Why doesn't she love you anymore?
Sometimes, the bond of marriage is not enough to keep two people together. There may come a time in a marriage when your wife will begin to lose her love for you. But what are the causes of this sad situation? How do you handle a situation where your wife has fallen out of love? Here are 15 signs that you wife doesn’t love you anymore.
1. Not listening to you is one of the signs that your wife doesn’t love you
In an ideal marriage, there should be open communication. The couple should do their best to talk and listen to one another. You wife should always be there to listen to you. Likewise, you should always be there to listen to her. Communication is one of the key factors in a successful marriage. The moment you realize that you wife has lost interest in communication; it is one of the signs that she no longer loves you. Sooner or later, you might find yourself being served with divorce papers.
2. Not getting intimate with you is another sign that love is lost
Nothing holds a marriage better than intimacy. Intimacy cannot be enjoyed if there no physical connection. This is why you get married to the person you love and not just any good friend. Unlike what some people may believe, sex is not meant to stop after the first few years of marriage. In fact, there are many couples who continue having sex even in their 70’s and 80s. They believe that sex gets better in marriage and this is how things should be. Women love intimacy and cuddling. There is no better way for a couple to validate their marriage than through sex. One of the signs that your wife is no longer in love with you is when she finds excuses not to have sex with you. When kids come in a marriage, this may put a break on the intimacy. However, if you get to a point where you notice that there is no more sexual intercourse, kissing, or cuddling in a relationship, then it may be a big sign that you wife is no longer in love with you.
3. Your wife takes you for granted
In a marriage, one of the things that you should always agree on is to find time for one another. When you realize that you are no longer a priority in her life, this is an indication that your wife is no longer in love with you. This is because women will usually give priority to the people they value. It is important for couples to spend time together. Taking some time away from you to take care of herself is okay if this happens occasionally. But the moment you realize that she is always claiming to be busy with other things such as work or even her girlfriends; it is a sign that you are no longer a priority in her life.
4. Your wife no longer responds to your calls and messages
Women are commonly driven by emotions. In most cases, they will simply make a call to you even when they got nothing to tell you so they can just to listen to your voice. When you text your wife and she doesn’t reply in the next few hours, it is a sign that she doesn’t see you as the most important person in her life. If you call her and she doesn’t respond to you, this is a sign that she no longer values having an open communication with you.
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5. Focusing on herself alone is among the signs that your wife doesn’t love you
There is nothing wrong with you wife paying special attention to her life, education, and career. Even though marriage is the union of two people, it does not mean that you should give up your individual interests. However, when you notice that your wife suddenly starts focusing on herself without informing you of her decisions, then you should be concerned. This is a sign that she no longer loves you.
6. Your wife is no longer checking on you
When married life has been completely familiar for the both of you, you will notice that the spark will diminish. Your communication with her will no longer be what it used to be. However, when you notice that communication has completely broken down, it simply means that things are no longer okay. When you are in love with someone, you will always have the urge to check how they are doing. You should get concerned when you find out that she is no longer calling or texting you when you are away for a long period of time. This is a sign that she no longer cares about you.
7. Cheating is the biggest sign that your wife no longer loves you
When love grows cold, the temptation to cheat becomes greater. If you are truly in love with your partner, you would never think of cheating on them. Cheating is the biggest sign that your wife has lost her love for you. Therefore, if you find your wife cheating on you, it is a clear sign that she is no longer in love with you.
8. She no longer cares about you
Your wife should be there for you just as you are there for her. If you find that she is always taking more than what you are giving, then this is definitely a sign of her fading love. In a good relationship, both spouses should play a role in making the relationship work. When you notice that she no longer bears her responsibilities and instead she loads them on you, it is a sign that she doesn’t love you anymore. Soon enough, she might serve you with divorce papers.
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9. She is no longer your number 1 fan
When a woman is in love, she is always there to support and cheer for her husband in everything he does. Unlike men who will lust after beauty, women will usually fall in love with a man with admirable traits. When you find that your wife no longer admires you, then this is a sign that she no longer loves you. This is because the amount of admiration and support that a woman has for you is a sign of the level of respect she has for you. She will stop admiring you when she begins to lost respect for you. Some of the things that cause a woman to lose respect for her husband include poor choices, laziness, and being irresponsible.
10. She no longer respects your family
There are many women out there who will complain about their in-laws and this may at times lead to fights and arguments. When a woman truly loves her husband, she will value his family. She will treat his family members with respect no matter now unpleasant they may be. This is because she understands that after marriage, a couple becomes a part of each other's families. If a woman no longer shows respect to you family, then it is a sign that she no longer loves you.
11. Frequent arguments are signs that your wife no longer loves you
It is normal for women to experience emotional breakdowns. However, it might mean something different when you find that she is always getting in an argument with you over nearly everything. This can be a sign that she no longer loves you the way she did before. It might be a matter of time before she serves you with divorce papers. If she is complaining over every trivial matter, then it is important to start assessing your relationship with her. While it may not be possible to avoid arguments, thy should not occur on a daily basis as they can put a strain on your marriage.
12. Your wife no longer gets jealous
Women tend to guard their territory in a relationship. Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you had to ask permission from her to go out with your buddies? Did your wife get mad or jealous because you added your ex-girlfriend on Facebook? A wife will always want to guard her husband in one way or another. She will always want to be updated on the things that her husband is doing. If you notice that she no longer gets jealous and lets you do whatever you want, then this is a sign that she doesn’t love you anymore. You better find out what the problem is before she starts asking for divorce.
13. She raises the bar for you
When we get married, we make vows to love our partners for who they are and for better or for worse. This means that as husband and wife, you should fully accept each other despite all your flaws and shortcomings. So watch out if your wife suddenly has unrealistic expectations from you. When you wife starts raising the bar for you, then this is a sign that she is not happy about something. She may no longer loves you, and it may be a matter of time before she file for divorce.
14. Talking about another man is a sign that your wife no longer loves you
When your wife starts talking obsessively about the ever kind Tim at the workplace or the hot trainer John at the gym, then be alarmed. This is a sign that things are not as rosy as you would like them to be. It could be that the man who is receiving all the praises may be putting his hand into the cookie jar. When your wife starts focusing on someone else, it means that she is no longer focusing on you. She found someone else who is worthy of her attention. This is a sign that she is no longer in love with you and that she may be planning for a divorce. No matter how bad this may sound, it is the truth for many couples on the verge of a separation.
15. She no longer wants your marriage to work
It takes the efforts of both spouses to make marriage work. When you find that your wife is no longer working towards keeping your marriage strong, then it means that something is not right. It may be an indication that she no longer cares whether your marriage works or not. The reason why she doesn’t care at all is because she no longer wants your marriage to work. She no longer makes an effort to resolve your problems because for her, it's no longer worth it.
Can you still save your marriage?
When one or more of these signs is present in your life, it is an indication that your marriage may be at a breaking point. The reason why you wife may no longer be in love with you could possibly be because of your actions. Therefore, if you are determined to make your marriage work, you should begin by examining yourself. If you believe you are the problem, you should makes changes your behavior. Try to be a better person for your wife. If, on the other hand, you feel that she is the problem, then you need to have a genuine conversation with her. Listen to her and find out what the real problem is. If it more than you can handle, then you should consider visiting a therapist with her. No matter what the problems may be, a couple can still save their marriage if they explore all the options.