How To Master The "Woman On Top": The Best Sex Positions To Ride A Man

What is the ultimate sex technique for the "woman on top"? Here is a list of the best positions and how to master the "woman on top"!

By Maxine
How To Master The "Woman On Top": The Best Sex Positions To Ride A Man

Woman on Top: The Best Position?

Now is the time ladies! It's time to show those partners of ours exactly WHO IS ON TOP! For centuries, women were taught that they should be submissive to their partners and always be on the bottom, and never on top. It is now time to take the reigns and take control, for all the strong women out there! It's time for us women to be sexually dominant and not just lie on our backs anymore! Who just wants to be in one boring position all the time anyway? It's always a good thing to switch things up and add variety into the bedroom. Not only will you feel more in control of things when being on top, but you may also be able to reach multiple orgasmic heights. There are many different positions that you can try out with your partner, of course besides the "woman on top" position. Researchers have conducted a poll of the different positions out there that men love as well. Here is a list of a few positions that women have ranked: 1. Missionary 2. Cowgirl 3. Doggystyle But what is the best position for a woman who is ready to take on a new and different position, but may have only tried the boring missionary position (it's okay, you're not alone). There are many different positions that you can try on top that will blow you and your partner away. Are you ready to dive in and be a little bit more sexually adventurous? Go ahead and try one of them out!

“Sex is… perfectly natural. It’s something that’s pleasurable. It’s enjoyable and it enhances a relationship. So why don’t we learn as much as we can about it and become comfortable with ourselves as sexual human beings because we are all sexual?” –– Sue Johanson

Techniques on Top

Women are done with being underneath men. There is a shift of power in the air. More and more women are exploring themselves, stepping up, speaking out, and taking claim of their sexuality! Women are becoming more dominant, in the workplace, in the entertainment industry, in politics, their personal lives, and all other aspects! There are so many benefits of being on top, not only for you but for your partner as well. Now is the time for you to embrace your sexuality and try out new experiences and also new sex positions. One position that can help you get into the mood of being a powerful and strong woman that you are, is the "Woman on Top" position, or also known as the "Cowgirl" position. Not only does being on top allow you to control the physical speed as well as how far inside he penetrates you. Your partner will love this position as well because they will be able to touch and see your body as you are riding him. One of the best ways for you to start off in this position is to be sure that you are already turned on and ready to go. Be sure that you have him either laying down or sitting up with his erection pointing upwards. Now that he is ready, relaxed, and all set for you, take your time to straddle him with each leg on both sides of him and insert and position his penis inside your vagina. Once he is inside, you can adjust the depth and the speed that he goes inside of you. Just be sure that your knees are on the opposite sides of his hips, and that you can hover your vagina right over the head of his penis. This way you can ease yourself right down on his penis at your own leisure, speed, and depth. You are in control of the situation and in control of your pleasure, so don't be shy to open yourself up to it and use it! This position is also one of the top sexual positions for women who have difficulty with reaching orgasms as well as those who suffer from vaginismus, which is an involuntary contraction of the vagina muscles that can potentially harm the penis.

Quick Tip

If you need a little bit more help with spicing things up, or with the position "girl on top", try a vibrating cock ring. This is a sex toy that you can slide on the shaft of his penis, and there is usually an option where you can set the vibration from low to high speeds. Slip this magical toy onto his penis and start riding him. This will help him stay hard and also will help sexually stimulate your clitoris.

"Being on top offers more gratification than other sex positions because it lets you feel close to your partner and puts you in charge of your own pleasure,"

There are many benefits of being on top.

The Pros and Cons of the "Woman on Top"

Of course, with any type of strenuous activity, it could cause injury if you are not careful. Sexual activity can be dangerous as well, and here are a few pros and cons for the "woman on top" position. Below is a quick list as a reminder!


-Let the woman control the speed. -Let the woman control the depth. -Give access to other parts of the body for both partners. -He can relax a little if he has been on top for a while. -You can use toys while on top. (Use a vibrator or you can slip a cock ring with a vibrator on it to stimulate your clitoris.) -You don't have to be super flexible for this position. All you have to do is straddle him and sit down on his lap. -This position is a pretty universal one where you can do it in a car, bed, a couch, and places that are comfortable where he can lay down and you can be on top of him.


-There can be a risk of some injury during this position if you are not careful. -If his penis is too small he can end up slipping out of you. -The woman has to do most of the work. -You exert a lot of energy, so make sure you are well rested before hopping on top. -Have a hair tie. You are going to get hot and sweaty, and it might bother you if it's flying in your face and getting in the way of you kissing him.

Woman on Top: Confidence

Don't worry if you don't feel as confident or are a little bit nervous. In this position, you are the one who is in control. It's time for you to get your assertive aggressive side out. No need to feel self-conscious, seeing you take control while you're on top of him is going to take him over the edge. If you feel as though you might be a little bit on the shy side and are a little bit self-conscious at first, there are a few tips that can help you get into that type of mindset, and remember it's all about attitude! Just remember to be yourself, no need to go completely over the top. He is already going to think it's super hot that you are on top! There are a few things that you can do to loosen yourself up and relax to get yourself in the mood. And don't worry, he's probably as nervous as you are if this is a new position for the both of you. To relax even more and get you into the right mindset, one thing you can do is to try to dress yourself up a bit. Put on something that makes you feel beautiful to help. It can be a certain shade of lipstick, a piece of clothing, jewelry or even lotion to help you feel sexual and sensual and then get to it.


Best Positions and favorite positions.

What is your favorite position?

The Best Positions for a Man

According to many polls and case studies, there are a few positions that men rank as their favorites which include the following.


The highest ranked position is, of course, the "woman on top" position, also known as "cowgirl" style. Many men state that in this position, it's easier for them to last long and they also love to be able to see your face while you are riding him and during climax. To get in this position, make sure that you are sitting on top of him with both of your knees on either sides of his hips.

Reverse Cowgirl

This is the second-ranked position that men love, with him lying on his back, while you're riding on top of him will give him a great view of your butt and also a chance for him to grab a big handful too. To accomplish this position, just do the same thing that you did while you were positioning yourself on top and just make sure that you are facing away from him instead of looking directly at him. In this position you are still in control, just focus on relaxing and have fun!

Doggy Style

In this position, you will be on your hands and knees facing away from him. He will then get behind you and penetrate you. This position can be a little intimidating for some, but if you are nice and relaxed it can open you up to a different feeling. Both men and women have rated this one as a great one. While he is behind you thrusting, you can instruct him to go faster or harder. So take some time and try it out! But most of all, remember the "Golden Rule", "Relax!". It never hurts to try something new and different with your partner, as long as the two of you are on the same page with each other. Go ahead and explore it together and try things out! It could even bring the two of you closer, and best of all, you might like it!

The Best Positions for a Woman

There are a few positions that women have ranked that they say are their favorites. Here is a sexy list below of them and how to attain them.


This is pretty much the go-to type of position for everyone, with the woman lying down and the man is on top. This is a great position for women who want to just lay back and relax. Also during this position, you can stimulate yourself while he is on top of you. You can roam your hands where you can rub and stimulate your breasts and nipples as well as your clitoris.


This position is great for not only showing your dominant side, but it also is great for helping you climax. This sexy position allows you to grind on him and get that stimulation for your clitoris. While he is lying down you can also use your arms and hands to touch, stimulate his nipples and pin him down with your hands if you are really wanting to be dominant.

Doggy Style

This position is great for those who want to try something different (if you have only done missionary and "girl on top" positions, this is an easy one to try first). For women who are a little bit more sexually adventurous, this is a great position to try out for yourself. All you need to do for this one is be on your hands and knees while he enters you from behind. During this, you can stimulate yourself using your hands on your clitoris, breasts, and nipples.

Risk of "Woman on Top" Position

Even though this is one of the best positions for both partners, there can be some downside if you aren't too careful. Scientists have found out that most penile injuries are the result of this position. Be sure that you take your time in this position and you're not rushing because you might be a little bit anxious or focusing a bit too much on trying to orgasm. Just be careful that you are also paying attention to your partner as well while you are riding "cowgirl" style. Quick Tip: Slow down and Relax.


Get on Top!

Be feisty on top!

Why Men Love the "Woman on Top" Position

This position can be very sexually arousing for both you and your partner. In the case of men, they are very visual creatures and like to be able to grab and touch their partner during sex. Being able to see your body while you are riding him can send him right over the edge. While you are riding him, he can roam his hands on your breasts and stimulate your nipples as well as travel his hands to your clitoris for extra stimulation for you and could send you right on over to climax-town. One good reason your partner will love this position as well is because he will also be able to grab and caress your butt. He can also pull you close and massage your butt while you're riding him, having him pull you close can help stimulate your clitoris by rubbing up against his lower abdomen. Which will feel amazing for you as well as him caressing his butt? Think, a sensual and sexy butt massage leaving you tingly all over. As stated before, men are very visual, especially when it comes to sex. The fact that you are on top riding him and he is able to see all of you will get him going. He will be able to see himself penetrate you as well as your breasts moving up and down.

Just the Tip: Quick Tips and Tricks!

The goal for the "girl on top" position is for to you be more in control of your body and your pleasure. No need to be shy, while he is lying down and you're riding him, he is going to think that you are a complete sex goddess! Remember, men are very visual creatures, so being able to watch your face, seeing you take control and being able to watch your body (especially your breasts) is going to make him so hot! Also, remember that you don't have to be a porn star to get this move down. Take your time and go at your own pace and rhythm. The angles and positions that many porn stars are in, are for show and to be able to see the action (penetration) better for the camera. There are a few ways that you can make the "girl on top" position even hotter. When he is lying underneath you and has a great view of your breasts, use your hands to play with them and enjoy having fun by sexually stimulating your nipples and breasts and have him watch. Being able to visually see you get turned on, being in control of your own pleasure and watching your nipples get hard will really turn him on. Another great tip that will please the both of you, is when you are lying on top of him in position, start to lie down on his chest while you are riding him. Doing this will help you reach orgasm because of the clitoris stimulation that you will have and he will enjoy feeling your breasts and nipples rubbing up against his chest too. You can also add extra hotness to this position by squeezing your legs together, doing so will also squeeze your pelvic muscles and will create more friction between the penis and the clitoris.