Can we just collectively agree that men are not the best of planners when it comes to romantic surprises? But the fact that they do genuinely try so hard is both impressive and endearing. So if you are one of such men, whose girlfriend’s birthday is approaching, and you feel as lost as ever, do not panic! We’ve got you covered. We’ve put together a list of fun and unique ideas for your special lady to feel a little extra special on her day, after all, you know she deserves it.
1. Classic bedroom decoration
Clean the room, make sure it’s spotless and then start decorating! The essentials you need are of course tons of flowers, especially roses, chocolate-covered strawberries, and some champagne! Add your personal touch by making cute swan-shaped origami towels, here’s a tutorial to help you out. Surprise your lady love at the stroke of midnight and watch her heart melt.
2. Bubble-Bath time!
Prepare a romantic couple’s bubble bath as the perfect way to kick off your girlfriend’s birthday! You will need scented candles to set the mood and rose petals in the tub add that extra oomph to the whole setting! Don’t forget that champagne and some aphrodisiac to end the night with a bang. Pun intended!
3. Some alone time
Find a secluded area such as a pretty clearing in your nearby woods or at the beach and prepare a picnic. Get all her favorite snacks and decorate the space with fairy lights, lanterns, and cozy rugs and pillows. Here are some decoration ideas on how to set up the perfect picnic date. If all goes smoothly the date might turn into an adventurous outdoor sex escapade!
4. Secret Getaway
Plan a fun, romantic getaway! It doesn’t even have to be extravagant! Renting a beautiful, rustic cabin in the woods or a hut at a serene beach would do just fine. Take a road trip to your destination so you can have some alone time on the road as well.
5. Book a hotel!
There’s nothing like being pampered! Book a nice hotel room at a famous hotel nearby. Even if it’s for the night, being at a new place and enjoying all the amenities will make your girlfriend’s birthday extra special and romantic!
6. Food is the way to everyone’s heart
Cook for her! Find out what she likes and prepare a three-course meal for her! Make sure to add some sexy dishes, such as chocolate fondue too to get you both in the mood. Set up the table nicely with candles and ornate cutlery. You could also make origami napkins to make your spread looks fancier!
7. The perfect masseur
Learn a relaxing sexy massage for her. Make use of aromatherapy and warmed massage oils to get her completely relaxed. There is nothing sexier than being rubbed down by your man who suddenly knows how to hit all the right spots.
8. All aboard!
Take a romantic, sexy day/night train trip with a private room. Many railways offer couples packages with private rooms and services which you can easily avail. This would be like a scene straight out of a movie and an incredibly memorable experience for both of you.
9. All taken care of
Buy her a beautiful dress and jewelry, leave it on the bed all set for her with a note asking her to be ready at 8. Then take her out for the fanciest date she’s ever been on. You can even rent a limo if you want to add a little more pizazz to the evening.
10. Spice things up in the bedroom!
Everyone has secret sex fantasies. Whatever your girlfriend’s type is, tonight you’re going to be it! Dress up according to what she likes and then surprise her on her birthday by reenacting her wildest dreams.
11. Give her the stars
Naming a star isn’t that difficult or costly, but it is timeless. Take her out to a spot in a park or any romantic, somewhat deserted place where you can appreciate the well lit night sky, and surprise her with an elegant star map to her very own star.
12. Breakfast in bed
Nothing says romance more than a well-prepared, breakfast in bed. Why not start your girlfriend’s special day the right way by making her the perfect breakfast. A simple gesture that goes a long way.
13. Couple coupons
Make a little booklet of personal cards that she can use on you whenever she wants, no questions asked. Include things like a dinner date, doing the laundry, sex and much more. The idea is that you can’t say no whenever your wife presents you with one of these.
14. Out at sea
Book a yacht for the night, just for the two of you. Sail away in the fresh ocean breeze and enjoy your date sandwiched between the sea and sky. Include champaign and delicious food to perfect the evening.
15. Dance the night away
Take her out dancing! To her favorite club, in her favorite dress and watch her let loose! If your girlfriend likes clubbing, then treat her to the best club in town for a wild night!
16. Go instrumental!
Learn how to play her favorite song on a piano. This could also work for your couple song or a special song you want to dedicate to her. Nothing will strum at your girlfriend’s heartstrings quite like a melody performed.
Get her that sexy Victoria’s Secret lingerie and perfume she’s been eyeing for a while. This gift will benefit the both of you!
18. Be adventurous!
If your girlfriend is the adventurous type, then make sure to do something foolhardy for her birthday! Go cliff diving! Or better yet, skinny dipping in a secluded lake!
19. Helicopter ride
Take your girl to see the views of the city by taking her on a helicopter ride around town, not only is this insanely fun but also romantic and an unforgettable experience.
20. Make it all about her
The best, most romantic and sexy thing you can do for your girlfriend on her birthday is to be in tune with her needs and be attentive to her wants. Make her feel special in everything you do with small gestures such as holding hands, tucking back a loose strand of hair behind her ear, kissing her deeply. All these things matter and will make whatever else you do that day so much more special.
Birthday wishes that are sexy and naughty
Not sure about what to write on that card? Don’t want your birthday wish to be too drab and typical? Look no more! Here’s a list of naughty wishes to choose from for your girlfriend’s birthday.
"Candles will be burning, but nothing beats my burning desire for you. Happy birthday, baby."
“Besides the gift that I've already given you on your birthday, I'm going to let you unwrap me as a sizzling birthday present. I'm all yours, today and forever. Happy birthday, love.”
“Is it just me or are you actually getting hotter with each year? Only one way to find out, see you tonight, naughty. Happy birthday!”
“To me, paradise is when your lips kiss mine and we warm each other with the warmth of our bodies. Happy birthday.”
“Your birthday is nature’s way of telling us to party until the break of dawn, and how dare we disobey nature!”
Write a romantic letter to your girlfriend
Birthday treats, wishes, and presents are all essential and fun. But what’s truly important is for you to convey your feelings to your significant other. Make sure she knows how you feel and how much she means to you. For a woman, there’s no greater joy than having the person you love, love you back with the same intensity. A relationship can only truly flourish if there’s no communication gap in between, so take your time, and pen down a heartfelt letter to your girlfriend on her birthday. Write down everything you cherish about her and all that she means to you. It may sound sappy, but sometimes being sappy in a relationship is okay too.
Impressive gifts to give which are useful for the bedroom too
- This scented candle that melts into warm massage oil! Can there be anything more sensual?
- This sex toy that will drive her up the wall!! Be prepared for a wild night in with this one
- Naughty games you can get here to help get you in the mood
- This sexy mood light table lamp to create the perfect lighting for when you’re having sex. It is also very simple to use, so you don’t have to waste time fumbling around with light switches
- Sexy satin nighties that your girlfriend will look ravishing in
- Silk bed sheets and feather pillows to make sure neither of you ever want to leave your bed!
- Edible body shimmer so your girlfriend looks, smells and tastes delicious!
Whatever you do for your significant other, if done wholeheartedly will be loved and appreciated even if it’s not perfect! So don’t sweat the small stuff and enjoy the planning and execution part along the way.