10 Ways To Fall In Love Again With Your Partner

Breaking up, fighting, and getting hurt are some of the things that can lead someone to fall out of love or lose interest in his or her partner. Sometimes, you won’t even want it to be that way but is simply happens by itself, unconsciously, and it can be sad to see how feelings start to change. 

 

There might be ways to save your relationship and your feelings from that involuntary changes if you are 100% willing to put your best effort in recovering them. In this article, I will give you the best tips when it comes to feeling saving depending on different relationship cases. Don’t miss them! 

If you want to fall in love again and recover your relationship after a breakup, you have got to analyze the reasons why that breakup happened in the first place:

In this scenario, the key is in changing that attitude and actions that lead you to the breakup. If you have identified them, concentrate on transforming them for good. Take advantage of the tragic situation of breakup and use it for improving yourself and your emotional life. 

 

Now, you may be asking yourself: “ Alright, I change my attitudes, I improve, and then, what?” Well, the next step is for your ex to see that change, and for that, it is important to avoid texts or calls saying: “ I have changed, take me back” or  “ give me another chance, I’ll be better”. The change has to be noticed in your ordinary life. 

 

Focus on working on yourself; your self-esteem and emotions, and little by little, you will see how big changes start happening. This attitude change will give the right ambient for a reunion with your ex, as he will see that everything can be great again. 

 

Then, understand him or her and don’t hold any grudges against your partner for breaking up with you because of your actions; you’ve got to be in peace with it for you to be in love again. 

 

Probabilities of getting back in love in this scenario are way more difficult, as the change, growth and transformation process has to be from both parties. 

 

Our advice here is to be risky and try it;  sometimes, your transformation can make the other do the same and  it will propose an emotional climate that will be optimal for change and compromise in him or her, too. 

 

Want is key here: you both have to want to fall in love with each other again, if not, it won’t work. 

 

Some of us have the tendency to want something, in this case someone, that has hurt us. We might feel broken, betrayed, hurt, but the heart wants what it wants; you might feel the need to be in love with that person again. 

 

In this scenario, you have got to make sure that the person who hurt you regrets it and is willing to not do it again. He or she has to be really compromised to start treating you the way you deserve to be treated. If this is not the case, we strongly advise you to leave him or her behind. Remember, you come first, have self-love and don’t go back to that toxic person. 

 

If, in fact, he or she promises you to not hurt you again, you have got to trust him and start valuing his or her efforts on changing. Don’t hold any grudges or mention past situations, leave the past in the past, and see the best in the person. You’ll see how love will just come back.

Marriage is like exercise. Suppose you were in shape at one point of your life for a long time. Even if you stopped exercising for a while, once you start again, your body will re-learn how to be fit again and it will be quicker to get to the level you were in before. Why this metaphor? Well, if you and your wife seems to be getting apart and leaning towards different directions, you’ve got to start re-learning how to get your feelings back in shape. Step by step, working together and doing the right things, you’ll see how you will remember those things that made you fall in love with her in the first place.

 

Take time in remembering when you were just dating and starting the relationship. Look at photo albums or diaries and read about how you felt on those days. Close your eyes and try to relieve any of the memorable days you two had. Think: What made you love her in the first place?

 

You can even try to replay those times when you surprised her or took her to dates on special places, put your best effort in replaying those moments where you were happy with her. 

 

Men can very fast on giving up and looking for what they need in other women when they are falling out of love. No matter what you do, never do that. Focus on your wife and on getting your feelings straight before making any irreparable mistake you will certainly regret. Put yourself to it, without any distraction.

Women can also be resentful and vengeful, which will get you nowhere when looking to love your husband again. Of course, you have had your big fights, any marriage has got them, but never hold on to them, as they will create an unconscious grudge against him, and make it impossible to love him again. Forgive and forget.

 

Start making little gestures and details yourself; don't let things get fixed by themselves. Make dinner one night, try rekindling your flame in the bedroom, plan romantic dates. Anything that will make you remember the old times. 

 

As you are passionate, take that and turn it into willingness for getting your feelings fixed. Don’t let frustration get to you in any way and make you give up; keep going.

Falling in love with another person all over again is possible, and here is how to do it.

 

First, you have to be sure that you are over the huge pain that divorce made you go through. Take your time to grieve, and when you do, that is when you can look for love in other people. Let all that pain and traumas go, close those wounds, and then move on.
 

​​​​​​​After going through a divorce, it would be clearer on what are you truly looking for in a person and if that person is right for you. 
 

Now that you are ready for love, you always have to think openly and never let yourself be conditioned because of past experiences with your ex-husband or ex-wife; don’t be scared of going through the same thing again as it is so not going to be that way. Let yourself be happy without thinking about the negative past, leave it all behind.

Love is hard, feelings are hard, but life is made out of them. Fight for what you want in your love life, don't give up on who you love, make things magical again.