10 Interesting and Naughty Tips on What Turns Men On

Understand how to and what turns men on to keep the romance fun

By Sylvia Epie
10 Interesting and Naughty Tips on What Turns Men On

A List of 10 Interesting and Naughty Tips That Turn Men On The Most


Every relationship needs you to shake up things up every once in a while, a little teasing, passion, and surprises keep the sparks alive. Show your man you care and make him feel special by paying him extra attention, playing with him and teasing him.

So do you want to turn him on… but you’re not sure where to start or if you’ll get it right? Well, you’re in luck, we’ve come up with a list of 10 tricks and tips you could use to turn your partner on every single time.

What Turns Him On With Body Language

Turn him on without using any words, make use of suggestive body language to ignite the magic between you two. Body language is a great way to turn a guy on. when you master the art of creating sexual tension without saying a word, there’s hardly anything that can stop you. The trick here is to be as subtle as you can, you don’t want to come across as being ‘’thirsty’’.

1. Make Eye Contact


Learn the art of provocative glances, lock eyes with him and give him a long tender and sexy stare with a lot of meaning, as it’s often said, actions speak louder than words. A steamy look is a promise of things to come and it will send his imagination on a wild spin. The trick is to be confident and accompany your stare with a sexy and languorous smile and he’ll imagine all kinds of things, men are visual beings so he’s bound to be turned on.

2. Play With Your Food


The way you handle your food is a good way to send a message, how you lick an ice-cream cone or how you bite into banana can be a great turn on. Use this to your advantage, play with food on your plate in a sensual way, foreplay does not have to include only chocolate or whipped cream. Grab a strawberry when you know he’s watching, bite into it with appetite and he’ll imagine you licking food off his body. You could also run your finger seductively around your glass to tease him and get his mind running. Nothing can get him in the mood like this seemingly innocent but highly effective trick.

3. Kiss The Roof of His Mouth


This is, an area that's often ignored, the roof of the mouth, is one of the most ticklish parts of the body. You may think you’ve kissed all of him before but if you haven’t tried this you’re in for a treat. The way to go about this is to run your tongue about twice across the roof of his mouth. Don’t overdo it, you don’t want it to become weird, once or twice is enough. This move will send chills across his spine and to the rest of his body in a split second.

What Turns Him On With Attention

As the song from the 90’s go ‘’All you need is a little TLC’’, showing him some care will go a long way in spicing up things and setting the pace for things to come. You being in a giving mood prompts him to want to open up and give too. Here’s how to proceed:

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4. Ask What He’d Like 


Ask him if there’s something he’d like you to do for him or to him. Use this opportunity to meet his needs and give him all your focus and attention. Let him describe what he wants to the last detail and be ready to oblige. Men love to be taken care of every now and then. Knowing he has all your attention and you’re ready to do whatever he wants is a great turn on. As you were taught when you were a kid, it’s always better to give than to receive, this rule works in romance as well.

5. Give Him A Full Body Massage


Spoil him with attention by giving him a full massage, use essential oils with exotic flavors to enhance his senses. This is not just relaxing but also a turn on for most men. Use this opportunity to massage his whole body, find strategic spots and emphasise on them. A good massage session can be super intense for both of you. Knead your hands all the way from his neck, through his back and way down to his butt cheeks, this is a super-orgasmic move he won’t forget soon enough. 

6. How About A Little Dirty Dancing?


As old fashioned as it may sound, a little ol’ dance can go a long way, dancing has not lost its appeal, this move is as relevant as always. Invite him to dance with you to some slow jams or a fast-paced but intensive and hot tango. Move your body and hips to the music, flip your hair and lock your body to his in a sensual manner. 
Another option is to strip for him if you’re comfortable with it, get him a chair, turn on the beat and tease him all the way. Dress up all sexy and then take off every clothing item seductively as you rub yourself up and down all over him. Talk of heating things up? Whew!

What Turns Him On in Bed


Having a few tricks up your sleeve for when you're in the sack is a skill set we all need. To spice up things and break the routine never pass up an opportunity to be creative in bed. Use your imagination and see how far it takes you. Here are a few pointers to help buff your repertoire.

7. Dirty Talk Into His Ear


Guys love it when a girl dirty talks in the bedroom and your guy is no exception. Tell him how you feel about what he’s doing to you, what you want him to do accompanied by heavy moaning and breathing into his ear.

No need for anything too complicated like reciting the periodic table( just saying). Keep it simple and colorful, do not hesitate to boost his ego, tell him he’s the best you’ve ever had, that no one has ever touched you as he does. Encourage and cheer him on in bed and watch how he gets riled up like never before.

8. Take Charge


Women are usually scared of taking charge and leading their guys in bed, nothing turns a guy on like a woman who knows what she wants and is not afraid to take charge. Get on top and ride him like a cowgirl, control the pace of his climax by intensifying or holding back your strokes. Guys testify that this position is a killer move and it can’t be topped. 
Take the upper hand by ordering him to strip or to be still, introduce new sensations and adding excitement, use your hands, your tongue, lips, and hair to find sensitive zones to explore, he’d love this.

9. Tease Till He Begs For Mercy


Get him riled up by kissing and licking your way down his torso, stopping short of where he wants it the most. Tease him with all your clothes on and take your time to take them off. Let him feel a combination of frustration and anticipation until he can’t bear it any longer.

Share an ice-cream cone with him and lick the drops off his fingers and chin slowly then go back to something else. Kiss and tease him from his chest down his member like you’re about to give him a blow job and then move back up, do it over and over again until he can’t bear it. The satisfaction that comes after the long wait is always worth while.

10. Play Around With Temperature Changes


An all-time favorite with this trick is an ice-cube, use it to slowly draw a line down his body, find sensitive spots like his nipples and brush them with your ice-cube, play games with temperatures and send shivers down his spine. 

A good game to play is to get a cup of hot chocolate and an ice cold drink, sip either one of them and place your lips on his body, this will greatly increase his anticipation as he won’t know which sensation to expect, hot or cold. The creativity itself is so sexy, he won’t be able to resist.



Teasing and turning a man on requires a learning curve, make sure you try out more than one tip in order to find out what works best for both of you. Use these tips as pointers to improve your seduction skills and to add a fun twist to your relationship. And if you don’t get it right the first time, try again, after it’s said practice makes perfect so you’re on the right track. Have fun.

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