How To Attract And Get The Attention of A Scorpio Man

Dynamic, sensual and energized are only a few of the amazing traits that a Scorpio man possesses. A Scorpio man is very hard to conquer. They have a mysterious and enigmatic aura around them that might exhaust you mentally. You are in for a tough challenge if you have made up your mind to attract and win over a Scorpio man. They are mostly passionate men who are often in total control of the situation. They are powerful and focused people. At work, they can only concentrate on their career. Winning them over is not easy but if you have set your heart on a Scorpio man then there are a few tips which can help you conquer him easily. Read on further to know how to attract and get the attention of a Scorpio man.

Truth matters a lot to a Scorpio. They cannot have any relationship with anyone who has deceived them or taken them to be a fool. Forgive and forget is something that does not belong to their dictionary. They would probably cut you off forever if you have given them a chance not to trust you. You can never get away with any kind of lies in front of a Scorpio however good you think you are with lies. If they find out, they will cut you off from their lives forever. A good thing about a Scorpio man is that he will tolerate honesty and truth no matter how hurting it is. He can forgive truthful people. So if you have ever managed to do something wrong, it's better to confess it then and there instead of hiding it from him. He will eventually get to know about it. They are suckers for truth and honesty and you might win your way if you are totally honest.

Scorpio men find it very challenging to woo a woman who has a mysterious aura about herself. They respect dignified, classy, controlled and clever women. Do not disclose little secrets about yourself easily, as this will fascinate him. He will be attracted towards you and will want to know you better. Solving difficult puzzles and uncovering hidden truths is one of their most beloved passions. Challenge is the key to drawing the attention of a Scorpio man. Make yourself a prized catch or an impossible-to-get-woman. This will not only intrigue them but will pull them towards you like a magnet. If you let yourself be known as an open book, a Scorpio man will quickly lose interest in you. But remember to be truthful and honest throughout. You can send him text messages which will want him to know you better. Do not be too long in your text messages. Short and to the point text messages will intrigue them.

One thing a Scorpio man cannot stand is a weak or lose-willed woman. They like a strong-headed personality and anyone who comes across as cheap or weak will lose their importance in their life. A Scorpio man seeks a woman of substance. Be bold and clear about your aspirations in life. Find out his weakness and excel in it if you want to win his attraction. It could be perfectly cooked good food or it could be a woman who excels in her career. Do not let anyone push you around or take you for granted. Such character traits are often noticed by a Scorpio man and he will respect a woman who knows her mind and leads her way with class and dignity. Flaunt if you possess something precious; if you don't, do not lie. A Scorpio man might test you repeatedly to know whether you are capable of standing for yourself. They take some time to come to a conclusion about someone. Winning a Scorpio man's heart is not at all easy!

A Scorpio man loves challenges and same holds true for sex also. You have to play a little bit hard to get. They soon lose interest or get bored of women who are always available and eager for sex. Wear provocative clothes but not the too revealing kinds as they love to have left something to the imagination. Make him wait for as long as you can for sex and they would get super excited. You need to send strong signals of being sexually attracted to him. You can send him short but flirty text messages containing only a bit of hint. They are people who are not too clear with their words. They prefer women who can read their mind. For them it’s all about actions and eye contact. But once, they have set their eyes and hearts on you, you have won the battle. They are extremely loyal partners.

One thing that a Scorpio man hates is to being told what to do. They are soon to feel insecure if they feel that someone else is controlling them. A Scorpio man loves to feel in personal control of the situation. It is very rare that they would disclose their inner insecurities to anyone or ask anyone for help. They would do so only to someone whom they can look up to. For winning a Scorpio man's heart and his confidence initially, you have to keep your advice to yourself. This will only make a Scorpio man suspicious of your motives even though you have no such thing in your mind. They are quick to misjudge people too and especially those who are only trying to help. A romance with a Scorpio man is like playing with fire. Only slowly can you ever suggest or tell them what you think, it might take months before they completely trust you and before that you need to keep to yourself.

You cannot seduce or woo a Scorpio man with parlor or fake seduction techniques. They get completely put off by fake behavior. You need to present your true and authentic self. This seduces them more than anything else. A Scorpio man hates anything fake. A good haircut, fancy jewellery, branded clothes and perfect make-up will only make the Scorpio run away from you. What attracts a Scorpio man is bare-bone-beautiful. You have got to have a beautiful skin, healthy body and clean body. Your nails, hair and teeth should be clean, healthy and disease free.

Being in control of the situation is what a Scorpio man loves. Let him plan your vacations as they are excellent planners. You do have a right to voice your objections and they are not rigid about it provided you give them clear reasons and alternate suggestions. They are flexible too but they should completely agree with your viewpoint. Let your Scorpio man drive the car as this makes him feel totally in control. To be in control for them is like to be in their comfort zone.

A Scorpio man has a fiery temper. They can get very rude and mean if they are angry. Tit-for-tat is often their revenge motto and they will do anything and go to extremes to hurt you or see you in pain. They will bring about things from the past and say hurtful things to you. The best thing to do at that time is to keep quiet as they quickly cool down too. Only then do they become receptive to reasoning. Don't say things to them that you don't mean as they have a very good memory and will always remember those words. But the good thing is that they only show their anger to those whom they consider close. A Scorpio man will only scream and fight with you if he feels you are close to him. A Scorpio man also has a tendency to bottle up emotions and then explode one day over trivial matters.

A Scorpio man hates to disclose his ideas and plan to achieve his goals in life. No matter how sweet you are to him, he will not feel comfortable enough to share his goals with him at least in the initial years of knowing him. He has to build complete trust in you to do so. Even if you very sweet to him and try to lure him out with his secret plans, he will be quick to notice and instantly shut you out. You can instead notice how methodically they work or plan to achieve their goals. For a weight loss goal, you can notice how they have made changes to their diet. You will be able to see their goals in the results and the results will speak volumes of what they have aspired in life.

A Scorpio man prefers undivided attention. Whenever they make conversation with you, be sure to make eye-contact, share your opinions and totally show him your interest in him. Do not multi-task in between like sending texts as this will put them off.

Many people consider a Scorpio man as rude, cold and distant but they are wonderful and stable partners once you know them. They let someone enter their world after a lot of speculation but once they do, they have a lovely life with a Scorpio. They are intelligent beings. You cannot attract them by being sweet but by showing them your own goal-oriented approach to life. Never force a Scorpio man to enter into your friend's circle. They make their own friends circle after much thought and are not particularly social. A Scorpio man looks at the world in black or white and grey is not a shade in their dictionary. They either like someone or they don't. Tough personality for sure, but you can have the best of relationships with a Scorpio man.