7 Signs That Most People Miss That Your Ex Will Be Back

Love is a beautiful thing, and you will agree with me that at some point, you have fallen in love. Well, not all relationships last as some are bound to break, and it is after the breakups you regard each other as exes. A person whom you loved in the past and not now is your ex. Hopefully, that answers the question regarding whom an ex is.

Some reasons render the termination of a relationship, and they could be from within or not. Here are some of the causes of people to break up.

You will agree that distance is one of the reasons why people part ways. When you have a partner away from you, it is hard for that relationship to be sustained. It is the couple distancing that results in cheating as the person requires an immediate feeling of being wanted as well as conjugal rights that a partner far away may not provide.

When you live with someone, you tend to realize that you no longer share any common goals. I believe that most relationships today have been sustained by the fact that couples have common goals. You will want to build a great home and share memories with a person, and this can only happen if you have common interests.

Have you ever lied about your age on a date, and then it turns out that your date likes you? Age can be hidden only for a short time. Imagine being older than your partner, and they later find that out. Most men prefer dating ladies slightly younger than them. Well, there is a phrase that age is just a number, but I believe ladies age faster than men. It is therefore understandable if a man “dumps” you for your age.

At one point in your life, you loved someone who put less or no effort into the relationship. This is exactly what it means having unequal involvement in a relationship. Relationships fall apart when one partner becomes uninterested or uninvolved. It seems like in a way or another, if you put more effort, "you are dating yourself."

We all know that a woman’s body changes after conceiving. If your partner fell in love with you because you were attractive, it goes without saying that your relationship will break when you are no longer attractive.

It is agreeable that you may be torn apart in a relationship for reasons as stated above. Breaking up is not easy, especially if you have memories together. It may even lead to psychological and emotional disturbance.

You can also agree that single life is lonely. I mean, how would it not be lonely when you had spent over 6 months with a partner? One thing leads to the other, and you might find yourself going back to your ex. Below are some of the reasons why you might find yourself going back to your ex.

You might find it hard to start all over again after a breakup. Imagine the hassle of introducing yourself to someone new while you can sort things with an ex that knows you better.

When you are in love, you become insecure with your partner and develop a sense of possession. You wouldn’t want anyone else to have them. It may sound very malicious and mean, but if you are this type of person, you are more likely to fight for your relationship. In a nutshell, you can’t stand anyone being around your ex or your ex having fun in another relationship.

Memories from a relationship linger for long after a breakup. With great memories, you are likely to be dragged back into the ex’s life unknowingly. If you can’t control these memories, the memories will control you and finally get yourself hooking up with your ex.

When you share the same social circles with an ex, you find yourselves meeting in unavoidable circumstances. After concurrent meetings, you may decide to sweep your differences under the carpet. Through this, you may further reconsider the relationship.

If not you, your friend has said to you that they hold on to a relationship because they believe in change. In the same case, you may have the desire to change your ex and figure things out. People, especially women, believe that a man has the power to change, and no matter how long it takes, men will change. This is an obsession that drives you to think that you can fix a broken relationship.

Exes come after years when the dust caused by the differences has settled, and probably you’ve moved on. Most people, if not all, have exes, and this means that one among these exes may be willing to return. We have outlined 7 signs that you may miss that show your ex will be back.

After a breakup, they may try to make efforts to reach out to you. This is to establish contact with you, which will end up having conversations again. Do not miss out when they begin to make these small moves.

They may use this as a way of getting back to you is making you feel the nostalgic effect now that you are not there to make more memories together. This is a smart technique to trigger the feelings you might have for them.

When they find a way to you, they may begin to pour their hearts out about what they still feel about you. Saying they still love you is one strategic sign that you shouldn’t ignore. Probably they haven’t found a better partner than you. Apart from talking to you, they may ask your friends about you. This is to show that they are trying to keep tabs with you. It could also be that they want to know if you have found someone new.

It always happens when you fall apart with a partner. You want to see their progress without you. If they go ahead to like your posts, comment on your social media posts, it’s obvious they want you back. Stalking helps them to keep track of your every move, and in most cases, they keep waiting patiently to see the next posts. If you are still into your ex, you don't need to keep playing games when you notice this sign.

They want you to see that even though you are no longer together, they aren’t interested in moving on at all costs. It is a clear indication that they still need you in their life and, in due time, may come knocking back at your heart.

It is undoubtedly that the first thing you do after a break up is to get rid of all things and memories accumulated in the relationship. However, this may be interpreted in two ways. One where they want to keep the things, so they do keep the memories you made. Two, they are uncertain about the breakup, and they may decide to return. 

Imagine breaking up with ex while you had unfinished business. It is obvious that you will somewhat feel like going back to them only to accomplish the business you had. I addition to this, if they keep reminding you of these plans, there is a certainty that they want, you back, and eventually, you will find yourself back. They cannot imagine fulfilling the plans you set together by themselves.

No matter the differences that led to your relationship breaking, it’s not an easy way to move on, that is why we find your exes using all ways to crawl back to your heart. Having these signs is understandable since loneliness is a stressful feeling, and returning to you may be a way to fight their labyrinth.

In addition to this, it’s completely normal to have a post-breakup phase. You don't immediately forget a partner, and it’s always good to try to work things out and rekindle a fallen relationship. With the above signs, don't miss out when your ex wants to come back. Remember also that no relationship is perfect.