10 Sexiest Tips: How To Please A Man With Your Hands

It's no secret that hands can be a useful tool in the bedroom. Using your hands to please a man is not only super sexy for him, but it can be satisfying for you too. Touching his body all over will turn you on while you get him off and you'll both be pleased by the end of it. Try these ten sexy tips to please your boyfriend with your hands that are sure to satisfy both of you and turn up the heat in bed.

Hands aren't just good for touching things; they're great for holding things too: like a pen. Get things started emotionally by writing him a sexy note and leaving it for him in the morning before he goes to work. Outline all of the things you want to do with your hands, and other parts of your body, when you get home. Your boyfriend will spend the entire day emotionally invested in getting you to bed. Sign the hand written note with a lipstick kiss to really turn him on. Then, prepare to sexually satisfy him while he thinks about how he's going to satisfy you. The sexy love note is a win for both of you.

Who doesn't love a nice massage after a hard day at work? Your boyfriend will definitely love the attention and you have an excuse to touch his body from head to toe. Start with a simple neck/shoulder rub, fully clothed. When he tells you your hands feel nice, suggest moving things to the bed so you can satisfy his whole body. Once he's on the bed, only his shirt off, have him lie face down on a pillow and work your way from his shoulders down his back. If you have massage oil, or want to pick some up for this purpose, now would be a good time to lather him up. The oil will only amplify the sensation. You don't have to be a professional masseuse to give your boyfriend a full body massage. Once you've given his back and shoulders ample attention, it's time to move a bit lower. Take off his pants and have him lie back down. Avoid touching him sexually until the last possible second. That way you build up as much tension as possible before finally working your way to the front of his body. Spend time massaging his butt and the backs of his legs until he can't take it anymore. Once you tell him to flip over, straddle him and move back up to his shoulders and chest before finally massaging the area below the belt. Don't go full on hand job during the massage. Save that buildup for later on. This sexy hands on massage is a great way to sexually stimulate him before full on sex. Don't forget to make sure he returns the favor, too!

One of the easiest and best ways to satisfy your man with your hands is by running your fingers through his hair. You can do this randomly in the morning while you're making breakfast together; just slide your fingers through his hair. It's a total turn on for most guys! Running your fingers through his hair is a must when kissing, especially when the kissing is a precursor to sex. Also keep your hands in his hair when he's going down on you or when he's sliding in and out of you in bed. You'll both love how it feels with your fingers in his hair. Give it a little tug every once in a while for added stimulation.

Possibly even better than the sexy massage is the casual touch! Whenever you're near your boyfriend, especially when you're not in bed, give him a little touch. Run your fingers up and down his arm while he talks. Put your hand on his chest when you kiss. Squeeze his shoulder as you walk by. These small touches please a guy emotionally because whenever you're hands are on him, he knows you're thinking about him and that you care. It pleases him sexually because a well-placed, and well timed, touch is perfect foreplay. Teasing his arm with your finger will distract him from his train of thought and probably lead you both to the bedroom pretty quickly. Make it a point to casually touch your boyfriend with your hands regularly, but not so much so that it loses its impact. Keep it sexy, not boring! You want to maintain the impact you have emotionally and sexually, so finding the right balance is key!

Please your man during sex by putting your hands on every inch of your body. Once you've given him a massage, you're more aware of the different parts of his body that he likes touched the most. Focus on those. If your hands on his inner thighs make him shiver, spend a little extra time there. Also pinch, pull, and stimulate his nipples (and kiss them, too). A guy's nipples can be just as sensitive as a girl's but we don't give them as much attention as they deserve. While you're exploring his body with your hands, make sure to spend some time with his nipples. He'll love how your hands feel while you please him in that way. Sliding your hands over his naked body will turn both of you on, so it's a great thing to do for foreplay.

The most obvious way to use your hands to please your man would be to give him a hand job. It doesn't have to be as simple as just jerking him off, though. Experiment with exciting new ways to use your hands on him. Use both of your hands and make sure to give attention to the full penis, not just the shaft. Play with his balls and run your fingers over the tip. He'll love the hands on attention and you'll love to see how great you can make him feel. Make sure to experiment with speed and pressure until you've found the right groove. Switch up your hand placement to add to his pleasure.

A blow job is not limited to only using your mouth. Use your hands to pump his shaft while you take as much of him as you can into your mouth. This can relieve some pressure on your end and prevent you from constantly joking, and it can also change up the sensation for him and really turn him on. Also use your hands to stimulate his balls while you're sucking the rest of him. Or, use your mouth on his balls and your hands on his shaft. Switching things up will only increase his pleasure. The same guidelines as for a hand job apply when you're using your hands during a blow job. Change up the speed and pressure to make things more interesting for the both of you. You can also use your hands to touch other parts of his body - like his nipples - while you go down on him. Keep your hands on him at all times during the blow job - he'll love it!

You are a puppet and your guy is your master. Let him guide your hands to wherever he wants them to go. This is especially sexy if you let him guide your hands during the blow/hand job you're giving him. It's a great way to learn what he likes in terms of speed and pressure because he's right there showing you how he likes it done. He may also put your hands on parts of his body you didn't know he liked having touched. Just like you have to guide him in pleasuring you, sometimes he has to guide you in how to best pleasure him. You can still do most of the work, but having his hands decide what yours do will be a fun and sexy exercise for both of you to try.

When you're having sex in a girl on top position, having something to hold on to is a good idea. Use your hands to grip his shoulders or upper arms while you ride him. Show him how much you like feeling him inside of you by squeezing him with each thrust. Running your hands up and down his arms, shoulders, and chest also gives you something to do with your hands and will totally turn him on. Playing with his nipples or balls while you're on top is also a way to please him with your hands during sex. The added stimulation beyond the intercourse will help both of you reach maximum pleasure.

Sit down with your guy and have a discussion about sexual preferences. Bring up the subject of using your hands to stimulate his butt while you're having sex. Some guys are opposed to exploring that particular sexual stimulation, but many will be all for it. A guy's butt can be as sensitive as his penis and using your hands to please him from behind while you're pleasuring him from the front is double the sensation for him. Find out if he ever uses his own hands in this way when he's masturbating. If he does, ask what he likes and doesn't like and try to recreate the good stuff. If he doesn't, experiment together with how deep your fingers should go and how to find the best pleasure spots for a guy.

You have hands so you may as well use them! You and your guy will love trying out these ten sexy tips for extra pleasure inside and outside of the bedroom. Using your hands to please a guy is fun and satisfying for both of you!