25 Places To Meet Single & Available Men For Women
There are plenty of hot, single men out there. There are a number of places women seeking men need to look at because that's where single men hang out.
Jul 24, 2018
Where to meet men?
It’s about time women stopped asking where all the good single men have disappeared! They need to open their eyes and find them. There are plenty of good single men whichever way you look. Therefore, finding the perfect one shouldn’t really be a problem. Also, there are specific places that single men are more likely to hang out and those are the places you ought to look at as well. Visiting such places will definitely increase the chances of you meeting the single men of your dream. You should bear in mind that a lot of single men are either looking to travel a lot, build their dreams or are just looking to be happy. Bear that in mind and you’ll mingle with so many single men that you’ll definitely be spoilt for choice. Here are some of the places you can visit today!
1. Meet hot single men at holiday parties
As hinted in the introduction, a lot of single men just want to have as much fun as they build their lives. It’s therefore quite easy for you to spot them getting down at holiday parties, relaxing or just trying to have a great time. More often than not, most single men – either working or fresh from college – also attend such parties to meet new girls. You should, therefore, consider giving your favorite online dating app a rest and attend an actual holiday party. You might be surprised just how cute and outgoing the guys you find there are. Besides being the perfect hook up scene, holiday parties are also good for morale-boosting as well as general unwinding. If you have no idea where to start looking for incredible holiday parties to attend, worry not. The internet can be a very good resource in this case – don’t shy away from using it!
2. Meet hot, ripped men by the beach
Okay, I know meeting men by the beach is such a cliché. But that doesn’t mean it has ever lost its charm at any given point. A lot of single men usually go to the beach or the poolside to not only show off their ripped bodies but also to meet up with hot, single women. Therefore, it wouldn’t hurt for you to go to the beach and striking up a conversation with a single guy that interest you. You’ll also have the privilege of meeting with hot, single guys in their 20s, 30s or 40s – all more than willing to get to know more about you. And even if you don’t get to meet the man of your dreams, you are guaranteed to enjoy the whole experience. As earlier stated, you’ll have the front row seat to ogling at all of those beautifully sculpted men.
3. Meet the guy of your dreams at the gym
Just like the beach, meeting hot and single men at the gym is more of a cliché. But just like the beach, it still does work like a charm. Truth is, a lot of single men are trying to get in shape so that they can attract hot women like yourself. So, it wouldn’t be a bad idea for you to dust off your workout attire and visiting a gym near you. Hitting the gym is good for you because you will end up with an incredibly hot body in the process. Can you imagine meeting and hooking up with a hot man who works out and is willing to help you out in the gym? If that wouldn’t be “couple goals” then I don’t know what will.
4. Attend sporting events to meet single men
I know most women cringe whenever a conversation about sports or ESPN is sparked. Therefore, you better work on your feelings especially if you want to meet with a lot of hot, single guys. Truth is, a lot of guys are into sports and if you want to find them, or vice versa, you’ll have no other choice but to attend any sporting events. Who knows, you might end up loving these events as it is the case with a ton of first timers! It really doesn’t matter whether you want to meet with college guys or much older guys. Once you attend a sporting event, you’ll find the entire lot cheering in the stands – all ripe for the taking. In my opinion, attending sporting events is much more fun compared to online dating because in this case, you get to meet people in real life. And even better, you’ll have the opportunity to strike a conversation with them and enjoy their smell.
5. Meet men at beer/wine tasting events
Men love free beer and wine – you can take that statement to the bank and cash in for all I care! Both single and taken men would jump at the opportunity of visiting a brewery to taste free beer or wine. More often than not, they always strive to get drunk rather than just tasting. Again, the age range doesn’t matter when it comes to free drinks. Whether a guy is in his 20s or he is in his 30s, he wouldn’t mind testing some wine or beer from time to time – and for free. The same applies to those who are in their early or late 40s. With that in mind, also remember what attributes you are looking for before attending the next wine or beer tasting event.
6. Meet single men in cooking classes
You’ll be surprised just how many hot, single men are signing themselves into cooking classes these days. Long gone are the days when men avoided the kitchen like a plague. Instead, men are discovering the joy in helping their wives /girlfriends with the kitchen duties. And if they aren’t in relationships, they still join cooking classes to prepare for their future relationships. The good thing is you can pretend not to know how to cook then seek help from any hot, single man that tickles your fancy. Attending a cooking class is also amazing because it can help you learn some new, amazing recipes. It can also boost your social skills person. And how is that? Well, it’s because you aren’t looking to meet single men without really talking to them, now are you?
7. Meet men at food and drink festivals
Just like in beer and wine tasting, men also love attending food and drink festivals. For most of them, this means they don’t have to go back home and cook. You can, therefore, make a date and attend any of these festivals in your neighborhood. Trust me, you will not only have a good time as well as have a full belly. You’ll also have the opportunity of seeing and meeting a lot of incredibly hot and single men while you are at it. Don’t be afraid mingling and talking to single men because they also came to do the same. Again, always go for the man that catches your eye. Even so, don’t reject talking to other men who try to talk to you. Such events are for socializing. Therefore, coming off as a selective snob won’t do your mission any good.
8. You can meet men at weddings
You should try attending weddings once in a while even if you aren’t a wedding person. This is because there are plenty of amazing, obviously, single men who attend who are seeking hot, single women to date or marry. They might come in the capacity of the groom’s men, or the couples’ college friends, colleagues or some random guys who came for the free food. Either way, it is a better place for you to spot and make a move on potential dates, boyfriends or even lifelong partners. Once in the wedding, try to smile and chat with people as often as possible. The sociable you appear to be; the more guys will have the guts to hit on you without having second thoughts. Unlike online dating, which has got its own fair share of perks; you will get the chance to interact with the guys which are good.
9. Meet single men on social media
Nowadays, everyone - and their grandmother - is on social media. And the good news about finding men via social media is that most of their intimate details can be found on their profiles. So, if you want a hot and single man in their 20s, 30s, 40s or over, then all you need to do is snooping through their profiles. In addition to that, you can establish some form of rapport with the person of interest through chatting before agreeing on meeting up. You can get to know more about each other by asking simple, straightforward questions. It is very important to do so and for a number of reasons. One of these reasons is to avoid awkward moments at the time of the meeting.
10. Meet men at the church
I know some of you are frowning upon reading this. But the frowning won’t change the fact that some amazing couples begun their relationship when they first met at church. There are plenty of good, God-fearing men in the church who are hot, single and searching. And if you are a God-fearing woman who is looking to find a good guy, maybe, just maybe, going to church might be a solution for you. Besides, it would be a brilliant idea considering there are plenty of mentors who will give you guidance and counseling. Dating and marital guidance are key, especially where the couple is young and clueless. And even after you meet enough single men and are spoilt for choice, the church leaders can still help you choose and settle down with the most compatible of them all.
11. Meet men at animal shelters
Single men adopt pets so that they can be in good company before finding a suitable life partner. Others might be college guys either volunteering or working as interns in the pet shops or shelters. Either way, checking out the animal shelter can be a very good place to find hot and single men. This is highly recommended especially if you happen to be a pet lover because, for starters, you’ll find a man with mutual interests. And for that matter, it would be wise of you to check out the nearest animal shelter as soon as you can. Don’t make your visit a one-time thing because you aren’t guaranteed to find the man of your dreams on the spot. You will be required to volunteer - if you have to - and the right man will definitely come along.
12. Meet cute single guys at the laundromats
Apart from online dating being good at establishing rapport, it’s not wise to exclusively rely on them. Try visiting the laundromats for a change. Once at the laundromat, you’re most likely to meet with cute and single guys who just want someone to talk and kill time with. A laundromat is a perfect place for small talk. You can spot a guy, walk up to him and talk just about anything. If you aren’t good with small talk, how about looking at the guy next to you and say “Hey there, fine weather for laundry, huh?” If this doesn’t get his attention, then he doesn’t really deserve your time. Don’t take it personally because people are different. On the bright side, men from all walks of life and ages i.e. men in their 20s and 30s - are available at the laundromat. This means you can never run out of people to talk to, trust me.
13. Happy hours are just perfect to meet single men
Every adult loves happy hour. It would, therefore, make great sense if you took advantage of the aura of happiness that comes with happy hour and chats with a few good looking single men at the bar. But first, you have to make sure that you are dressing and smelling good before hitting the club. If you look and smell hella good, I can assure you some hot, single and courageous men won’t hesitate to approach you. Or since its happy hour, you might even have some generous men send a few shots or drinks your way. If the latter ever happens, remember to always show appreciation by smiling, waving or just talking to them when they come over. Be as friendly as you can and to as many people as possible including the old men in their late 40s. Being super cool during happy hour will help you meet a lot of single men and who knows, one of them might just end up tickling your fancy.
14. Meet men at the bistro
If you are single and looking to find single a single man but drinking and clubbing isn’t your thing, I suggest trying your luck at the eateries. As you are having your lunch, look around for some good-looking, single men ripe for the taking. The bistro/eatery is the perfect spot because there are plenty of single guys there. Most of these guys just prefer a quick hot meal fixed for them since they have neither the time nor the interest for cooking. And sometimes all you need to do is look their way and wink. Or if you aren’t that too aggressive, you can always flash a quick smile the moment your eyes meet.
15. Meet men at fitness events
If you happen to be a fitness enthusiast, then you must know that the gym isn’t the only place you can meet hot, single men. For that matter, you should, therefore, learn how to broaden your “hunting grounds”. And one of those “other” places you might want to try out is none other than the overtly hyped fitness events. Such fitness events might include obstacle courses, cardiovascular exercise challenges or the normal and boring fitness seminars. There are plenty of random or college guys in attendance and that’s exactly why you need to consider attending. As opposed to online dating, you’ll get the chance of seeing each other in action which can go a long way in bonding the two of you!
16. Meet them at menswear stores
Another place you can be guaranteed with constant traffic of hot, single men is none other than the menswear store. Every guy, be it in their 20s, 30s or 40s wants to look good especially if he is single. This makes it a good place for you to meet your prospective prince charming. The good thing is there aren’t any restrictions when it comes to who gains access to the menswear stores, male or female. You can use shopping for your imaginary brother or father as a pretext for not looking awkward while in there. Once you spot a guy that tickles your fancy, striking up a lively conversation with him should be your next agenda. You might just end up on a date especially if you do this right.
17. Meet hot, single men at art expos
Just like it is the case with the gym, laundromat or carpool, art expos are a safe haven for hot, single and most likely rich guys. So, it goes without saying that you need to dress to kill and remember to work on that smile baby girl. Be sociable and talk to as many men as possible. Variety is always good, especially when looking for the perfect, most compatible man you can find. Who knows? You might make friends who end up introducing you to their hot, single male friends that you might like even more. With that said, carrying out extensive research about art expos happening nearest to you would be a remarkably good start.
18. Meet men at public places in the university
If you are into college guys, then an occasional chilling at the university public areas can be a good idea. Chances are that you’ll brush shoulders with many hot, single guys looking to or are having an incredibly awesome time. Another useful tip you can use is being as sociable as possible. Men would rather not engage cagey women or those who are seemingly aloof for fear of rejection. Therefore, feel free to initiate a conversation or even better, offer to buy them drinks. Just don’t come off as too aggressive or else everything will backfire in your face. Most young guys, especially in their 20s and 30s do not prefer women who come off as too aggressive. Consequently, take your time and allow everything to fall into place as naturally as possible. Trust me, relaxing will make things much more fun than being way too aggressive. Try these places rather than sitting at home and relying exclusively on online dating apps alone.
19. Meet men at baby showers
Just like weddings, baby showers are great for meeting hot, single men. But before storming into someone’s baby shower, try grooming yourself a little. Just like women, men are attracted by what they see. And this includes men who are in their late 40s and beyond. In short, just look your best without having to overdo it and you’ll end up attracting your fair share of men. And whenever you meet a hot man at a baby shower, it is important that you just be yourself. Don’t try to be someone or something else because pretense is the mother of all turn-offs. If the man you meet and like isn’t into you, simply move on to the next one. The thing about attraction and rejection is that it’s never personal. Keep up with this attitude and you’ll definitely reap the benefits in the form of a hot, compatible man who loves you for who you are.
20. Meet men at a member’s only club
If you are looking for a specific class of single men, then signing up for a private club would definitely do you some good. You’ll not only need to spot the most accessible one but also come up with the membership fee. After activating your membership, everything else will fall into place without any problems. But if you are looking for college guys, then this is not the place you ought to be looking.
21. Meet the man of your dreams at the racetracks
Men love fast cars just as much as they love their women... almost as much. It is, therefore, a good place for you to go looking for your Mr. Right. Here, you are highly likely to find more men than women - which is only expected to work to your advantage. You might want to do some in-depth research about men and their love for fast cars. This is because it will go a very long way in helping you have a relevant discussion that’ll make you even more attractive. Remember, context is key and for that reason, you need to come prepared. Again, all kinds of men are here, including those in their 20s, 30s, 40s and over, which also makes it a much better option than online dating apps that have a lot of people faking their age.
22. Meet hot men on the subway
Everyone takes the subway, from the single, middle-aged men all the way to the college guys “complete” with well-chiseled abs. It is, therefore, the perfect place for initiating small talk and exchanging numbers while waiting for your respective trains. It would also do you some good learning some cliché icebreakers that can work on just about anyone.
23. Meet men at cigar bars
If you are tired of online dating apps and sites, you can always make a detour to your local cigar bar. There is a specific kind of men in cigar bars - in their 20s, 30s or 40s - but they all have a specific kind of vibe. So, if you don’t mind guys who have a thing for cigar smoking, then this should be your next stop. If you aren’t into smoking cigars, you can always order some drinks. You do just fine in a cigar bar as long as the smoke doesn’t faze you.
24. Meet single men at house parties
Men, especially the single and attractive ones, love partying like every day is a bloody holiday. All you need to do is find a party (or get yourself invited to one) and let your party demons lose. You might actually enjoy the entire experience and even leave with a couple of phone numbers while at it!
25. Meet hot men at the bike shop
The same thing that drives men to racetracks makes them superbike lovers. Even when you read most men’s’ profiles on any popular online dating or social media platforms, you are highly likely to find bikes listed as a hobby. That being said, if you are into any age group of men i.e. those in their 20s, 30s or 40s, then all you need to do is visiting any bike shop. You’ll be surprised at the number of men you’ll bump in to and how many options you’ll end up having!
Final word on where to meet your man
The fact remains that there will always be a lot of hot, single men around. The trick is knowing the right places to find them. Also, remember that in as much as you are looking to meet and date single men, it is important to first work on yourself and be satisfied with being alone. Getting a man will not fill the void you might be feeling. That said, make sure you’re looking for a man because you are ready for a relationship and not because you are desperate. You should also be fully aware of the kind of men you are looking for. If you don’t know what you want as far as men are concerned, then you’ll easily fall for anyone – which is a key ingredient to any failed relationship. Also, take time to know the man once you find him. This is because love is more of chemistry rather than biology.