Be With Someone Who Supports You Being Who You Want To Be

Life is imperfect, things are going to be tough and often painful. You will face defeat, doubt, pain, loss, and heartbreak. You will get knocked down; you will pick yourself up and then fall again. You will lose loved ones, there will be moments when you question everything—and in all of this, you need someone who will bring a smile to your face.

One of the most important things is to be with someone who makes you laugh and feel happy. The people you choose to let in your life should make you celebrate life more than you would on your own. Relationships should bring laughter into your life and make you happy. We’ve come up with some of the reasons why being happy requires you to be with someone who makes you laugh. 

Be with someone who reminds you, every single day, what a joy it is to be alive. A person who’s going to crack jokes at the worst times, who’s going to connect with your sense of humor, who’s going to turn your anxiousness into ease, your fear into confidence. A partner with whom you’re sure to always have a good time, it doesn’t matter what you’re doing or going through, such a person will have you cracking up when you least expect it. This is the best way to go through life. 

A funny guy will most often look on the bright side of life and not dwell too much on the stressful stuff. He can make fun of himself, and he can also take a little teasing from you. Looks won’t last forever, personalities have their ups and downs but funny won’t fade. A funny person will always find a way to make people happy no matter how old they get.

Psychology suggests that humor, wit, and sarcasm usually indicate intelligence. Jokes require a person to be observant, aware of current events and pay attention to their surroundings, which are all indicators of being smart.

Couples fight about all sorts of things, from serious issues to silly and ridiculous stuff but a partner with a great sense of humor will crack jokes and make you laugh or smile even in the middle of a fight. When you’re mad at them they’ll make you laugh and you end up forgetting why you were mad at them in the first place. They’ll crack jokes and you end up feeling happy. Even when you’re stressing over a problem, they’ll be able to get your mind off it and show you that sometimes you just need to let loose and relax a little bit.

Someone who’s not afraid of looking stupid, or considered weird, who accepts his quirks and is able to take criticism well. A person who acts goofy sometimes and is comfortable in their skin and confident with who they are is a rare gem. Couples who share inside jokes are closer, as irritating as it may be to those on the outside, it’s great for your relationship and overall happiness when you and your partner are able to laugh out hysterically at something only you two understand. It’s like sharing an intimate secret that draws you closer to each other.

When you’re dating someone, make sure they’re the kind of person who believes in you and is your number one fan, even if they don’t really understand what you do they still have your back because it makes you happy. If you’re with someone and they do not believe in your dreams, then it’s not the right match. An unsupportive partner will kill your dreams and make you eventually lose faith in yourself and in your dreams. Be with someone who’ll be there during the hardships and the good times, that will hold your hand through the process and enjoy the rewards with you. Here are some of the signs that your partner supports you:

Sometimes all the support you need is for someone to listen, a supportive partner listens first. They could step in and provide a solution, hold your hand while you figure things out for yourself or just be there for you depending on what you need at that moment.

Even when they do not agree with you, a supportive partner will be there for you, they may not support your decision but they’ll support you and that makes a whole lot of difference. It’s like family, they disagree with you, don’t like your choices but they always have your back when it comes down to it.

Everyone usually has a preconceived idea of what or who they want their partner to be and most often if you don’t fit into this ideal the other person tries to mold you into that image and this never ends well.  A person who supports you won’t want you to be anyone but yourself, they’ll love and accept you with all your flaws. They’ll encourage you to be your own person and not a fantasy in their imagination.

This sounds obvious but it’s not that simple, people get into relationships for all sorts of reasons. A person can be with you because you like them, because you’re available, or because they need you. But you should be with someone who wants to be with you and nothing less. When a person wants to be with you, they’ll do everything to make you happy. Actions speak louder than words, you won’t have to make excuses for them or fight for their attention. When you’re with someone watch out for the red flags, certain things he does can hint you from the onset if he wants you or if he’s just with you to wind time. Here are a few points to pay attention to when determining if a person wants you.

A person who wants you will make you feel secure with how you feel about yourself. He will value you with all your flaws and shortcomings, especially when you feel vulnerable. He’ll never use your weaknesses against you even to win a fight.

You’ll be at the top of his priorities, even if he’s busy, he’ll make time for the things that really matter. He’ll try to prove himself worthy of your time and affection.

Someone who wants you will make you feel you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to him and your affection will not be taken for granted.

No matter how nervous and afraid they get, a person who wants you will commit fully to your relationship.

The ultimate in a relationship is to fall for someone who brings the best out of you in every situation. Above looks, humor, comfort and all else be with someone who makes you want to go out of your way to be a  better, person than the one you were before you met them. A person who’s going to push your boundaries, introduce you to places you’ve never heard of and embolden you to do the unimaginable because they genuinely believe you can. Here are some of the benefits of being with someone who makes you better:

A partner who pushes you to be a better person without directly putting pressure on you will serve as the best incentive to get past your limitations. When you feel like giving up, it’s important to have a supporting person to get you back on track. They’ll challenge you and not let you get away with mediocrity. Such a person won’t just tell you what you want to hear but will tell you all the hard truths you need to hear in order to grow.

Being with this person is a lifetime investment, they’ll constantly motivate you to strive for higher heights and go beyond what you think you’re capable of. They make you feel like you can do anything you set your mind to. Especially as you know they have your back and won’t judge you even if you do not succeed.

When you’re in a relationship with a genuinely good person, you sometimes think it’s because you got lucky. But when they make you see that they feel they’re the lucky one to be with you, that if they shine and are amazing it’s because of you and how you influence their lives it’s a great high. This will positively build your confidence and inspire you to be the best version of yourself.

Now you know how important it is to be with the right person, that special someone who’ll be there for you through ups and downs, who will see the brighter side of life and cheer you up when things are cloudy.  Encourage you to be your best self and put your best foot forward as you proceed through life. Everyone needs such a person in their life, a person who wants you for who you are and not what you bring to the relationship. When you find such a person hold on to them tight and never let go.