10 Things Couples In Love Will Do To Keep The Flame Ignited

It's not easy to keep the flame going when you're in a long-term relationship. You absolutely love each other and at this point, you're already sure you will spend the rest of your lives together. But that doesn't mean you still feel the same butterflies in the stomach as when you first started.

Finding a way to keep the flame up is healthy for a relationship, to pick up the feelings that has now been washed up by time. You just need to care for it, to nurture it back. So you feel the same excitment and joy as when you first fell in love.

Remember how when you first started dating, you were all over each other and would buy surprise concert tickets and make surprise gifts? Why not do it again? Instead of asking if your wife wants to go to her favourite singer's concert, just grab the tickets and drive her to the venue! You know she is going to want to go anyways!

Some people think making surprises is a hassel. It's really not. To be honest, if you're truly in love, you will want to see that happy surprised face on your loved one. Find the time to make surprises for each other. You don't need to talk everything and plan everything out like old couples. You can create the flames by doing what new couples do!

You're probably living together at this point of your relationship. You see each other everyday before and after work. It just makes you feel like there's really no point in texting each other during the day. It may even seem tiring to you to talk to your partner all the time. Don't feel that way. That's actually a dangerous way of thinking, if even texting is too much for you.

Send her a text during lunch and just ask about how's work going or if she's joining her colleagues for lunch. Texting should feel very easy and normal for you. You shouldn't feel that you're forced to text her, but rather, you care about her so you want to text her even though you know you will see her in a few hours!

Couples in love usually give the other person courage to do things they wouldn't normally do. It's a beautiful thing. Sometimes both want to try skydiving but are too scared to. They would challenge each other into doing it as part of the fun of being in a relationship.

Challenging each other to do things is a fun and exciting way to keep the flame going. You're doing things that you wouldn't normally do and are now a much stronger person because your partner has given you the courage! It will make you appreciate each other much more!

Being constantly stuck with the same person isn't the funnest thing ever, even when it's the love your life. Try to expand the circle and bring in more friends to share the joy and love. Invite other couples or friends over for a game night every once in a while so you two can have fun with others!

Reserve a getaway weekend. Just take your car and drive down to the next city for a lovely couple spa treatment or just stay in the king size hotel bed and not do a thing. Weekends like this are crucial in creating a long-lasting relationship. Stressful situations can arise easily when you live together. It's important to let it all out every now and then!

Organise a boat party for friends and family! Creating an event together can really boost the teamwork and connect a couple shares. It will bond you better and allow you to feel even more connected. Besides, it's just exciting to organise a fun event for other people. It will easily help reigniting your flame even if you think it's quite gone!

This is a very popular choice among couples in love. Getting a half heart on your finger and your partner gets one on his. So that when you hold hands the heart is completed, just like how you complete each other. It's a very beautiful way of showing your love. And for sure others will be able to tell how madly in love you two are!

Tattooing each other's nickname on your waist or your arm shows how intimate you two are. You can also tattoo a nickname that other people won't understand the reason and keep it that way. Make it an inside thing for both of you. Only you two understands.

Get your man to tattoo a Cupid firing up his love arrow and tattoo a girl in love on you! This is the cutest way to show how fate has connected you two together! You can't explain love. So maybe Cupis was behind this after all!

Cupid is always a symbol of love. It's pure, it's cute and it's innocent. Just like how love should be. Every time you look down, you will see the love you share with your partner and the flame you've always had.

Simple, yet meaninful. It will always remind you the day you fell in love and decided this is someone you could spend the rest of your life with. Besides, it's a great way to remind you not to forget your own anniversary!

Music really connects people from all walks of life. It's so easy to bond two souls if you share the same passion for music, having the same taste. Play these songs to feel the love and warmth for each other!

A classic. Songs from the 70s just have a magic to suck your soul in and impact your emotions so much.

Yeah...not really something we would expect from our Tay-Tay. This song is pretty much the exact opposite of everything she ever wrote. Listening to it will pump the love into your veins and just make you wanna hold on to your loved one.

Let's face it, Celine Dion has a magical voice that even just a happy birthday song will be mesmerizing coming from her. This beautiful song captured the heart of many loving couples in 1996, the year it came out.

Isn't that what all love is about? Finding someone that makes you feel safe and fall asleep with a smile on your face.

No one truly needs another one to survive, just that with someone you love, life seems a lot better and easier.

For better and for worse. You share happy moments and you also have to deal with the sad moments, even if it's hard.

She may be a little bit (or super?) extra, granted. But She does seem to know what she is doing when it comes to keeping her family together. It's not always rainbows and unicorns but she surely makes sure her audience know that it takes hard effort and you do what it takes to keep family together. Very often, you can see her making surprises for Kenye West to keep the flame going. And she always makes sure she looks her best when she walks out of her apartment.

You may recognise Justin from Jane the Virgin, but he is so much more than that. The couple often dedicates the Instagram account in sharing their daily life with their kids and how they stay in love together. If you're having a rough day, just look at their smile and you will get your hopes back.

This account gathers all the cute photos from couples all over Instagram and shares them. It's a very eye-pleasing account to look at as you will see there's really no such thing as a couple formula. All couples are different and you just have to find a way that you are comfortable with.

Some people say it's not possible to keep the flame on when you've been with each other for so long. Honestly, it's just an excuse so you don't have to try. There's always a way to keep the flame going. Just depends on how much you're willing to try. It's true that it's hard to know if you're putting an effort on the right person, but if you don't put in an effort, they will never be the right person. A loving relationship doesn't come naturally, it takes effort, even with the right one.

If you find yourself going through this, make sure you start with our 10 tips to reignite the flame between you and your partner!