10 Infallible Ways To Get Your Crush To Ask You Out
Are you looking for ways to make your crush ask you out? Don't worry, here are 10 infallible ways to get your crush to ask you out.
Jul 24, 2018
What to do to make your crush ask you out
So you have found an interesting guy on whom you have a special crush. And of course, you want him to ask you out and spend some splendid time with this guy and if possible also flirt with him. But all this will happen only if your crush will ask you out. But before the two of you actually go out and start entertaining each other by going to prom or dinner, it is important to convince him that you are the special one for him. You can find several ways that can help you in making your crush ask you out. However, the most important thing is to make sure whether it works or not on your crush. You must keep one thing in your mind, to never show that you have a crush on him. Let your crush figure out that you are interested in him. However, don’t let your crush think that you need him, at least until he starts responding to your moves. Guys want to ask the girl they are interested in out. However, if they become conscious that the girl likes them more compared to them, they start taking it easy to see what she is going to do about it. This is something you must avoid and never forget. You are not going to get this guy out of your mind until you have spent some time with him. So here are a few tips that will make your crush ask you out.
How can you get your crush ask you out?
Girls need to do two things in order to attract a guy and to make him ask them out. The first thing is to drop a few hints that you are interested in them. Second, you must become someone whom they desire to have in their life. You must drop a few signs so that they can start looking at you as their potential dating partner. Sometimes, guys assume that the girl they are interested will never have interest in being more than a friend with them. These are a few useful tips that will help you so that you show your romantic side to them and they see you as their potential dating partner.
1. Text Your Crush All Day
Well, that does sound a bit overwhelming and odd but if you are truly charmed by this person then you should do anything and everything to convince him to ask you out. If he really likes you, he will definitely feel special when you double or triple text him. It means that you are constantly thinking of him all the time. Do not be discouraged if he does not reply to your texts immediately. It is quite possible that your crush is too busy to reply or simply does not have your number.
2. Add Your Crush On Snapchat
Once your guy replies back you can immediately send him your picture on the Snapchat and also of the location where you are with a caption, “bored.” It is quite possible that he may not respond immediately and ask you out or flirt with you on social network. Even then, try not to get discouraged and keep on sending this guy your snaps to convince him about your interest in him.
3. Try To Go Everywhere Where Your Crush Goes
Make sure that this person sees you everywhere where he is, be it at a baseball game or a prom dance. It will tempt him to ask you out. Make sure you attend most of the parties, philanthropy events, and intramural games where this guy is most likely to go. If you overhear him talking about going to a particular concert, you too go there so that he feels interested and asks you out. If you are looking for a way how you can see or meet your crush that looks like a coincidence, not like you are following him on purpose, then switching your route can be a good idea. It will be a great way to catch up with him and squeeze in a small and quick conversation with him. However, you must always keep it in mind not to switch your every single route. You don’t want him to feel that you are following him everywhere. It will be a sweet thing for you as well as for him if you can see him once a day.
4. Tempt Him To Ask You Out By Wearing Eye-Catching Outfits
You can wear bright and bold prints to attract the attention of your crush so that he becomes eager to ask you out. You can convince him about his interest in you by wearing the colors he likes. You can find out his taste about clothes and colors by checking out on his social media accounts as well as from any friends you might have in common. You must spend a bit of extra time on picking out an outfit if you know that you will see your crush. You can also try a different hairstyle. However, keep in mind not to be too fancy or go all out. Doing something different will help you to stand out, as well as catching the attention of your crush.
5. Make Him Ask You Out With Direct Eye-Contact
When you stare right into the eyes of a guy and lightly flirt with him, he surely understands what you are suggesting. He may take time to show his interest but once you manage to convince him with your direct eye-contact he will surely make a move to ask you out to that special prom night. All you need at such times is a high level of confidence and lots of patience.
6. Compliment Your Crush
Once you are on talking terms, you can make a move by complimenting your crush. You can talk about his looks, his beautiful dressing sense, eyes or hairstyle or even perfume. But make sure that you continue complimenting and praising this guy so that he is driven nuts about you and decides to ask you out. More often, boys have soft spot for their mothers. So, if you compliment his mother or praise her dressing style, it will make him happy and he may ask you out.
7. Make Your Friend Call You Both A Couple To Suggest He Should Ask You Out
That is a bolder step. But when your friend will call you both a couple it will indicate that everyone believes that you are already going out and dating each other. So this may well encourage him to ask you out. Make sure that this move comes out naturally so that your crush does not suspect a thing. It can be something like, “Don’t these two make a cute couple?” Although it is a bit awkward statement, he will surely get the cue and may ask you out when you two are alone.
8. Make A Friend Tease Him
You can always get help from your best friend to make him ask you out. After all, what are friends for? Make your friend follow a bit of strategy to encourage your crush to ask you out. The next time when you people are making a conversation ask your friend to butt in and straightaway make a comment about him liking you and whether he is going to ask you out or not. If things do not turn out the way you want, your friend can always make a joke of it.
9. What Are Your Weekend Plans?
Yes, the weekend is the time when your man will be having a bit of free time off work and this is the right time to impress upon his mind about your special feeling for him. You can ask your crush what he does for the weekend and even fake a surprise telling him that you too love to do the same thing. If you are not very sure of what your crush likes to do during a weekend, you can always suggest to him a few things, such as going to a dance. Suggest to him to ask you out for that dance.
10. Fake Some Distress Or Anxiety To Make Him Ask You Out
Which guy would leave a girl in distress all alone? You can always fake such things but make sure that you convince him that the whole thing is real. Ask your crush whether he can fix a wooden panel or some problem with your plumbing. When you spend more time together you can flirt with him and coax your crush to ask you out.
Always, you don’t want to do anything unnecessary. At the same time, you don’t want to make yourself look super desperate. Always remember you aren’t the one who is desperate. Don’t get overwhelmed, just keep in mind that they should like you for what you are not what you are pretending to be. Don’t overdo anything that won’t work; it may ruin everything. Just be yourself. Honestly, this is one of the key components of getting a guy to ask you out. The most important thing is their feelings towards you. If you pretend to be what your crush likes or they are interested in, you won’t be comfortable around them. Being yourself doesn’t mean to reveal everything about you. You must not reveal too much about yourself. Keep some mystery about you. You indeed don’t want to open up everything. Keep something about yourself secret that you can reveal when you go out on your first date. In this context, the thing that matters the most is your attitude. If you have a terrible attitude while trying to get a guy to ask you out, certainly they won’t take the bait. It is essential for you to give off good vibes and be positive so that you can achieve what you desire. The tips as mentioned above are great ways to create a stronger relationship and build more intimacy between you and your crush. However, you must also remember to create a constant and right sexual tension between you and your crush so that neither of you falls into the stressful friend zone. You must try these moves if you are looking for a way to make your crush ask you out. There is the great possibility that it will work and both of you will come closer.