How To Tell If He Flirting With Me Or Just Being Friendly?
There are times when flirting is obvious that you know right away when a guy is making his move. There are other times when you are left confused as you are not sure if he is really flirting with you or he is just being friendly. It’s important for you to be able to decipher such kind of situations so as to avoid making the wrong interpretation. The following are some of the signs that you will see when he is flirting with you:
1. He is always looking or smiling at you
Friends look and smile at each other all the time. However, if you keep catching him either smiling or looking at you, this is a sign that he is interested in you. It’s normal for a guy who is interested in you to want to know where you are and also what you are doing.
2. His body language goes to you
Body language is very powerful and can help you to know if a guy is just being friendly or if he is flirting with you. Is he always coming too close to you when having a conversation, or his torso and chest are always directed at you even when he is having a conversation with other people? These body languages are signs that he is not just being friendly but he is very much interested in you.
3. He lowers his voice when talking to you
If you find a guy lowering his voice every time he is having a conversation with you, this should tell you that you have yourself an admirer. The guy talks in a low voice so as to create an intimate movement with you as you will have to come closer to him to hear what he is saying. A friend can also do this once in a while, but when a guy does this only with you even when in a group, it shows that he is trying to create a sense of intimacy between the two of you.
4. The fact that you share common interests excites him
This might sound innocent and friendly but when a man seems overly excited when he discovers that you share some common interests, he is definitely flirting with you. This is because he is using the common interests you share to establish a unique connection with you. It can be your taste in music, speaking the same number of languages, or having a love for a certain sport.
5. He makes sexual jokes
A friend can also make jokes about sex once in a while but if he does this a lot, then, it becomes a sign that he is flirting with you. When a guy keeps making sexual insinuations it definitely means that he likes you and he’s very much interested in you. However, you have to consider the probability of this being a sign that he is only after sex, not a relationship.
Flirting With Me Over Text
6. He regularly uses flirty emojis
This is one of the most obvious signs that a guy is flirting with you. Even if a friend can still use some flirty emojis once in a while, when a guy sends you emojis such as the ones involving wink faces or hearts on a regular basis, it shows that he is interested in you. The downside to this is that not all men are into using emojis.
7. He always texts you back
This says a lot about the intentions of a guy. When you send someone a text and they take ages to reply, it shows that they are either in a tight situation or they are ignoring you. If a guy texts you back on time even when he is busy it shows that he likes talking to you because he is interested in you.
8. He prefers talking to you in person rather than texting you
This is one of the most obvious signs that a man is not just being friendly but he is interested in you. He might let you know indirectly or even directly that he wants to meet with you so that you can do something together instead of just texting. A good example of a text he might send to show this is; “I wish you were here with me.” He might even go ahead and text you what he would be doing if you were there with him.
9. You text each other the whole day
If a guy is just being friendly, he might text you for some time but he won’t text you throughout the day. This does not mean texting each other every single minute of the day but rather having a conversation that lasts the whole day. Therefore, texting with a guy throughout the day is proof that he is trying to create a connection between the two of you.
10. He texts you the first thing in the morning
There is no way you can fail to notice that he really like you if he always texts you in the morning. This shows that he thinks about you a lot and you are his priority which is why you are the first thing on his mind when he wakes up. A guy who is just being friendly will not remember to text you the first thing in the morning as he is not interested in you.
Flirting With Me At Work
11. He’s shift matches to yours
This can be one sign that he is interested in you if you notice that his shift has suddenly changed to match yours. It can be because he is looking for ways of spending more time with you even when working.
12. He does nice things such as bringing you coffee
If he brings all his other co-workers coffee, he might just be trying to be friendly, but if he is doing these nice things only for you then it’s a sign that he’s flirting with you. He is doing nice things so as to impress you and to show his interest in you.
13. He always asks if you will be attending work-related functions
A guy who is being friendly might ask you once in a while if you will be attending events at your work. But if a guy always reminds and asks you if you will be attending events at your work it shows that he really likes you. Meeting at such casual events gives him an opportunity to spend time with you and to make his move.
14. He makes flirty jokes in meetings that only you can hear
This is clear as he will form a habit of leaning close to you when you are in meetings so that he can get an opportunity of making funny flirty jokes that the others cannot hear. His efforts of making you laugh show that he likes you and he’s trying as much as he can to make you fall for him.
Flirting With Me Online
15. He interacts with your posts on social media
If a guy is just being nice, he might like your posts once in a while but when you find him always interacting with your posts whether it’s by liking your posts on facebook to liking your photos on Instagram or even commenting, it’s a sign that he is into you.
16. He responds quickly to your messages
If he is online and you send a message to him, and he responds immediately and goes on to start a conversation with you, then, it’s clear that he likes you. When a guy is just being nice he will respond to your messages but not that fast.
17. He wants to learn more about you
A guy who is interested in you will most definitely want to know about you. So you might find him asking questions that will help him to know more about you. Good examples of such questions are those regarding your family, your hobbies, and career, as he is serious about you.
18. He deletes his dating profile after going on a couple of dates with him
If you met him on a dating website and you went on a couple of dates with him and later he deletes his online dating profile, this can be a sign that he has found the woman he was looking for.
There are times you can find yourself in a very difficult position as you try to figure out if a guy is interested in you or he is just being friendly. However, chances are that, if you really have to ask yourself if he is flirting with you, the answer to your question is a resounding yes! If doubt still remains, the signs discussed above will help to make things clearer for you.