Top 10 Ways To Make A Girl Come in Ways She Will Always Remember
Are you trying to figure out what will make your girl come? Find out 10 things you need to do to pleasure her- from the start to the end.
Jul 24, 2018
How To Make Your Girl Come Fast
You obviously know that an orgasm is crazy and sweet, but did you know that its benefits go beyond sexual pleasure? Orgasms are immune boosters, stress busters, sleep regulators, and emotional checkers. Wouldn’t you want your woman to enjoy these merits? If you can give her the ultimate pleasure regularly, her body will be accustomed to secreting pleasure hormones and so she will always give you positive responses. Apart from the hormonal reactions, your woman will show openness due to greater levels of emotional release. Now, the question is what are the secrets to making a girl come? It is important to understand that most women do not reach orgasms due to inadequate arousal. Without sexual stimulation, how do you expect her to climax? So, you have a long way to go brother, and the journey may not be successful in your first trial; but this post will guide you to make her reach the peak.
1. Build up desire
The precursor to an intimate act is sexual desire. Start with building sexual tension even before you meet her. If you know that you have a date late in the evening, why not send her flirty and naughty texts that will give her dirty thoughts throughout the day? The idea is to build sexual tension. Make her anticipate for the wildest sexual acts and she will be dying to get down with you. Orgasms happen first when the mind is set for them. She’ll let loose as soon as you start the foreplay.
2. Check her emotions
This is not a piece of cake, but you have to ensure that your girl is emotionally ready. Since you know he well, find a way to excite her. Even though sex is a physical activity, the first step is preconditioning a woman’s emotions and thought to lovemaking. To a woman, attaining an orgasm is an attitude. You have to make her believe that she will come. Next, let her relax. Deeper sexual pleasure is about willingness to swim into the unknown and no way can one do this without relaxing first. With her mindset ready for it, there’s no level the two of you can’t reach. You actually don’t need to touch her so she starts thinking about an orgasm. Study her brain waves and tell her some sweet words that will bring the kind of sensation that happens during an orgasm.
3. Do not hurry your girl
For you, climaxing is very easy but you should know that focusing only on a girl’s body will not give her ultimate sexual pleasure. You have to touch her mind as well. As soon as things start to heat up, help her relax because she might be nervous. She has a lot going in her mind - how she looks, if you are the right guy and whether she is risking or not. While you may take around ten minutes to come, your girl might need about 20 minutes or more. To close this arousal gap, slow things down, right from the beginning. The key is in making the foreplay last longer. If you make love to her too fast, she might think that you don’t care about her at all. Unless you delay your ejaculation, a girl will take longer to climax than you. Make sure she’s warmed up before you start penetrating and she will always come for more.
4. Your girl needs to feel safe with you
For a girl to enjoy intimacy to the fullest, she must be comfortable with you. Touch her in a way she feels protected and not violated. Put your arm around her waist to guide her wherever you are headed; then pull her close to keep her away from dangerous passersby. If you are having some alone time, hold her in a manner that shows how much you care about her and that you want her safe. Ask her if she is okay more often and whether she needs anything. Apart from physical safety, she needs to feel emotionally secure. Here we go again, girls are complicated. You have to make her see that you really like her personality so that she can be free around you. You have a huge task here; treat her like an egg. She would feel better knowing that you like her for who she actually is. That’s when she can relax and consequently, her sexuality will emerge.
5. Arouse her with body language
To make a girl come starts by turning her on. You need to use both your words and body language. Start with sexy looks to make her a little nervous. There is a certain way you should look at her which is different from other men, In simple terms, look at her with a warm and sexual appreciation. If she is dressed in lingerie, look at her with a loving desire. Then, talk nicely to her; let your words emphasize what you are doing to her with your eyes and hands. Let your body tell how much she turns you on. Touch her in a way that conveys the message that she is beautiful, interesting, and sexy. Let her feel how hard you are for her and that you can’t stop staring at her gorgeous body. Your non-verbal cues should engage her mind so she feels desired.
6. Breast stimulation
A woman gets a lot of sexual stimulation from her boobs. Don’t just grab her breasts but only caress them and you must do it well. Be gentle as you play with her nipples where there are a lot of nerve endings. You might want to suck her breasts but please do not do it like a baby. To increase the stimulation, lick her boobs through the cleavage and make them wet. It would be easier and sweeter to rub her breasts when slippery. Make sure they become such that she can’t control her urge. Check her submissive responses to know when she is ready for penetration. But don’t give it to her yet; you still have a long way to go down on her.
7. Make her come with sensual touches
Make your girl go crazy with sensual touches. Glide your fingertips down her curvaceous body parts like the hips and lower back. Kiss her neck, behind the ears, forehead, cheeks, and lips to make her horny. Grab her and squeeze her lower back, working your way down her thighs, legs, and ankles. Let your hands tease her by moving around her belly. Rub, caress, kiss, squeeze, and nibble her every sensual part. Be passionate as if it’s your only chance. Sensual touches show how much you desire her. If she feels desired, there is only one thing she will have on her mind- an orgasm. Show your full control in lovemaking and she will submit to you. Control her body without acting like a bully. Hold her in place, lift her legs, turn her towards you and turn her over. She will not resist because she has you in full control. Massage her slowly and she will surrender for an orgasm.
8. Make her wet so she can come fast
If you have a problem with coming too fast, this is the secret ingredient you need in you intimacy session. The best part to stimulate her wetness is the clitoris. Use your fingers and tongue. She will love your warm sensation and scream with pleasure. Occasionally, whisper dirty words into her ears and she will get close to orgasm within no time. Use your two fingers to rub her upper vaginal wall and give her some oral pleasure simultaneously. Putting some pressure on her G-spot will get her juices flowing. If you didn’t know, the clitoris is the gateway to orgasm. Nothing makes a woman scream with pleasure like a clitoral orgasm. So, no matter what efforts you put in, without putting pressure on her clitoris, she won’t reach the climax. This is the reason most women love the missionary position because your lower pelvis puts pressure on her clitoris, rubbing it hard with the up and down stroking motion.
9. Let your girl get on top
A confident woman knows how to get herself off when she’s on top of her man. As she takes the cowgirl position, note her movements and try to reciprocate them when you get on top of her. She is more likely to ride herself fast into orgasm when on top of you. Then you can choose your favorite position after she hits the climax. Note that every woman has her favorite position; make sure you ask your girl which one makes her scream with pleasure. Some positions can give her pleasure but not orgasms- find out her ultimate position. While she is on top, spank her sexy parts, and caress her breast simultaneously. Make her crazy by looking deep into her eyes and you’ll enjoy the ride too. Don’t forget to ask her how she likes it and she will direct you. Assure her that you are not coming before she does. In no time she will be vibrating with orgasmic pleasure.
10. Make her come multiple times
Most of the time, penetrative sex is not enough to make a woman scream. There has to be a clitoral stimulation throughout the intercourse. This is how your girl can attain full and even multiple orgasms. As mentioned before, an orgasm has a lot of benefits. How about multiple orgasms? Sometimes, you don’t need to try outrageous sex position; even the common ones can work. Deeper vaginal orgasms are a deep state of release whereby a woman needs to feel that she is on a similar wavelength as her man. Maintain eye contact to increase the orgasmic intercourse. Once she reaches her first orgasm, the doors open for multiple climaxes. So, it is possible to take her through the first, second, and third orgasm. There is no limit. You just have to practice it and engage in more enjoyable sexual activities
Conclusion
The inability to make your girl come is one of the worst forms of deprivation you can take her through in your relationship. The first step to giving your woman an orgasm is preparing her psychologically. It is your duty as a man to set her mentality for intimacy. Let your girl know that you can make her go crazy and after the first round, she will be begging you for another shot. Learn what turns her on, take it slow, and be in full control. If you can make her scream with orgasmic pleasure before you come, it means you are selfless. So, be generous and let her climax. She will never want to be with any other guy.