications.
Penis augmentation surgery
Surgery to increase penis size should be considered the last treatment option since the result is not always as expected and deformities may arise, which end up making an erection difficult.
So this surgery is usually only performed in cases where the penis has a very small size, usually less than 1.5 inches.
Thickening of the penis
This is one of the most recent techniques that helps increase penis circumference by an inch while flaccid, through the injection of hyaluronic acid below the skin of the penis. This procedure can be performed in the doctor's office without surgery, but the result lasts approximately 18 months. After the procedure, it is advisable to maintain a rest period of 1 month, where you should not have intimate contact.
4. How do I stop an involuntary erection?
Having an erection in the wrong place or time can be very uncomfortable and embarrassing, however it is something very common that happens to men, so it can also be distressing to have to control it without noticing.
You must be very careful not to do something that could hurt you. Therefore, we will give you some tips so you can get rid of (or calm) that uncomfortable unwanted erection:
1. Clothing is the key to covering up an erection. Never wear tight clothes, or clothes that limit movement. If so, try to cover it with a t-shirt, jacket or sweater tied to the waist.
2. Put your hand in your pocket and hold the penis to one side, be careful not to hurt yourself or cause further stimulation. This is just a momentary remedy, so be careful. Do not place it between the spring of your pants or underwear because you can hurt yourself.
3. Focus on something that requires your full attention, it is better if it is something that requires manual work for blood to circulate to other muscles and parts of your body.
4. Just relax, if possible, sit. Give it some time.
5. Do I have to groom my privates?
Both men and women have increased in the number of people who completely shave their genitals. This influence often comes from pornographic films, since for a better view of intercourse the area is shaved.
What many do not know is that comprehensive hair removal could pose a danger of infection of STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases). The hair in each corner of our body plays a role, to protect. And in the case of the genitals, to avoid infections. Therefore, we must maintain pubic hair, for pure health; since the condom only protects a small part of the risk of contracting an STD.
But, at the end of the day, it’s your decision to choose to shave down there or not. There are no rules about it.
Discovery and self acceptance
Our culture of shaming the body does not respect various types of penises. There are no "bad" genitals just as there are no "bad" bodies, but culture, media, applications and porn tell us otherwise.
Pornography has many benefits, but it has serious flaws in its lack of representation of diversity of the or is, which is harmful to the psyche of men. Porn with positive body images is probably the exact opposite of what you see now. What you see is likely to damage the confidence you feel for your penis and could be contributing to the shame of it.
Surround yourself with media that reflect who and how you want to be. Watch pornography that shows diverse bodies, a wide variety of sexual behaviors and penises of different sizes. Shame of the penis exists in many men, and seeing small penises causing excitement and being erotic is good for your sexual and psychological health.
Sometimes penis that is larger may feel better, but there are things that a smaller penis can do better (it stimulates the prostate and G-spot much better than a larger penis). Being good in bed means being creative and when an erection is not available or a penis is not the desired size, then sex must use other resources, languages, fingers, and toys.
Part of fighting this is to stop following and stop supporting everything that makes you feel bad. This is not about demonizing those bodies; We support all sizes and shapes and the beauty of diversity and various sizes.
Do not change your body. Instead, change the people with whom you have sex, the pornography you look at and the ways you allow those around you to discuss the issue of body diversity. Find those who believe you are attractive as you already are!
After reading this article and learning so much more about your penis, we are sure you will be way more comfortable about it. All your questions and dilemmas have been solved, right? You are welcome!