20 Tips To Make Him Happy And Satisfied

Wondering what you should do to make your man happy? Here are some things you should do to not only make him happy but to also satisfy him completely.

By Jesse
20 Tips To Make Him Happy And Satisfied

Introduction

When did you last make him happy and satisfied? There is a higher chance you are trying hard every day, and you want to have all the facts at your fingertips. Relationships are complex, delicate and change every while. Some relationships last until one partner dies, while others only last 72 days. Look at Kim Kardashian! When people are in a relationship, they hope that it will last long, if not a lifetime. There is no secret to a lasting and happy relationship, it’s all about how you treat each other, and as a lady, you have your own roles in maintaining your relationship. You obviously share a perfect romance with your guy, but it takes more than romance to make him happy and satisfied. Here are 20 tips and ideas on how to make him happy and satisfied as well as boost his interest in you sexually.

1. Make Him a Priority

If all you want is to make him happy as the sun rises and sets, you need to let him know how special he is in your life. Life can be busy sometimes. You can be out there working, in school, with kids or with some commitments that you hardly find much time for him, but you can find some time out of your day and spend with him. You can also text him something sweet that can make him happy, or you can simply pick his favorite drink from the store on your way home. By doing that, he will know that he is always in your mind.

2. Make Him Happy By Praising Him In Front Of Others

Every man would be happy if his woman complimented him in front of other people. You shouldn’t say how good he is in bed unless you are talking to your girlfriends, but you can talk about how supportive he is, how he works hard, how successful his business is and so forth. When you show your appreciation for him for everyone to see and compliment him for everyone to hear, he will be glad and happy to have someone who supports and stands by him. That’s how you should make him satisfied.

3. Respect Yourself

Sometimes negligence is the issue. As much as your relationship should be sexually active and you should be good in bed, we sometimes go too far on the other end of the spectrum. When you put your partner ahead 24/7 thinking that you are making him happy, you are actually killing the passion in your relationship. If you want to make him happy, don’t be a doormat and don’t do everything for him. You have to take care and look confident.

4. Make Him Feel Secure

Men have epic egos, that’s for sure, but their hearts are extremely fragile. A man can’t be happy after a heartbreak. You might think what hurts a man more is having nothing in his wallet or bank account, but it’s actually a woman. Don’t make your man feel threatened easily and squeeze in an insecure shell. You can make him feel safe and secure in your heart. By doing so, he will be happy to have you and love you more.

5. Have a Body Confidence To Make Him Happy

Your body confidence is important in any relationship that is active sexually. You need to keep the spark alive while in bed. They say people change, and so do bodies. Since you met him, you have probably gained weight, got some dark chin hairs, or you have a weird scar that was left after surgery or an accident, but he doesn’t care about all that. Good men are not turned off by such things. Therefore, be active in your sex life just like before. Make him happy.

6. Take The Lead in Bed

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If you want to make him happy, be sexually active in bed. You wonder how? Study and experiment. You have to try new things with your boyfriend or husband. One of the biggest causes of boredom in the bedroom is repetition. Is missionary style the only one ever invented? Not really! There are hundreds of techniques and positions that can spice up your romance and make him happy. You just need to research, practice and perfect them. Keeps things sexier and he won’t be able to resist and love you more.

7. Don’t Use Sex As Your Weapon

Some women don’t realize that when they deny their men sex, they end up not being happy with the relationship and break up with them. As a woman, you have the lock underneath you, and he has the key to that lock. He want’s to be opening you frequently. Denying him sex because he didn’t prepare the dinner or take the garbage out is wrong. You shouldn’t even reserve BJs for birthdays unless you want him to believe you consider sex a chore.

8. Be Motivational When He Talks About His Endeavors

It’s normal to find flaws in your partner and not support all his ideas, but it would be wrong to oppose them without any apparent reason or rational judgment. People are raised differently and go through different experiences in life. You probably don’t like his new business idea, and so, you suggest another option. But you should not force him. It’s your responsibility to bring out the best in your man and be helpful by motivating him to achieve his destiny.

9. Keep An Open Mind

If you want to make your partner happy and satisfied, you need to agree with him. You can just try the restaurant he wants you to and anything else that won’t hurt you. The most important place though is the bedroom. When it comes to sex, people have different tastes and so, if you want to keep yours exciting, try to approach it in a relaxed manner. And if he likes a style you are not comfortable with, try not to tell him that you find it weird. Some people are living with sexual shame.

10. Surprise Him Frequently With Things He Likes

Most girls like to shop, and if you visit the store regularly, you will definitely come across something that your partner has an interest in. You must be knowing what he likes most, after all, you see him probably every day picking a specific thing from the fridge. You also should know what he loves to wear and do during his free time. So, why don’t you buy something he will appreciate? Just pick it up for him. You can be surprising him with little and thoughtful gifts every while and make him happy.

11. Trust Him

You were probably raised in a society that taught you that men are incompetent and develop an interest in all women around them provided they aren’t related. That’s how bitter women talk after they fail to maintain their relationships. You need to respect your partner’s intelligence and not fall for that crap. If you want to make him happy, don’t hound about his neighbor, workmate, or lecture, snoop and accuse him of things he perhaps didn’t do.

12. Be a Great Cook

They say that food is truly the best way to a guy’s heart, and so, your mastery in the kitchen is very important. He might say he doesn’t mind if you don’t know how to cook, but you need to know what kind of food he has an interest in and learn to cook it well. You can get all the tips from the cookbooks or the internet. Cooking him a fabulous dish will make him love you more.

13. Never Talk Behind His Back

All couples encounter difficult moments, but airing your dirty laundry will make him less happy. The only time you should consult the third party is when your partner is doing something dangerous or illegal, or he is abusive, and your close relatives should come in and help. Instead, seek tips on how to end your relationship drama instead of ranting to your friends. You can forgive a man, but he might not be able to, so keep everything to yourself to make him feel happy and loved.

14. Make Him Feel Lucky to Have You

Make him proud of you by being a charmer and a graceful woman who receives everyone’s attention. Always impress people around you and get noticed. There are many guys who will really admire you and wish they were in love with you, but that doesn’t matter. What matters is your partner knowing he has a woman most guys desire to have. He will thank God for having a lady who takes the air out of any room she enters.

15. Flirt With Him

Flirting with your guy will keep your passion alive and its arguably very vital in a relationship. Flirting can be a reflection of your thinking sexually, and he will feel happy being sexually aroused. You can plan solo dates, maybe try new things together, or pinch his but cheeks for fun. You can ask your friends for some tips and advice on the best lines to tell him. You can also be sexting him whenever you are not busy.

16. Don’t Hide You Childish Behavior

As you are growing, you probably feel like you are matured and can’t be childish anymore. Most women become mothers and avoid acting like children because they don’t want their kids to think they are childish. Men become childish sometimes, especially when they are with their friends or partners and so, when you man acts like this, don’t get angry. Instead, join him and do the childish stuff together. If you love him and you want to make him happy, you should share the same interests with him.

17. Give Him Some Space

When it comes to space, men are totally different from women. Most women are normally fine with people being around them all the time, but men tend to get annoyed when they don’t get some time alone by themselves to do something. You need to give your man some space every time he needs, and you will realize everything will work just fine. Make him happy by telling him you will be back in a few or by asking him to call you when he is done.

18. Ask For His Help Frequently

You probably didn’t know that men think they are intellectuals when it comes to problem-solving. When you ask him to help you out, and he comes over, listen to his opinion looking at him. In fact, you can create the problem yourself; it will look so sweet when he is helping you out. He will surely swell with love and be proud that he helped you out.

19. Get Helpless In His Arms When You’re Hurt

Whenever you feel down and helpless after something terrible has happened to you, walk towards him and let him wrap his arms around you. He will comfort you and make you feel you have someone to run to. Deep down in his heart, he will be so happy knowing that he is the one who can make you feel better. Furthermore, he will be overwhelmed with love and affection for you.

20. Respect Him

Everybody deserves respect, and when you are in love, you can stupidly speak to your man and put him in jest. You should always be careful and know where to draw the line. Men hate to be ridiculed, especially in public. You have to make him feel appreciated and respected. They say respect is earned, and he earned it when he began dating you. If you want him to be happy, respect him.

Happiness and satisfaction with a relationship come from deep within, and if you don’t work hard to make him feel that, then your relationship might not last long. He also has to put some effort, and it’s not just your responsibility.

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