15 Ways To Make A Guy Fall Deeply In Love With You
Do you have a guy in mind that you want to fall head over heels for you? Here are 15 ways to make a guy fall deeply in love with you!
Jul 24, 2018
Make sure he has fallen in love!
Do you have a gorgeous man in mind that you're falling deeply in love with? And do you think that he's falling in love with you as well? Good for you, then! There is no better feeling than knowing you're loved back by the person you're head over heels for. It's such a good feeling when you know you're already in a relationship with the man you just dreamed of having once, right? However, do not forget the fact that there are relationships that do not work for a very long time. And, the people involved in it tend to ask where they did wrong after the fact. People believe that falling in love is so easy that they forget about its different stages. People fall with the person they believe they're in love with just months after they met, get married, and eventually, ruin the relationship as the days go by. Why does this happen, though? Love takes time, that's why. We usually mistake infatuation for love. People fall into a relationship only because they think someone is handsome or beautiful. Love doesn't work that way, which is why we have the infatuation stage, friendship stage, courtship stage, and so on. Although there are several success stories of these kinds of relationships that worked, unfortunately, it's not very many. So, why risk it all when it's easy to assure that both man and woman have fallen in love? As a woman, you might ask how you'll know if he's fallen in love with you. And if you think he's not in love but you're still willing to commit to him, is there anything you can do? Lucky for you, there are! It's all about love psychology! Keep reading these tips to make him fall in love for you for sure.
1. Make him fall in love with your outer radiance
Although "falling in love at first sight" is not entirely true, the first thing that a man will see in you is your physical appearance. Therefore, it's important to put time and effort into taking care of yourself. By doing this, you are also showing him that you value and love yourself. Pay attention to your hygiene. Wash everyday, and make sure that your hair is clean and styled neatly. Make sure to brush your teeth after every meal. You don't want him to find out what you just had for lunch! One of the few things that men will remember is your scent, so always spray yourself with a clean-smelling perfume. Show him that you are always glowing by wearing make-up, but do not overdo it on a daily basis. Lastly, one of the most powerful tools you can use to make any person fall in love with you is your smile. One cliché you will hear from a man is "I love looking at your smile", so why not use that to your advantage?
2. Treat him as your hero and he will love you
In a man's psychology, one of the most important things he takes pride in is his masculinity. Almost all men feel the need to be the alpha so your man will truly love it when you treat him as your superhero. Show your man that you appreciate his ability to provide and protect. When he solves problems, admire him and be proud of how he handles them. By appreciating him like this, he will try even harder to make you proud of him and would be willing to "die" for you. A man's heart fills with pure happiness when his woman thinks he's the greatest.
3. Love is acceptance
If you want your man to fall in love with you, do not treat him as something that needs fixing. Once you feel that you need to change someone's personality for your own benefit, that's not love at all and your man will just see you as someone who is controlling him. Although, yes, in a relationship where there is true love, both partners will somehow have to adjust to make it work. But to force your partner to change is entirely different. Accept your man for who he is. If he's a bit childish and has an interest and love for silly cartoon shows, so be it and do not try to change that as long as he's not hurting anybody. If he's a little shy and quiet around people, do not force him to go to parties to socialize. If you don't like his friends, then don't hang around them but don't tell him to leave them for good. Falling in love is all about acceptance. If there are a lot of things you don't like in a person, just leave. Do not ever try to control the person you love.
4. Love is being grateful
When we fall in love with someone, we become almost willing to die for them. We would commit everything into giving our loved ones safety and security, right? In a man's psychology, that's the way it works too. It has to do with their masculinity so they think it's their main responsibility to provide and protect the woman they love. However, due to today's women being independent and able to provide for themselves, we tend to disregard our men's efforts. So, for them not to be disheartened, the least we can do is to be grateful and be appreciative of their efforts.
5. Show him that you're happy
In a relationship, happiness is just one of the many things that keeps it going. When a man sees that he cannot please you anymore, or when he sees you disappointed with him all the time, he'll lose confidence and think he's not able to make you happy. Men are very simple creatures; if they see you happy, it's enough for them to go on. Your happiness is like their energy booster to keep the love going. If ever there's a problem that's tearing you apart, and he tries to console you by making you laugh with corny jokes, appreciate that. Because as much as it's a simple gesture to you, to see you laugh and smile is the most important thing in the world for him. Do not ever ignore his effort to help you whenever he can. When a man sees his woman feeling happy by his side, he tends to fall more deeply in love.
6. Trust in each other
The usual cause of endless arguments and feuds between couples most of the time is mistrust. For a man, there is nothing more irritable than to hear his woman doubting him. If you think that he is always off doing something that might hurt you, he will get offended by it and get tired, eventually resulting in him falling out of love and ending the relationship. For two people to fall deeply in love, complete trust in each other is essential.
7. Be an independent woman
One common personality trait that many women have in relationships is being too clingy. Though there are men who feel macho and fall more in love when their women are overly attached, there are also some who find it quite annoying. Besides, it's not to your benefit either to depend on other people for your happiness. There is nothing sexier than a woman who's independent. Believe it or not, most men think the same way. Show him that you're living happily and that you have a great life. Know that it's okay to turn down dates sometimes because you're busy. Show your man that you can stand on your own and don't need other people to live.
8. Simplicity is beauty
It's okay to be concerned about your physical appearance. It's okay if you sometimes take hours to get ready for a date because you want to get your eyebrows on fleek. It's okay to carefully choose the clothes you're going to wear. After all, it's normal for women to want to look pretty. But never be high-maintenance. Do not be the type of woman who turns down a date because a man could not afford to reserve a table at a fancy restaurant. Do not be someone who turns down adventure because she doesn't want to get dirty. Do not be the woman who hates cheap and secondhand items. You might think you're feeling important when you do these things, but it's a major faux pas in society. There's no need to be a snob. Aim for simplicity. Appreciate what your man can give you.
9. Show him what makes you special
If you are skilled at something, never miss an opportunity to show off in front of him. There are men who fall more deeply in love when they see that their woman has a lot of talents and skills because they'll be reminded why you are so special. For example, if you're good at playing an instrument, try to find a way to play for him. Rest assured, he will give you an amazed look as if telling you silently "I am so proud of you!" He will show you off to his friends as if to tell them to fall in love with you too.
10. Never forget to balance your time
When you're just starting out, it's okay to be together almost 7 days a week. It's an opportunity for both of you to get to know each other, share your interests and hobbies, be happy together, go out on adventures, and so on. It's a stage that will make you both fall more deeply in love. But keep in mind that each of you still have your own lives. Make plans of your own and make him miss you sometimes. Not being able to see each other for days develops a much deeper desire to get in touch.
11. Give emphasis to your similarities
In a man's psychology, if there is someone who has the same interest as him, it's worth knowing that person. So, if you both love something a lot, try to give emphasis to it during conversations. For example, if you both love playing video games, plan a video gaming marathon for your next date. Just don't overdo it, because he might think you're desperate to get his attention. The similarities you both share are one of the keys to falling more in love.
12. Ask for his help
Again, it's all about masculinity! Make him feel needed and ask for his help whenever you feel the need. It doesn't necessarily have to be a big issue, sometimes just a little gesture is all that matters. For example, you can ask his help to carry heavy furniture or ask his advice on a dilemma you're having. By doing this, you're making him feel important.
13. Love him truly
Of course, there is nothing more important than making your man feel loved. It's not just about exchanging "I love you" in text messages and chats. It's not about just kissing and hugging either. It's all about committing yourself to him completely, staying with him through thick and thin, and showing him that you need no one else in your life but him. When he sees how much you've fallen for him, he will treat you as his queen and will be head over heels for you.
14. Be someone that brings positivity
No one ever wants to fall in love with someone who is a pessimist. No man wants to commit himself to a woman who does nothing but complain about almost everything. It's a turn off for men when they see their women always disappointed. Try to be the woman who brings positivity to his life. Be the type of woman who can brighten his mood on even the most miserable of days.
15. Love takes time
Last but definitely not the least, do not hurry love as it takes time. You can follow all the tips mentioned in this article but never be desperate and overdo them. A man should be head over heels for you because of your genuine self, not because you tried your hardest to get his attention. Be casual and let time decide for both of you. If it doesn't turn out the way you wanted it, just think of it as a blessing in disguise and remember that someone better is waiting for you.