Is He Or Is He Not: 25 Ways To Test If He's The One

When you are in love, you feel that your partner is the one for you. It seldom happens that you come across someone with whom you get the feeling of an instant connection. Something clicks from inside and you know instantly that he is your soulmate and that you both are made for each other. While there are so many crazy theories to finding your soulmate, the one mentioned above leaves you very confusing. If you do not find yourself that connected to your partner, then you start doubting the longevity of your relationship. Another theory focuses on 'Opposites attract'. But how do you get along with someone who has all the opposite tastes than you? What if you fight a lot with your man? Will you both be happy with your relationship? You obviously do not want to end up in a divorce or a heart break and hence you think so much about your relationship. You are not here to have a casual affair. You want constancy and ever-lasting love. So how do you depict that he is the one for you? Some often complain of never hearing that clicking sound within after meeting their partners. Well, even if the universe does not come down to give you an affirmation, there are some signs that will help you to test that he is the one for you.

You have got to grab such a man and never let him go. In the happiest of relationships also, there are partners complaining that they don't care much about each other's work or career. A guy who constantly brags about you to his friends over your promotion or your cooking or your other qualities is clearly besotted with you. You two can never have any ego clash as he appears to be your biggest fan.

A man who may not be ready to forsake his career because of you may not be wrong in the relationship but if you are lucky enough to find someone who makes sacrifices to keep you happy then you should know that he is the one for you. A relationship is all about give and take. You too equally make sacrifices for this wonderful man and together you both can lead a very happy life keeping in mind each other's priorities.

Even after many years of the relationship, if you man still does small tasks that prove his chivalry towards you then he is definitely the one for you. He will open doors for you; wait for you to finish your meal, help you with your coat and other such gallant behavior shows his gentlemanly qualities.

This is very important if you intend to raise a family with your love. You both need to have a similar thought process and similar ethics and principles in life else it will be very difficult to live happily together. You should discuss your family goals before planning to settle down with your man.

This is a very important factor to mark your happiness in the relationship. Any guy who tries to change you and your personality clearly does not have any true feelings for you. He has an image of you in his mind and he wants you to become that. He is not in love with the person that you are actually. If you see no such signs in your guy and instead find that he tries to bring about the best in you then he is your soulmate.

Now this is a very crucial point to notice. If you see your beau always talking about elaborate wedding plans and not much about life after marriage, then you have got to be careful. He might be chivalrous towards you and might also think alike but it could be that he is more of a society conscious person than truly in love with you. There is a very thin line here and you should try and talk to him about your future than tying the knot too soon.

You don't only just write or tell him that you miss him, you feel it from within. You always wish he was with you. You get this strange feeling of emptiness when he is not around even in a room full of people.

A true relationship and true love craves some alone time with each other. Without spending some time alone with him every day, you feel incomplete. It may not always be sex but still, you need that time with him and all of him to yourself every day for sometime.

You both survived a long-distance relationship quite well. You feel the same for each other even after months or years of living apart. You have been in constant touch with him while he was away and felt the need to tell him everything.

If you have something nice or something sad to discuss, he is the first person that comes to your mind. You have to tell him the smallest thing happening in your life else you feel restless. This is a sign of true love when you need the person in your life completely.

If your guy books vacations or events after 6 months or even after a year, then he has all the intentions of staying with you forever. In his mind, you both are already one and now you live your life planning your future.

You can cry, scream and even throw a tantrum in front of him without feeling embarrassed or ashamed of yourself. He has seen you in your worst and loved you in spite of all. He is the one for you and your true soulmate for sure.

You feel too satisfied with his ways and habits and there is not much that you feel like complaining about him. Even in a group, when your friends complain about their partners you sit quietly because you don't have much to contribute.

If your guy has introduced you to his family and has been too eager to meet yours then it is a clear sign that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. One does not make family connections if it is just a casual affair.

If your guy is right for you, then he will care about your friends too. He will be eager to know all your friends and also try to make cordial relations with them. Such a guy is right for you as he cares about your friends too.

If he knows your mood swings and also lets you vent out, then he cares for you deeply and you should never let him go. He is your true soulmate and he really understands you. He is the only one who seems right to talk to when you are upset. He also tries his best to soothe you and comfort you.

Even after years or months of being in a relationship, he never stops complimenting you. He notices your clothes and even the slightest change in your hairstyle. He is totally into you and you are into him.

You love to travel with him and you see the same excitement in him for traveling with you. He just likes your company no matter what. You both make travel plans to exotic locations and love spending time with each other. You do a lot of adventure and thrilling activities together and even enjoy strolling on the beach together.

He works hard but you are always his first priority and he is always available for you. No matter how busy he is in his job, he always takes out time for you. You are the most important person for him and you feel the same way about him. You cannot even imagine a life without him.

Even if it is his fault, mostly he is the first one to make up for a fight because he values his relationship with you more than his own ego. Fighting is very healthy in a relationship and he makes sure that you both make up quickly and forget your fight. A fight between both of you does not linger around and he makes sure that both of you are back to normal quickly.

You don't think twice before asking him a favor and he doesn't mind running errands for you. It is almost like you both live like husband and wife. He takes care of the gas in your car and you take care of the groceries. Everything between both of you is kind of divided.

You both never seem to run out of topics to talk about. You both are each other's best company and the only company you both crave for. You both can spend hours chatting on the phone.

He always tries to make your birthdays and your anniversaries special. These dates matter a lot to him and he makes sure that both of you celebrate the occasion together. He pampers you with gifts.

He is always there for you but he makes you feel needed too. It is not a one-sided relationship but he demands your time and your attention too. He wants to discuss everything happening in his life with you and gets upset if you do not give him time.

He makes an effort to make your sex life very exciting and thrilling catering it to your tastes and needs. You enjoy having sex with him too and always look forward to it.

If your man has all or even 20 of the above mentioned qualities, then he is absolutely right for you and there is no doubt that he is the one for you.