7 Reasons You Should Date A Beta "Submissive" Man

Women are often attracted to confident men because they exude masculinity and make them feel more feminine. This type of man is usually very good looking and relies on his looks and charm when it comes to attracting women. He is very confident and sure of himself in social settings and knows exactly what to say to woo a girl. He is a ladies man and has no trouble communicating with the opposite sex. This type of man can be classified as an alpha male.

The alpha male can further be divided into “good-boy alpha-male” and “bad-boy alpha-male” categories. Good boy alpha males are very confident and have a masculine and assertive approach in their behavior and thinking. They are caring, loving and friendly and believe in living their lives to the fullest. This type of man is certainly charming and a favorite amongst ladies but might have difficulty settling down for good.

The bad boy alpha male, on the other hand, is masculine with a touch of aggression. He is manipulative, selfish and emotionally unstable and might be emotionally abusive in a relationship. This type of man usually demands respect from others. Now that Alpha-male is down, let’s shed some light on the type of Beta.

The beta man is very different from an alpha man. While a beta man might not be too sure and as confident as the alpha male in a social setting, he is likely to be very comfortable in his own skin which gives him a sense of self-confidence. He is likely to be more sensitive and a better listener which causes many women to look at him as a friend and a confidant. While the beta man might go unnoticed in front of an alpha male, he is the shoulder that women want to cry on. In short, the beta male is the ultimate boy next door. Sweet, charming, sensitive and shy.

In this modern-day and age where women are becoming more and more confident and independent by the day, they want men who support them and root for their success. In this context, beta males might be the perfect fit for women but most women do not realize that. Women are still likely to choose an alpha male because sparks and fireworks matter and that is something that every alpha male can assure. He is masculine and charming and knows the right words to get a woman all wound up around him. But in reality, women just want men who truly care for them and are emotionally available that is one of the reasons they should date a Beta! Let’s look at some other reasons you should try going for a beta male!

Here are some reasons why women should consider dating a beta male for a healthier and happier relationship.

Beta males are usually very talented. This might be because while they are growing up their only interest is not themselves and girls like the alpha male. Instead, the beta male is likely to have interests such as music, art, gaming, cooking etcetera. This makes the beta man intriguing and adds personality and uniqueness to his character. Since he has hobbies, women can always find something that they might have in common with a beta male. Even if they do not, they are less likely to get bored and enjoy fun dates with their beta male.

Beta males are very in tune with their emotions which allows them to understand the emotions of their partners and empathize. This quality is what makes beta males a great partner for their girlfriends and spouses. They are always there when their women need them emotionally and are always willing to sit down and talk about issues and their feelings. Unlike alpha males where a conversation about feelings might lead to a fight, beta males will try to resolve issues and are always willing to work on their relationship rather than shoving their feelings under the rug.

Beta males are very secure in their skin and like who they are. This makes them great partners as they allow you to be your own person rather than the ideal woman that they want. They are not threatened by your social circle and friends and make an effort to get to know and like your friends. If you want a girl’s night out, a beta male is likely to support you rather than feeling insecure or unloved like an alpha man. A woman who is with an alpha man usually gets so caught up with the guy and his life and his friends that she is often isolated from her own friends. This can be very damaging for her self-esteem and can be the start of a toxic relationship.

By nature beta, males are more altruistic than alpha males which is why they are likely to care more about others than themselves. Unlike Alpha males who are selfish and want their interest and their needs fulfilled before anyone else’s, beta males are kinder and more giving in nature.  You will see beta males volunteer at shelters, orphanages and give frequently to charities. They do this not for their egos but because they truly want to help others and improve their lives for the better. Moreover, they are not obsessed with sharing their charitable work with the world. You won’t see them boasting their good work or see them take to social media to show off their achievements.

Similarly, beta males are more likely to help around in the kitchen and with house chores. They won’t put the burden entirely on you but will be equal partners to you in the relationship. Beta males believe in equality and they will always listen to you and give you a say on major life decisions. They value your opinion and will ensure that your voice is heard around the house. Mostly, they won’t shy away from asking you for help and will share their burdens, feelings, and troubles with you. They expect you to be there for them just as they are there for you and will take a partnership approach to challenges and turmoil in life.

Perhaps the most endearing quality that sets beta males apart from all other men is that they have great respect for women. This might be because of their sensitive nature or because they generally are intelligent enough not to let their masculinity get the best of them. Either way, beta males will be nice to you and be respectful towards you. This means they will not try to manipulate you, or play mind games with you or emotionally abuse you so that they can control you. Instead, beta males will respect you, your space, and your opinions and will compliment you often for being who you are. They will tell you how beautiful you are and mean it.

Beta males make amazing fathers. That’s because they are good role models for their children especially boys. Since beta males are kind, caring, respectful and loving they present the perfect qualities for your children to look up to and to adopt. The emotional sensitivity of beta males allows them to connect with their children at a deeper level and gives their children a sense of comfort and safety around their fathers. Most importantly beta males teach their children especially boys that it’s okay to cry and show vulnerability every once in a while. The quiet confidence of beta males makes them good decision-makers and strong enough that their children can seek advice from them without any hesitation.

In conclusion, while alpha males might be more attractive and more capable of sweeping a woman off her feet but they lack the emotional maturity and the strength to sustain a long term relationship. Beta males, on the other hand, promise commitment and emotional safety which makes them great boyfriends and partners. Beta males respect women, their feelings and their opinions and treat women as equals. They are sensitive but at the same time very sure of themselves which makes them good decision-makers and strong individuals. Most importantly, they are great with children and make excellent fathers.