8 Signs To Know If a Scorpio Man Likes You Or Not

There’s nothing quite like the allure of a Scorpio man. They are intense and mysterious, two qualities that are sure to drive any woman mad with want but they also are a very sensuous species of male that constantly evokes that sexual feeling in you.

Trying to figure out whether a Scorpio man likes you or not can be one of the most confusing experiences you go through. By default, Scorpio males are notoriously mysterious and are good at hiding their thoughts if they don’t want you to know what they are thinking. But on the flip side, they give off subtle signs when they are into you and looking for more than just a casual friendship.

Known for his intensity and stamina when it comes to going after what he wants, a Scorpio man will pursue you relentlessly once he has you in his sights and wants to spend more time with you.

He likes the chase just as much as he enjoys the end result and the sexy way he approaches you will have you addicted to hi charm in no time. Some people tend to translate this to mean that he’s not sincere but don’t be fooled, this man is after your heart and he wants to make sure that he’s the only one that gets to keep it.

Remember when we said that Scorpio men are intense? This is what we mean. While any normal man may want something very basic from you, your Scorpio man will show interest in more than just what meets the eye. He will want to know all the little things that make you tick. He wants to get to the heart and soul of who you are. While most people would be uncomfortable revealing so much of themselves, this is an important step in his getting to know you so be ready for the deep dive into who you are. Don’t expect the same from him though, because Scorpio men are very private beings that mostly keep their inner thoughts to themselves.

Some of the things this man will do while showing interest honestly sound a bit like a stalker so don’t clock out too soon if you’re really interested in him. He has a natural-born ability to tell what people are thinking below the surface so he has the tendency to psycho-analyze his love interest’s’ thoughts and behaviors. He wants to understand all there is about you, emotional and psychological so he will observe you silently and patiently and sometimes it may even feel like he’s putting you through some test, but he’s just collecting data about you so be patient too and let him.

Scorpio men are sensual beings that believe in wholly expressing yourself sexually. Before he can make any decisions bout you, he needs to know that you two will vibe sexually so you may notice that he ups his sexy up a notch. He will flirt with you constantly to bring you even closer and make sure that you can match his sexual energy.

Your Scorpio man wants to be all the man you’ll ever need and so he’ll put himself in strategic positions to make sure he’s the one you run to for all your needs. He will create an environment where you feel safe and comfortable enough to share your secret thoughts and desires. The best part of this is that he will guard your secrets well and keep them close to his heart so you never feel like he could ever use them against you. He’ll be loyal and protective of you. At this point he really likes you and he’s laying the foundation for a long healthy relationship.

A Scorpio man’s time and money are his most valuable possessions as he works really hard for both and you won’t find him spending either one carelessly. When he’s into you, a Scorpio man will be more extravagant and will want to give you the best of everything. His gifts don’t have o be super expensive but he’ll come as close as he is able to make sure that you get the best and that goes for his time as well. He’ll want to spend quality time with you and he’ll clear his calendar for you any time.

We’ve discussed how a Scorpio male is mysterious and barely ever reveals anything about themselves but once he finds a girl he wants to e serious with, he starts revealing bits of himself and allowing her into his world- physically, mentally, and emotionally. He will let his guard down and you’ll notice him softening and being freer around you. He’ll also let go of some of his notorious controlling habits and let you take control.

You may have already deduced this with how much energy he puts into you but once he has his heart set on you, he won’t let the competition win. he will steal you away from your other male friends and make sure that your attention is kept on him. His animal instincts will kick in and he’ll be jealous and possessive of you. He wants you all to himself and will do everything in his power to make sure that you remain his.

On the flip side, if a Scorpio man isn’t interested or loses interest in you, he’ll be rather obvious about it as he doesn’t know how to pretend feelings into being and may seem nasty and even cruel.

Once he loses interest in you, he’ll become cold and distant, not wanting to spend any time with you. Time is one of this sign’s treasures and he won’t see the need of wasting it on you if it’s not going anywhere. He’ll also become distant as he does not have that much emotion to spare and does not see the need of pretending that he likes you.

If you ask for time together or act clingy, he may start acting a bit rash and rue with you, losing his temper around you, outright ignoring you, or being harsh in the way he speaks with you.

When a Scorpio man is into you, he calls and texts on a regular but he is otherwise known for not answering calls and texts. Once he loses interest in you, you cross over to the list of people he doesn’t see the need to communicate on a regular with. Ouch!

This is a sensual man, so you know your budding relationship is in jeopardy if he cools off sexually and doesn’t initiate or respond to physical intimacy. Sex and intimacy are really important to this sign as this is one of the ways they show interest so a lack of it represents the end of that particular relationship.

If it comes to your attention that a Scorpio man likes you and would like to pursue you, you should make it clear what you have in mind. If he senses indecisiveness or uncertainty, he may give up and try to create a connection elsewhere.

As you get to know each other and you begin forming a connection, you’ll get more insight into who he is and how you two interact. Interact with him on a personal level as this will also let him know that you’re interested in being more than friends.

He will want to let things play out in his own way so unless you’re completely sure that he wants you, as in, he’s made it clear that he’s interested in dating you, it’s best to let him take the reigns on your dates the first few dates. If you notice him relaxing and being more open, then you can ask him out.

Being into a Scorpio man will take patience and understanding from you because he’s going to take his time learning you but the pins-on-needles wait will be well worth it. Allow him into your mind when he needs an in and we promise this will be the most rewarding relationship ever!