Deciphering How Men Think About Love And Relationships

Rejection is the biggest fear that any men go through. The thought of getting humiliated by a girl pulls them down and restricts them from making the first move. Men are always on the lookout for that one gesture that ensures they will not be mortified for approaching the girl. Complexity is associated with the girls more than the boys, but the fact remains that boys are as complex as girls. They have their own inhibitions, expectations, and fear of performance. They have to behave a certain way so that no one questions their masculinity or lead their lives in a manner that doesn’t go against the cultural norms of the society. Don’t you think it’s immense pressure on them? They also feel like crying like a baby at times, and they too freak out when they have pimples, but they do that behind the closed doors. It is not manly to cry or be petrified to have pimples. Why, because the society has taught us that it is a girly thing to do.

Mostly, you will find men keeping it all simple and easy initially. Even if they like someone, they like to hold back their thoughts. Masculinity is a difficult term to understand, and for men, it is a very complicated performance. Men should stay away from being oversensitive; otherwise, there are chances that people will start doubting your orientation. Even if the men enjoyed sweet talk after making love they can only boast about his performance and not the conversation afterward because it is just not manly. So girls, next time when you are meeting a man for a date, or you like some guy at the party, then drop clear hints about your feelings. If you can make the first move, then nothing like that, but if you want the men to come up to you first, then give them the assurance that they won’t be humiliated or rejected. They are already under immense pressure, why make it worse? Here we will be helping you girls to decipher the thoughts of men about relationships and love.

Girls, if you have a big appétit, then go for it. Don’t think that the guy will think adversely about you! No, they won’t. Instead, they are fond of girls who are not fake. They fall for girls who wear their heart and soul on their sleeves. If you have a sweet tooth, then order for your favorite piece of dessert and share with him. Men hate it when they see that the girls are trying hard to gulp in the bland salad when they are actually craving for something fattening. Fakeness isn’t appealing as much as sincerity. So, next time when you see your hot guy staring at you when you are trying to enjoy your meal, just remember that these thoughts are running through his mind. He wants you to know that he would instead appreciate your honesty than your phony behavior.

Yes, we all know by now that the biggest fear any men ever had is the fear of rejection. No matter how big a dude he is, but when it comes to striking a conversation with a stranger, he suffers from anxiety. They are ready to pick you up or flag off the conversation, but only if you give then a tip off. As a girl, you can make life easier for men by giving out hints that will help them to initiate the conversation confidently.

While making love if you find your partner to be stressed out, then most probably he is. Your man is under the immense pressure of satiating your needs. He is clueless about your needs, so at times, you can take the lead and let them know that they are doing just fine. Once you lead the way and tell them what you are looking for, they will take it from there and will be more than happy to oblige you and make it an enjoyable experience for both of you.

Yes, men find it very difficult to lie in front of their girls when they ask for an opinion on something. They can’t think of better lines or for that matter a fabricated line to impress the love of their life. At times, they can be brutally honest with you and make you feel that they are rude, but in reality, they are upright with you. They think it is better to let you know the truth than allowing you to make a fool out of yourself in front of others. Fair enough, right? Don’t you think that an honest opinion is better than deceitful appreciation? Let us prove the men wrong by accepting criticism over flattery.

The men need some time off from a relationship, but that doesn’t mean they are calling off or they are bored with their love life. They love the company of their girl, but time spent with other men in the bar or at the club, helps them unwind. Don’t take it otherwise girls, as much as we love to spend time with our girlfriends, even men like their male bonding over a chilled beer.

Men find it really annoying when their girls ask them how they look. Men have a thing for attractive women. If they are taking an interest in a girl, then it means that she is charming and hot. Some men like girls who are skinny, whereas some prefer curves. But, the bottom line is, you are attractive in your own right, still if your girls feel that you need to change something about yourself, then go ahead and do it for your own self and not because you want to look attractive and hot for your man. He would really appreciate if you take care of yourself, but that doesn’t mean he wants you to change for him. If your man is asking you to do that, then it is time to bring in some change in your choice of man and not in your body.

Men and women have different roles to play in the society. Equality is a good thing, but men love it when they come home to his girl who will be there looking good and smelling nice. Yes, the feminist in us will scream about the regressive thinking, but when you give it a thought, you will realize that it is indeed beautiful. When you dress up or look good for the love of your life, you don’t become any less of a modern woman. Think about it on a positive note, why do we girls need to behave like men or do things like men to prove our point? Why can’t we behave like girls? Men actually love girls who can be hot, attractive, and at the same time can handle multiple tasks with élan. How will you feel if the men started behaving like us? We stare at men who behave like girls as it seems quite odd, so don’t you think that men will also stare in astonishment if we start behaving like them. They respect the feminine side of us, and the men find it really hot.

Men find it irresistible when girls dress up like a lady rather than a teenaged girl. They prefer gowns over skimpy dresses. Not only your love, but even the other men will also stare at you with due respect because of your elegant dressing sense. Yes, you have seen the men ogling at other women who are wearing skimpy dresses, but when it comes to respectful stare, you can only get that when you dress up properly, and this is the exact thought of men around the world.

To an extent, men also play along when girls act hard to get and give the women the importance they are looking for, but when things are stretched a bit too far, then the men give up easily. Men find it frustrating when girls like that. The men are ready for the waiting game, and they will give the women they love all the time they need to make a decision. But, once the decision is made, the men loathe the idea of chasing as they find it depressing. So, girls keep this in mind when you like a guy, don’t act too hard to get, else he might lose interest and give up on you.

Wearing a little makeup is fine, but if you are hiding behind the makeup, then it is a turn off for many men. They feel that you are projecting someone that you are not and it is not suitable for any relationship.

Men are already stressed out about relationships, love, and commitment, but if the girls understand them better, then they feel it more comfortable to commit. They value every relationship, but their way of handling relations and love is different from that of women. Though men seem casual in their approach towards love relationships, actually they are not. Men are damn serious and think about everybody around them with utmost care. Men take every single step after making a thorough analysis of the future impacts on the relationship if any. The man thinks about the relationship and is serious about you. He knows deep inside that he is lucky to have you in his life and how his life had changed for the better when your relationship started. But, when he is with his boys, he won’t admit this truth. Even when he is with you, he would rarely admit that, but you will have to understand this hidden truth and keep it to yourself. If you tease him or probe him on that, then he will most likely go to deny.