How to Make A Player Fall In Love With You in 8 Simple Ways

How many times have we fallen for a guy that can’t seem to keep the ladies off of him? He can have any girl he wants, and he has every girl he wants falling at his feet all at once. It can be quite challenging to try to get him to fall in love with you, let alone even notice you. I myself have been in very similar situations and I am here today to give you tips, from an expert, on how to win a player's heart. If you follow these tips, in a somewhat sequential order, you are guaranteed to be loved by the player that you have always dreamed of.

In order to understand what it is that a player truly wants in a woman, you'll have an advantage if you're his friend first. This will also help him learn to respect you as a person and not just as a fling. When building the friendship, ask him questions about himself and his interests. Listen more than you talk, since players like to talk about themselves more than they listen. Also, talk about things that don’t pertain to relationships like sports, games, music, or art. This will let the player think that you are more interested in being friends than lovers.

As many of us already know, guys are physical beings! They love a woman who can dress up and present herself well. Even better, they love a woman who smells like roses and dandelions. Every time you are around this player, make sure that you are looking and smelling your best! Take time to do your makeup, your hair, and pick out a nice outfit to wear around him. A little peek-a-boo wouldn’t hurt either. It's good to accentuate your curves and your favorite assets. Not only will he be unable to take his eyes off of you, you will also leave room for him to daydream about what could happen between you two. Most importantly, seduction is not only about how well you can pull off an outfit or how good of a makeup artist you are. Seduction is also about body language. Making eye contact can go a very long way if you are doing it correctly. While making eye contact, make sure to keep your looks a mix between mysterious and flirty. Pay attention to the signs he is throwing at you that seem flirty and react to them accordingly. Seduce a player with your clothes on!

I’m pretty sure that your dad or your older brother has told you before that “All guys just want one thing." This may not be true for most guys, but when dealing with a player it's a different story. Players typically have girls lined up at their feet ready to do just about anything that they ask of them. Giving it up right away will not guarantee you a place in his heart. What it will guarantee you instead is another name on this player's list to hit up when he is in need. To keep this from happening, make sure to not give in to him too quickly. It is better to hold out for as long as you can, so as to make him want you even more. All players only want what they can’t have; if he feels that he can’t have you like he wants to, he will try even harder to win you over. To make it easier for you, don’t put yourself in situations where you feel like something could happen between you two. Don’t invite him over to your house and do not go over to his house. Make him want you, and when you feel that he is right where you want him, wait a little bit longer. You won’t be disappointed.

Players always have girls that are at his beck and call. So it will be beneficial for you to not always be available when he calls. If he calls or texts you, you don’t always have to answer or reply. It only makes you look desperate, which he may feel think about all the other girls in his life. Make players wonder what you are up to and where you have gone. Nine times out of ten, he will probably think that you are with another guy, which is good in this case. He will begin to wonder why you are not answering him and replying to him as fast as all of the other girls that he has lined up. This will make this player want to try even harder because, in the back of his head, he is going to wonder why you don’t want him like the other girls do.

Also, it can be very beneficial to show your independence. If he does contact you trying to set up a date, it is okay to turn his offer down and make up an excuse as to why you can’t go. It will show that you aren’t just sitting around waiting for him to ask you out. It will also show that you are capable of being without him and that you can live your own life with other plans that do not revolve around him. Another way to let your independence shine is to offer to pay for an outing that you guys go on together. This will show him that you have your own money and that you don't need anyone to buy you anything.

A guy loves a woman that loves herself. A woman who always keeps her head up, knows her worth, and never lets anyone tell her otherwise. Her identity is not determined by anyone else because she knows that not everyone is going to see her like she sees herself. A confident woman can make a player melt. Even if the player decides to say something about you that is not in accordance with who you are as a person or tries to influence you to do something that is not you, do not be afraid to stand up for yourself. Let him know that is not who you are and that you are not going to tolerate that. Most players have never had a woman stand up to them because they are used to women only wanting to please him. Having this kind of confidence will not only set boundaries with you and the player but it will also make him realize that he has to respect you in order to be with you. Respecting you is the first step to making him fall in love.

You probably get butterflies around him since you have a major crush on him! When things start getting more serious between you two, your feelings will grow stronger and stronger. It may seem like the right thing to do and it may even seem like an easy thing to do. But DO NOT confess your feelings to him. Give him time to confess his feelings first, when he is ready. If you share your feelings with him too soon, it may scare him off. He may not feel the same way about you yet if it is too early. During this time, it may be a good idea to talk to a trusted friend or write in a journal about your feelings. Give it time and pay attention to the signs that he is giving you. You will eventually know when it's the right time to confess how you feel about him.

This tip may seem silly, but trust me, this a mistake that many women make when trying to make a player love them. You may get tired of waiting for him to ask you to be his girlfriend, or you may get tired of waiting for him to say that he loves you. So most women, with their lack of patience, tend to consistently hint to him that they are ready to take things to the next level. This will only push a player away. To keep this from happening, just take things slow, let him take the lead and show the signs that he is ready to take things to the next level. Act as if you are enjoying every step of the relationship that you two are building and that you are in no rush to make things official. Being positive about him eventually falling in love with you will help you to resist the temptation to pressure him.

This is the last and final step to making him fall in love with you. I saved this one for last because previously I stated that you should wait to give in. However, after he has already fallen head over heels for you, it is now time to rock his world girl! You want to give him something to be proud of waiting for. You should not have held out only for him to feel disappointed after all is said and done. Dress up in lingerie, put candles all around your home or his, and make the night one to remember. Don't be afraid to use the internet to look for new ways to please him. After you show him a good time, he will no longer be a player but he will be a stayer. He will feel like you are the complete package that he has always wanted deep down inside. All the other girls that he had laying around will no longer exist, and you will be his only true lover.

By following these tips and following the signs that the player gives you, he will be loving you in no time. You will finally get what you want and you will not regret it. Let’s see how soon this player will be telling you that he loves you.