Examples of Boyfriend Letters for Different Situations

There’s really never a special time to write a missive to your boyfriend. Expressions of love should be an everyday act done to show your soulmate that they occupy a special place in your life and that you value the sacrifice being made to keep the relationship going. However, here are some special periods when boyfriend letters are very necessary if not important.

Sometimes you may begin to notice that your relationship is not as passionate like it used to be. While this is normal in all relationships, writing a love letter to your boyfriend can rekindle the romantic embers of the relationship. If you want to provoke a reaction from your boyfriend or you want him to reciprocate a gesture, you can rite him a romantic letter to make him realize that your feelings for him have not ebbed one bit from the first day you met him up until this point. These types of letters always work 10/10.

If you feel that your boyfriend is beginning to question your commitment to the relationship, you can write him a letter to correct whatever negative impression he may be having of you. If He suspects that you are cheating on him, writing a letter is much better than sending him a text or messaging him on social media. Letters are more personal and real.

Writing letters is the second best way to express how you feel besides talking to him in person. If you feel hurt by his actions or you feel there are certain things he has stopped doing or isn’t doing enough, you need to write him a letter to express how you feel. You not being there in person will make him let down his guard and he will digest the contents of your letter in detail. If you are in no position to engage him in a conversation over the phone or in person, a letter is your best option.

Asking someone else to write a letter for you isn’t such a great idea. Letters should be a true reflection of what is inside of you. A letter written on your behalf won’t resonate well with your boyfriend as much as it should. In fact, if you share a very strong connection with him, He may suspect that it wasn’t written by you thereby rendering the missive invalid. However, here is an example of a boyfriend letter for reference purposes.

‘’Dear John

Every single moment I’ve spent with you, every moment we’ve shared together is like a burning ember melting away all my fears and doubts about life. In the cradle of your love, I have found peace and love I never imagined I could experience in this life or in the next. When I first met you, I never imagined that one day you’ll become an important part of me. But today, we are writing our own story on the sands of time and I feel fortunate to have been blessed with the good fortune of crossing your path. I love you more than life itself and if I had to make a wish today, I will wish for you to see yourself through my eyes so you’ll know just how special you are to me. This is not just a mere combination of words but a message straight from the heart to you, THE LOVE OF MY LIFE. I hope to see you soon so I can look you in the eye and smile once again like I am smiling right now while I write you this letter.

Anticipating a romantic evening.

Your one true Love

Deborah

If your boyfriend’ birthday is at hand, you can write him a happy birthday letter and arrange to have it delivered to him on the day. He won’t see it coming but will be more than happy to receive one from you. Here is an example of a lovely letter you can send to your boyfriend on his birthday.

Dear John,

     When we first started our relationship, I had doubts and misgivings about how far we could go on this journey together. Little did I know that we would end up like we have today. I was scared that our love for each other will fade away like the morning dew but I was wrong. As we grew older, our love has waxed even stronger than ever before. Like old wines in new wine skins you taste sweeter each passing day day and I am so glad to call you mine. As you hit another milestone today, I wish that our hopes and dreams for each other comes to fruition. I wish you all the best things in life and I promise to continually shower you with all the love my dear heart can muster. My only fear is that yours doesn’t break from carrying so much weight. Happy Birthday to you John, My fairest of one thousand.

Yours Truly,
Deborah                                                                                                                                 

Maybe you stumbled upon your ex a few days or weeks back or thoughts of him flood your mind. Or maybe he’s been asking for another chance which you may be willing or unwilling to grant him. Writing him a letter is one sure way to let him know where you stand.

A love letter written to a love interest is one of the most popular romantic letters used to express love via words. You can write a love letter like the example given above to your boyfriend to strengthen your relationship and to re establish your commitment to the relationship. You can even write one to a love interest who’s unaware of your feelings. Love letters are expressive and convey the innermost feelings of the writer. Here is a short example of an ‘’I love you letter’’ you may want to write to that crush of yours you can’t seem to stop thinking about.

Dear John,

Before I picked up my pen to write you this missive, I wasn’t so sure that my fingers would be strong enough to scribble down the dictates of my fragile heart but necessity urged me on. I remember the very first time I set my eyes on you at Eve’s birthday party, I felt like going down under due to the intense throbbing of my heart. I remember the vision as if it were yesterday. The sound of your voice was like music to my ears and the shape of your face when you smiled was like a work of art. I couldn’t join my other friends at your table because my emotions would have given me away and you know how bad that would appear for a girl. I’m damn sure that you don’t know me too well. I doubt if you even know me at all. So, under the shadow of anonymity, I just want you to know that I love you just the way you are. I believe that you are a perfect gentleman and that we could be perfect together. Together, we could paint a very beautiful picture that will make the rounds back at school. We may or may never get to meet one on one but I hope that if we ever do, you will reciprocate the love I have for you with words and action. I will keep praying that my dreams and hopes about us comes true and if they do, I’m sure it will be worth it. Keep being happy and be the best that you can ever be and I hope that if you get to think of anyone or anything today, tomorrow or the day after, that you’ll think of me. Your secret admirer.

Conflicts are not good for any relationship and if you are dealing with one in your present relationship, you don’t have to let it linger. Keeping mum over disagreements caused by you are going to send the wrong signals to your better half. He may even think you don’t value him enough to accept your faults. Writing an ‘’I’m sorry love letter’’ to him will put your relationship back on track.

Out of sight shouldn’t be out of mind and you can keep the flames of your relationship burning by exchanging I miss you love letters with your love interest. ‘’I miss you’’ letters help in sustaining the bonds in a relationship and when you send one regularly to your boyfriend, you are letting him know that you are always thinking of him all the time.

Love letters may have gone out of fashion due to the rise of the internet and social media, however, smart women know the power of handwritten letters and continue to use them to redefine and to enrich their relationships. Send love letters to your boyfriend regularly and reap the rewards of a fulfilling and exciting relationship. Letters are nice, informal and easy to write and they will be gladly received by the one who loves you in return.