If You Don't Know What is Sexting...
Not too long ago sexting was considered an activity for sexually starved, hot-blooded and hormones filled teenagers. But in recent years it has evolved into an art practiced by the majority of adults, it has become a standard for adult relationships as well. In fact, a recent study from Drexel University revealed that 80% of adults sext quite often. It was further revealed in the Journal Computers in Human Behavior that sexting is actually good for your emotional and sexual health. This alone is reason enough to start sexting if you.
If you decide to give it a try, here are some guiding rules you should take into account for the best impact and be secure in your sexting escapades.
Don’t reply too slowly
Responding to a sexy text long after it was sent is a total buzzkill, for sexting to be effective, you have to maintain the pace. It’s like having sex if you wait too long it gets cold and kills the mood.
Don’t write too much
Sexting is all about swift and dirty texts, no one gets horny reading long paragraphs( well maybe some weird people do) but most people don’t find it sexy. Make it snap so you can go back and forth in a few seconds.
For sexting to have the desired effect you have to use direct language, being shy or too vague can kill the mood. You have to try to communicate in a way that leaves little or no room for a misunderstanding, be explicit while leaving room for your partner’s imagination. If you and your lover know each other well enough you’ll know exactly how you can nuance being direct and mysterious at the same time.
Make sure you text the right person
Trust me you don’t want to be the girl /guy who accidentally sends a dirty text to their parents or their boss. We’ve all heard of such cases and how embarrassing they can be, so if you don’t want to start figuring out how you’ll face your parents or show up at work ever again, double-check the number before sending a sexual text.
Never send photos with your face
It is highly recommended never to send dirty photos with your face in them, no matter how much your boyfriend begs for it, just don’t. Even if you trust your partner with your life, their phone or yours can be hacked and your photos may land in the wrong hands. To be safe, refrain from showing your face in your nudes when sexting or video chatting.
How Sexting is Helpful in Social Isolation
Since the outbreak of the global pandemic, social distancing and cross country lockdown have become the new normal. Chances are if you and your partner don’t live together, you most likely can’t be with each other these days. Physical contact even with loved ones has become a luxury and everything is done remotely including sex. Video calls and sexting are the new ways in which couples who apart unwind and bond.
Sexting helps couples keep the flames burning in their relationship despite the social isolation, it is a good and safe way to release sexual tension for couples who are normally very active sexually. Lockdown doesn’t mean you should shut everything down and miss out on all the fun in your sex life.
In addition, sexting can serve as a way to build up the sexual energy between you and your boyfriend, it’s a kind of pre-foreplay you can use to build up desire before you get together with your partner.
For those who are shy, sexting is a great way to tell you're significant other what you want without all the awkwardness of doing so face to face. You get to share your fantasies, preferences, and show your dirty side without the fear of rejection.
During this social isolation, sexting may be just what you need to take your mind off the growing coronavirus situation, the stress in being stuck at home, financial insecurity, and everything else that has surfaced because of the pandemic.
To reduce the legwork we have come up with some of the sexiest and dirtiest sexting lines you can use right now to make your partner eager to ravage you when he sees you next. Thank you later.
35 Text Messages You Can So Use Them Right Now
Sexting can be a very powerful tool if used right, you have to find the perfect balance between sounding sexy and naughty without being too dirty. Sexting does not have to be XXX porn to be effective, it has to be explicit but also leave room for the imagination to kick in. To create an impact your partner won’t be forgetting anytime soon, incorporate personal memories, and inside jokes to personalize your texts and make them unique to your relationship.
Sexting is in sense sex for the mind and pre-foreplay for the body, the desired effect is to get your partner eagerly racing through the door to ravage you as soon as they can. And if you stick to these guidelines, by the end of the lockdown your significant other will be hornier than you could ever imagine.