How To Attract A Gemini Man And Make Him Fall In Love With You

Gemini is the only sign in the zodiac that comes in a pair. Here are a few tips on how to attract and win over a special Gemini man.

By Tashke
How To Attract A Gemini Man And Make Him Fall In Love With You

Importance of the zodiac

From ancient times, people believed that their fate was written in the stars. Today, whether you believe it or not, let's face it, each of us will sometimes read out what his horoscope is for today or next week. There is some kind of interest in all of us that keeps us wanting to know what's waiting in the future. Some people read their horoscopes just for entertainment, while others use it to try to find some deeper meaning in all this. Although the horoscope is based on some general claims, people are prone to believe that it's related to them. Even psychology has explained this belief in a scientific way. Explaining whether you will or will get along with someone is definitely possible by looking at zodiac signs. In this article, we will try to explain to you how to deal with a man born under the Gemini sign.

Characteristics of a Gemini

As we already said above, Gemini is the only sign in the zodiac which comes in a pair. It is also called The Twins. First and foremost, this points to the dual nature of Gemini in general. This can especially be seen in a man born under this sign. In each Gemini, there are two major personality traits in constant conflict and one never knows which side can prevail. If we had to describe Gemini in one word, it would be a variation. They are very unstable and always looking for changes and excitement. You can usually find a crowd around them; they are very sociable and able to adapt to every situation and every person. Physically, Geminis are very attractive and they put a lot of effort into their appearance. Gemini is an Air sign. His dual nature makes him very flexible. Gemini can fit well with all the other signs, but he definitely will be most himself and truly relaxed amongst those whose similar to him, and these are his fellow signs from his elemental group, Aquarius and Libra. When it comes to feelings, that's just not their thing. A Gemini might find you attractive, he might chase you forever, but when it comes to feelings, they are quite flakey. So it's sometimes hard to know what they really want. People born in Gemini are chasers. This sign wants to try everything; they usually have lots of interests and hobbies because they are very versatile. That's why it often happens that Gemini is "lost in space and time". Their motto could be "I want it all", but unfortunately, they cannot always achieve that ''all''.

The attraction of a Gemini man

Admittedly, this is tough. It's quite hard to explain a man under the Gemini sign. We can freely say that it is one of the most complicated zodiac signs. On one hand, Gemini can be tender and sweet, and on the other stubborn and very difficult to reason with. When you listen to him, he is the smartest and always right. But what about his actions? Well, that's another story. When it is a matter of work and career, the Gemini man is unwavering and he doesn't change his behavior that often. Love is probably an aspect of life where the dual nature of a Gemini is most likely to be expressed. He can convince you at one moment that he is the best person in the world, while in the second one, he can destroy you completely. The Gemini man is very active and constantly on the move, whether in life, love, or sex. So, if you're already attracted to a Gemini, be ready for all his unpredictable antics.

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Gemini man and love

When it comes to love, we can literally say that with a Gemini man you will never know what you've gotten into. The Gemini man is very unpredictable and his every reaction can be immediate. This man is like a ticking time bomb; you'll never know when he'll explode, but at least his outbursts are short-lived. Easy come easy go. If you want to attract a Gemini man, you must play according to his rules and you have to be very flexible. Considering that Gemini is quite unstable, you need to be his opposite. That means you should be realistic and willing to deal with Gemini and his ideas and his constantly changing attitude. If you're able to listen and follow him, you've ''bought'' Gemini for life. That's the moment when attraction becomes love. The Gemini man is not usually jealous, but he can be very selfish. Everything is allowed for him, while you're forced to follow a stricter set of rules. That's why a combination of two Gemini is bad. Very bad. Usually, both of them are attractive, so they can get jealous of each other.

A Gemini man attracts you. Now what?

As said before, you need to be able to play by his rules. The Gemini man doesn't like to be chased (quite strange for a man, don't you think?). When it comes to love, he likes to be in charge. The Gemini man adheres to strict rules of attraction. He likes to conquer and seduce, so freely allow him to do that. If he likes you as much as you like him, he won't play hard to get. The Gemini man is always surrounded by many people. He usually has lots of friends, both male and female. If you decide to attract a Gemini and make him fall in love with you, you must first extract him from his social group. Keep in mind, a Gemini man is usually very sexually active. He always gets what he likes and he won't hesitate to switch between numerous partners looking for the right one. One night stands are normal for him. Not to say he's promiscuous! Just curious. Gemini is just attracted to various things and he simply must try it all.


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How to attract a Gemini man

A Gemini is considered as one of the most hyperactive signs in the zodiac. He likes to seduce, not to be seduced. If you want a Gemini man to choose you out of all the other attractive women (yes, he likes to have choices and you're definitely not alone), you have to use tricks and play his game. First and foremost, do not show signs of jealousy. The Gemini man is a seducer and you need to accept the fact that he is hard to catch. You have to be very special in order to attract him and make him choose you. You simply must "force" Gemini to focus on you.

What a Gemini man likes

Gemini is a visual sign. So his curiosity can be seen in all aspects of his life, especially the sexual side. Until a Gemini man gets to know you better, he will only see you as an attractive sexual object. This zodiac sign wants to try everything, in every sense, literally. So, if you attract him sexually, he will make everything come to you. And then: 1. he will easily dump you if he doesn't find you interesting. Or, 2. if you attract him, not only sexually, a Gemini man will chase you until you declare surrender. So in this case, the best advice is to just hand the reins over to him. He likes to stand out and provoke jealousy in others. Whether he is more successful at work or has the most beautiful girl, a Gemini man likes to stand out from the crowd and make others envy him in some way. So be his object that causes other people's jealousy.

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Dating a Gemini man

When you've finally managed to attract and seduce a Gemini, the real excitement is just beginning. As mentioned earlier, it will be hard to separate a Gemini man from his crowd and you need to know that if you go on a date with him, ALONE, that's an occasion almost as rare as Halley's Comet. For sure, with a Gemini man, you will never be bored. During your relationship, his instability can be expressed in a way that he sometimes might cancel your date at the last minute. And on the other hand, it may happen that he would call you and say, "I'll be at your place in ten, get ready". Since Gemini is hyperactive, he will expect the same from you. You must be able to follow him through his numerous adventures. It's possible that your Gemini man will take you on bungee jumping or hitchhiking. He will consider that as dating. So in every moment, be ready for adventure with him. If he finds you boring and passive, it simply won't work. Unless you are sure of your Gemini man's feelings, do not open yourself up too much. It can easily happen that the hyperactivity of a Gemini man will hurt you. That might be hard for you until he will understand your feelings in his own way. It is quite normal for Gemini men to suddenly change their mind without considering the consequences.

Pros and cons about dating a Gemini

Each zodiac sign has its own good and bad sides. When it comes to dating a Gemini, we cannot make a general conclusion, which is reflective of the sign's changeable nature. On the good side, we can definitely state that you will never miss run out of excitement with a Gemini man. Gemini is not predictable and with him, life is literally like a party all the time. So if you enjoy limitless chasing and adventure, a Gemini is definitely your man. He doesn't like to express his feelings too much, but he'll find a way to show you his love, don't doubt it. When you're attracted to a Gemini, be patient. Now, the same trait mentioned in the paragraph above could be considered as the bad side of dating a Gemini. Not everyone can keep up with his fast-paced tempo and exciting way of life. Also, if you belong to a zodiac sign that is more emotional, you may be disturbed by the overwhelming sociability of a Gemini. You might be jealous of his friends, and he'll hate that more than anything. So, jealousy is a big NO if you want Gemini to fall in love with you. In short, be the best version of yourself, be confident, and don't chase him. Just give him a hint and let him indulge in the game of seduction.