Best 50 Fun Sex Positions To Try With Your Boyfriend
Take note of the positions that will catapult your sex life to one found only in erotica novels, and invite your boyfriend for some raunchy fun!
Jul 24, 2018
Gear up for a fun night or day with your boyfriend
Being in a relationship is fun and fulfilling for more reasons than sex. Having said that though, sex happens to be a very crucial factor in the working of a fun relationship! And while emotions and feelings facilitate for a more wholesome sexual experience with your partner, technique does matter. Also, be informed that it is not always the man’s prerogative to initiate or encourage newer techniques to experiment with. You can be the one initiating them instead. Not only will that catapult you to the prized position of the world’s coolest girlfriend, it will also ensure that you have fun exactly the way you like it! Therefore, ladies, get your Samantha Jones on and gear up for a fun “ride in” with your boyfriend!
How you and your boyfriend should prep for this?
Whether you’re still in the honeymoon phase of a fresh new relationship, or you’ve been in love for a very long time and the relationship is kinda getting robbed off of its initial charms, some daring new sex positions always works. Why insist on eating vanilla ice cream at dessert every time when there are so many varied flavors to choose from? Granted, some of these other flavors might or might not be your taste, but it is never a bad idea to at least try something different from time to time. You’ll be surprised at how much of an impact it could bring to your love life. So sit back and stretch your muscles as we walk you through the ultimate guide list of the 50 best sex positions for an amped up night (or day, or morning or afternoon or evening!) with your partner.
Classic sex positions that never go out of style
Classics are born when some things stand the test of time and prove their effectiveness with every generation. Before we dive into the more adventurous tricks of sex, let’s do a run-down of the most popular sex positions:
Sex position #1 Missionary
Perhaps the most well-known and oft-used sex position of all times, it is generally where most people start (aka cherry popping position). Have your boyfriend lie on top of you for this while you accommodate him comfortably between your parted legs and embrace him.
Sex position #2 Cowgirl
Next up, the one that is every man’s favorite (besides the doggy style that is!). Also called the “Woman on Top”, this sex position requires the girlfriend to sit straight atop her partner and ride him. It literally keeps you on the top of things as you get to control the pace and depth of movement to your benefit.
Sex position #3 Spooning
Moving on from the man’s favorite to the woman’s favorite. Spooning is favored mostly by women because of the intimacy it brings with the partner. Here, you lay on your side with your man behind you (called the big spoon) with you in front (called the small spoon) and he enters you from behind while holding you close.
Sex position #4 Sixty Nine
Yet another popular sex position, 69 is also one of the most difficult positions to master. The girlfriend lies on top of her boyfriend with her head towards his feet and vice versa for a session of oral sex (like the figure "69").
Sex position #5 Doggy style
Every man has had his adolescence filled with fantasies of taking his woman from behind. And can you blame them? The doggy style sex position, which implies the woman crouching on all fours with the man entering her from behind, has an animalistic (quite literally) rhythm and sensation to it that further ignites the passion of sex.
Kamasutra sex positions for fun and pleasure
We can’t be discussing revolutionary sex positions without mentioning Kamasutra, the ancient Indian techniques of making love, meant for long and lasting pleasure for both the man and the woman. The following are some key tricks to try:
Sex position #6 Sammukha
This sex position has the eye-contact intimacy of missionary, and the pace and depth of doggy style; so it’s a definite win-win situation! Stand and lean against the wall with your legs parted as far as you can and let him enter you as he leans towards the wall with every push (kind of like a push up, but better!)
Sex position #7 Tripadam
Easily transitioned from the Sammukha position, here your guy raises one of your legs, holding it from under your knee, and enters like before. The raised leg makes room for faster penetration and hence should be an obvious choice in your sexual itinerary.
Sex position #8 Janukurpara
The Janukurpara sex position, translated the “knee elbow”, requires the man to lift his girlfriend by locking his elbows under her knees, while he stands and enters her, all the while holding her up in his arms.
Sex position #9 Piditaka
However, if strength and agility are not really your strong suit (most of us, really) but you still want to reap the benefits of Kamasutra, this lying position is great! You lie on your back and pull your legs to your chest, while your partner kneels before you and enters. You can either rest your feet on his chest or cross them for a more compact feeling.
Sex position #10 Svanaka
Another lying position, it is like Spooning in that he enters from behind with his grip tight on your waist, but you twist from the waist and turn to look at him while he moves, maybe also caressing his face with your hand.
Exhibitionist sex positions for voyeuristic fun
One of the most effective tricks to have pleasurable sex is to throw in some voyeuristic fun. Use positions that let you flaunt your body before his eyes because after all, your body is one of the biggest turn-ons for him.
Sex position #11 Nirvana
Lie down on your back and raise both your legs straight up. He sits in front of you and enters you, while his eyes and hands get to explore every inch of your face and body.
Sex position #12 Emperor
Another classic sex goddess move, lie on your side with your head prepped up on your hand. He sits behind you and enters. Now twist around and turn back to look at him while he stares down at your sprawled body and touches you everywhere.
Sex position #13 Reverse cowgirl
Depending on which part of the female body excites your man the most, the reverse cowgirl position is for the one who has a fascination for the butt. In this, he lies on his back and you sit on top of him facing away from him, riding. Literally, the cowgirl, in reverse!
Sex position #14 Waterfall
A slightly advanced position, here your partner kneels and you sit facing him and wrap your legs around his waist. Next you stretch and arch all the way back (yep, slight bit difficult), while he supports you by holding your waist. He does all the moving but gets to see you all the while in all your flexible glory.
Sex position #15 Puzzle
Not the least bit puzzling, in this position, the man sits with his legs spread out and his girlfriend lies down between them, her own legs raised up on the man’s shoulders. He enters and moves while she looks at him and plays with her own body, a veritable feast for his eyes!
Quickie sex positions for quick fun with your boyfriend
Sometimes, sex is all about an urgent need where you just have to have him right then and there, even if in a totally inappropriate place, at a totally inopportune time. For such quickies, the tricks are to use uncomplicated positions that help you stay fully clothed and get the act done quickly (obviously).
Sex position #16 Leapfrog
Bend over on all your fours (kind of like a frog) while he stands and enters you from behind. Only small adjustments in clothing are required for this, and the rear entry makes penetration deeper, which results in quicker climaxing.
Sex position #17 Column
Standing sex positions are the best for quickies, and in this, your man stands behind you and enters. You lean slightly forward, away from him, to facilitate faster movement, and he uses one hand to grip your waist and the other to stimulate your clit, which ensures that you finish fast.
Sex position #18 Airplane
In this sex position, have your man sit with this legs stretched out. Sit on his lap with your back to him and spread your legs all the way apart (so your legs look like the wings of an airplane). He grabs your waist and makes you jump on him, while you use your hands to caress him and yourself to a faster climax.
Sex position #19 Sagittarius
Stand with your side to your guy (who is standing too) and raise one leg. He holds your leg and waist and enters from under, while you support yourself by putting your arm around his shoulder. Use the other hand to stimulate your breasts and clit.
Sex position #20 Disco
In this simple standing sex position, stand face to face with your legs slightly apart. Your man, with his legs together, enters you, holding your waist. You’re both required to move rhythmically together. The close body contact makes for a stimulating sexual experience.
Sex positions for better emotional connect
And then there are times where you need to savor every moment together in sex, lingering on to every move and touch. Make love the slow and deep way with these next positions.
Sex position #21 Gemini
In a seated position, perch on the lap of your boyfriend (who has his legs stretched out) with each of your legs going on either side of his waist! He holds you at the waist and you grab his neck. Lock your eyes and make love
Sex position #22 Jellyfish
In this sex position, the guy kneels and his girlfriend kneels before him. Then she hugs him feverishly with both arms and raises one leg to make room for him to enter. He hugs her close to him and makes love, occasionally kissing her face and neck.
Sex position #23 Twix
There’s nothing like a full body contact between lovers for a deep connection, both literally and figuratively. This position is like the missionary, except that you keep your legs together and your man lies on top, so every inch of both of your bodies is connected. Combine this with warm embraces and kisses for deeper bonding.
Sex position #24 Thirst
This position ups the ante on embracing and body contact. Lie on your side, face to face with your partner. Wrap one leg around his waist, and let one of his legs go between your parted legs to enter you. Keep your legs intertwined all the while and hug each other while you make love.
Sex position #25 Lap Dance
This position is great if you like being kissed on the neck (but then, who doesn’t?) In this, the man sits on his haunches with his legs together and folded. His girlfriend sits on his lap with her back to him, riding him, while he kisses and touches her all over, all the while holding her very close to himself.
Fun sex positions for better orgasm
It is no news that women take longer to climax. But with a few tricks and positions, you can achieve the big O without much difficulty (and possibly multiple times too!) Here’s how:
Sex position #26 London Bridge
Lie comfortably on your back and spread your legs. Make your man kneel in front of you and hold your waist, raising your hips off the ground. Arch your back upwards to facilitate this position, and let him enter you with your hips up in the air. This ensures deeper penetration and faster orgasm.
Sex position #27 Elephant
Here, your man kneels and sits on his heels. You hug him and lift your body off the ground to hang on to his body, your legs wrapped around his waist. He grabs your waist and makes you jump him. The intense riding and close friction of the genitals ease your way to orgasmic ocean.
Sex position #28 Corkscrew
This one is tricky but immensely effective. Lie down and let your man kneel and enter you from behind. Next, twist your hips to one side and lock one of his legs between yours, with him still inside you. The tricks with twisting and turning are to change angles of penetration which ensures he finds and hits your G spot.
Sex position #29 Hero
Lie down on your back and let your boyfriend kneel on front of you and enter. You put a cushion under your hips to raise them slightly and he lifts one of your legs to facilitate faster movement. With the other hand, he rubs your clit while your hands are free to play with your breasts.
Sex position #30 Harp
This position helps with creating variation with angles too, but instead of you, your boyfriend does the job. Lie down on your side and lift one leg up. Have your man kneel and enter, but turning to face your back, instead of facing you. Basically, you’re facing away from each other, while he rests his arms on the ground to push as hard as he can.
Oral sex positions to try with your boyfriend
Speaking of orgasms, oral sex can sometimes be far more effective on achieving that instead of vaginal sex. The following positions are effective tricks that aim to make your oral experience better than it has been.
Sex position #31 Fire Hydrant
This is the classic blow job position where the woman sits and the man stands, but instead of kneeling (which is the usual), you sit comfortably on your with your legs stretched out and knees bent. This will help you carry on with the act for much longer than if you were kneeling.
Sex position #32 Virgo
This is the same as the Hydrant except now it is your turn to receive the oral love (because equality, right?) Stand with your legs spread out well apart so he gets access to every nook and corner.
Sex position #33 Plumber
This might take some time to master, but try you must! Get on all fours and have your boyfriend squat right in front of your mouth. His member goes inside your mouth, while his hands extend over your back to your vagina so he can touch and finger you at the same time.
Sex position #34 Shining
This is a variation of the 69, but instead of going on top, both of you lie on your side facing each other, while still in reverse directions. One of both your legs goes over the other’s head so both of you can have oral sex at the same time.
Sex position #35 Sphinx
This one is all about you, but I’m sure he won’t mind! Make him lie down and simply sit near his face, parting your legs and adjusting the height to reach your vagina to his mouth. Then confidently push yourself into his mouth, occasionally moving your hips to control the pace and direction. It’s like having sex with his mouth.
Fun sex positions to try outside the bedroom
If your idea of sex involves only a bed, or at the most, the floor next to the bed, your sex life needs an urgent overhaul! Venture outside the bedroom with these top notch experimental positions:
Sex position #36 Padlock
Because the urge for sex can arrive, and rightly so, even when you’re baking a cake, this position helps you make use of the kitchen counter. Sit on the table and make your boyfriend enter you from the front, and wrap your legs around his waist. A much better way to wait for those muffins to cook!
Sex position #37 Perch
Was he working at his desk and you took one look at him and suddenly wanted him urgently and unwaveringly? Simply sit on his lap as he sits on his chair, with your back to him. As you take him in and ride him, let his hands caress all over your body.
Sex position #38 Stick figure
Don’t tell me you’ve never been working out, hot and sweaty, and never wanted each other right then! Roll your yoga mat to support your head as he stands in front of you and lifts you, waist up, off the ground, with only your head touching the ground now. Point your legs and toes and straighten your body, to facilitate better penetration. This requires good fitness levels, but if you’re doing it during an exercise session, you most probably have them.
Sex position #39 Ballerina
If you’re any place that has a wall, this will work. Face and hold the wall and bend down. Then raise one leg up as your man enters you from behind, holding the raised leg to support you.
Sex position #40 Poplar
This one is straight up daring and requires massive levels of skill, so if you’re looking for something off the charts, this is it. Find some stairs and do a handstand (you heard that right) facing away from you guy. Then make him climb up a couple of stairs, where the height is perfect to enter you, obviously holding you so you don’t fall off!
Athletic sex positions for an athletic boyfriend
And now from the daring to the straight up crazy moves! These positions require high levels of fitness and strength, but what’s life without some adventurous sex, right? Disclaimer though, try at your own risk!
Sex position #41 Bridge
In this position, make your man sit with his feet and palms resting flat on the ground, his knees bent. Next, he must raise his hips off the ground, while having his feet and palms still on the ground, until he looks like a couch. Now climb on top of him, facing him and holding his neck and shoulders. Stretch your legs out to his shoulders as well, and take him in. You have to both simultaneously push towards each other, and you’ll find yourself being lowkey flung up and down as a result. This definitely takes practice to nail.
Sex position #42 Avalanche
This is much simpler, but still requires a lot of core and upper body strength for your partner. Get in doggy position. Your man has to go over you from one side at a 90 degree angle, in a push up position. He enters you from the side and starts moving.
Sex position #43 Female Peasant
Find a wall and make your man do an almost-headstand against it (i.e. if he can!) You should now face his legs and stand with your legs spread out across his body. From his upside down position, he should be looking at your butt right now. Take him in and squat up and down for the motion. He will hold on to your butt.
Sex position #44 Aphrodite
This will work well if either the man is strongly built or if his girlfriend is petite and light. In this, he sits with his back straight and legs stretched out and the girl sits on his lap facing one side. Now she takes him in and he lifts her in his arms up and down to get her moving.
Sex position #45 Workout
Aptly named workout, this one requires muscle strength. Make your man stand up and climb onto his body with your legs wrapped around his waist, and your arms around his neck. Hang on to him while he lifts you up and down.
Rough sex positions for a Christian Grey-type boyfriend
Kinky sex shouldn’t be ruled out even in the tamest relationships. Getting rough is just one of the tricks to spice up your sex life, and as long as you don’t hurt each other, these positions will ignite your wild side.
Sex position #46 Downward dog
This is basically doggy style sex but the man pushes his girlfriend further down on the bed. With one hand, he twists her arm and holds it behind her back, and with another he holds her neck and pins her head onto the bed.
Sex position #47 Prison Guard
For this sex position, bend over and let your boyfriend stand and enter you from behind. He then twists both your arms and holds them behind you, as if holding you captive, hence the name.
Sex position #48 Cowboy
Cowboy is also another variation of the doggy style sex, but here the man squats instead of kneeling, to ride the woman. This stance facilitates much faster and aggressive movements.
Sex position #49 Amazon
It’s not always he who gets to be aggressive. You can, too! In this sex position, he lies down on his back with his legs apart and knees pulled to his chest. Kneel in front of him and enter him. Planting your hands on his chest, move as fast as you can. He increases the aggression by grabbing your butt and pulling you in at every stroke.
Sex position #50 Jockey
This sex position is lowkey rough because it is only about speed and motion, instead of caressing and cuddling. Lie down on your chest and let your man sit on your butt and ride as fast as he wishes to. And slap and spank as he goes. At the end of the day, variation is the spice of life. And adding this spice to sex ensures that you have a long span of fun and excitement in your sex life. Simply changing it up on the sex positions can make a sea of difference. Try right now!