Find Out The Secret Signs Your Ex Girlfriend Still Loves You

It’s safe to say that 90% of people once wanted to get back with their ex, usually immediately after a breakup. Don’t think of this as something bad. It’s perfectly okay to get back with your ex if you manage to work through your differences. The only other issue is that you’re not sure if she feels the same.

You’re wondering how to tell if she still loves you or not because it highly affects your next move. If she likes you, you can make a move and see if she wants to give it another shot as well. If she’s already moved on, then it’s time for you to do the same.

We’ll cover all the major signs with you so you can stop wondering what she’s thinking. Now it’s the perfect moment for you to plan your next move!

Most people can tell the way their girlfriend looks at them is different than when she looks at someone else. It’s a smile just for you because she’s in love with you. After a breakup, you may still get the chance to hang out, maybe together with friends, or you two work together. Whatever the reason, you should pay attention to the way she looks at you, and if she is still laughing and smiling at everything you said.

Besides that, she may intentionally and unintentionally give you a gentle pat on the shoulder or on your back when you speak. Needless to say, patting and giving gentle touches are things you do when you’re interested in someone. Your ex is still interested in you if you see her doing it to you.

People just don’t wear accessories or clothes given by an ex, if they don’t still have feelings for them. ‘’Oh, it’s just because I really like this earing’’ or ‘’his hoodie is really’’ is just all bullshit. You don’t want to still keep things from your ex if you’re totally in for moving on. You can keep the stuff somewhere in your house but there’s no need to wear them out every day.

The reason she is still wearing your clothes is likely to be that she still loves you, or she has a hard time moving on. 

Something as small as this could tell a lot.  She isn’t giving herself time to heal if she is constantly checking out what you’re up to. She wants to know what you’re up to because she can’t forget. She still wants to be a part of your life but she doesn’t know how to.

You may think this is a stupid clue and can’t mean much. But think about this, she wouldn’t be following every single one of your stories if she doesn’t still love you. She chooses to stay updated about you instead of taking the time to heal. She definitely still has feelings for you.

People don’t even talk to their best friends every day. Don’t think she is just being friendly when she talks to you every day asking about your day. No one does that unless they’re interested in that person, as they want to be more than just friends.

She clearly wants to be back with you if she does that after a breakup. Things might go back to the way they were if she keeps talking to you every day like nothing happened.

She is always finding excuses or reasons to ask you out like it’s Friday and she would ask you to go after work and chill. Or there’s a new movie coming out and she asks you to the cinema. She seems to really want to be close to you and wants to see you frequently.

Don’t mistake it with her just trying to be friends. There’s a line between friends and exes. You just don’t ask out your ex all the time, even if it’s a social activity with friends. She is just trying to find an excuse to spend time with you. Make sure you feel comfortable about seeing her. And if you don’t want to get back together with her or if you don’t love her anymore, you have to make it clear for her and not give out false hope.

She wants to make plans to do a road trip with you in the summer, or spend a few days up in the mountains. She is trying to make sure that you two will get to see each other. It’s a scary thought not knowing when you will see the one you love again. So she is making sure you’re down to meet her.

This isn’t just some friendly gesture. Maybe she respects your will and won’t try to win you back but she surely still loves you. You aren’t going to help with the situation if you agree to go when you don’t feel anything for her anymore. Know how you feel and don’t lead her on.

Whenever you ask her how she is or what she is up to, she will respectfully answer you but she won’t be asking you how you are as well. That’s a clear sign that she isn’t too interested in you. She is only replying to you to be polite. Truth is, she wouldn’t text you first and she can’t be bothered to ask about your news.

Don’t be too upset when this happens. After all, you’ve broken up already. It just tells you it’s time to move on. It’s probably not that she doesn’t care about you at all. It’s just that she knows it’s not good for her moving on if she keeps in touch with you or finds out so much about your life. It’s still not the nicest thing to hear your ex is now happily dating someone else when you’re still single. she wants to leave you behind so she can go forward. That’s why she’s doing this, even if she doesn’t mean to be cold.

Some people choose to keep photos with their ex on their phone just because they’re chill like that. But if they delete the photos with you, it’s a strong sign that this is over. They have nothing to look back to. They’re erasing evidence that you once even existed in their life. They don’t even want to keep it as memory. It’s a strong sign that you aren’t finding your way back to her.

You can only choose to move on when this happens. But be thankful, it’s a good thing that she’s making it so clear that she doesn’t want to be with you so you can give up any leftover fantasy you may have and just focus on yourself.

Well, it goes without saying she never wants to see you again if she does that...It’s not a game she is playing. She is not playing hard to get. She is telling you to go away, bye-boy style. Don’t lower yourself to be that person to beg for someone else’s love when they don’t want to give.

If your ex blocked you, let it be. Move on with your life and live a better life. You’re not working on yourself or living a better life just to show her. You’re doing it for yourself. Don’t hold on to any grudges. People move on. Your ex just chose to move on this way. Don’t take it personally. You’ve shared great times together but it’s now time to go on your separate ways. You will never be as close as before anyways so why be upset when she deleted you?

Stay focused and work on your own goals. You don’t have to show her the good life you’re living. You live for you, not for her.

If you finish reading this article, it’s safe to say that you want to get back together with your ex and you’re wondering if she still misses you or not. I hope you’ve found the answers you’re looking for. If she still misses you and you feel the same, get up and go for it. Think about what happened and if you’re willing to work through it or give it another go.

If she’s moved on then it’s time for you to do the same and stop resolving your life around her. Build a healthier lifestyle and expand your social circle. She won’t be back to your life, not in the foreseeable future anyway. Maybe one day you will both change and be ready, but today’s not the day. Work on yourself and achieve your dreams. It’s just as beautiful.