So you’ve finally mustered up the courage to ask your crush out. You’ve been waiting for this opportunity for a long time, this is your chance to actually see how you two could be long-term partners. First dates are stressful, yes, but after having a good first date comes the misery of having to decide where to go the second time. The pressure is too real after having a fantastic first date because the second date is going to set the pace for your relationship. This will help understand the tone of the whole situation you both have going on. Here are some innovative and fun ideas for the second time you see each other!
Classic second date ideas
1. Have Fun Playing A Round of Mini Golf
Mini golf is a nostalgic and fun way of spending an evening with your potential partner. Your date is going to love the idea and it is a fun way of exploring how you two enjoy spending time together. This will help to break the ice and take you both to a warm and sweet place in your dating life. You can get a bit competitive and make it memorable while at it!
Even if you’re not exactly good at playing mini golf, it is a relatively easy game to orient yourself. You can enjoy a nice conversation along with the game and make it a beautiful night without too much pressure.
2. Go Bowling
Just like mini-golf, this one is also a sport-oriented idea. You can go bowling with your date and have fun either teamed up or even against each other. It is a wonderful idea for a second-date option because it is a stress-free activity and will give you adequate time to explore each other’s company. It’ll help you explore your friendship first, which is undoubtedly an important base of a strong companionship. You can just flirt along the day and make the best of this date!
3. A Walk Around A Flea Market
Flea markets are an unexplored territory in the world of date ideas. It can be fun for you both if you know how to make the best of it. You’ll see many items you haven’t used or seen in ages and it can make you nostalgic. Sharing some nice tidbits about certain objects will have you build a sweet connection. The interesting stuff present there can give you a multitude of topics to talk about and explore. You can stroll around the market, talking, eating and just having some quality time. It’s an underrated idea and it’s up to you on how you make the best of it!
4. Go to your favorite bar
After a first date, you can continue to be more and more of yourself and let them know your likes and dislikes. By taking them to your favorite bar, you’re opening up to them about the kind of places that spark an interest in you. You can be comfortable in the bar and enjoy the company more. Just enjoying a few drinks and dancing the night away with your new partner is never a bad idea. It’ll help both of you in loosening up and taking your interaction to the next level. You might even share a few intimate moments with them and establish a good physical relationship after this date.
5. Go to a museum
Visiting a museum can be fun for the history fanatics. You get to learn a lot about different concepts and topics. You can learn new things together and explore what the other likes. The artworks, sculptures, exhibits and everything about museums is serene and quiet. This might even help build the sexual tension between you two and you might end up being more intimate after this. The atmosphere will give you a soft vibe and you both can enjoy the company much more than the surrounding setting.
Creative second date ideas for evenings and at night
6. Check Out A Live Concert
Concerts are fun experiences. Coupled with the right music and atmosphere, they can be nostalgic and/or adventurous. From the kind of musician/band you choose to the time, it can create a myriad of emotions. It also makes for a fun second date idea. Choose a softer environment where you also get to share some intimate moments with your date and are able to talk to them and learn about each other. You both will be able to recollect the details of the night later on and hopefully, have a meaningful experience doing so. Good music fuels the soul and you can share the connection with your possible soulmate.
7. Make a meal together
This one is a favorite for those of you who enjoy a home-cooked meal. In our world today, we mostly order in or take out and home-cooked meals have become a delicacy… The whole experience of cooking can be special. With the right amount of spices and ideas brewing, there’s plenty of time for you both to indulge in a nice conversation while cooking. Make your favorite meal (or theirs) and just pour your heart out in front of each other! The faults and cute innovations are all welcome while you do so, just make the best of this one! The idea guarantees close proximity and some intense intimate moments to follow.
8. Go to a karaoke night
Karaoke is a fun idea which, in my opinion, were just made for going on dates! Imagine the fun you’ll have, singing along to your favorite songs with a significant someone. It really doesn’t matter if you know how to sing or not. The experience is just fun and memorable on its own. Even if your partner is not up for going on to the stage first, let them loosen up before they do. You can watch others and have nice food without it being too stressful and formal. You’ll most probably get a good idea of what kind of music your date likes to sing along.
9. Stop By A Comedy Club
This is a new trending way of spending quality time with your partner. They say laughter is the best medicine, and indeed it works like a charm in almost every situation. Everybody wants someone to share a few laughs with. Sense of humor is a very important trait to have. Going to a comedy club is a fun innovative idea to ensure a good time. It will help you relax after a hectic workday or week and you can admire their laughter while at it! Imagine having good laughs with them and just being so comfortable without all the stress and anxiety of making sure everything works out.
10. Set Up a Bonfire
Bonfires are another idea for setting up the pace of a healthy relationship. The sexual intimacy is bound to be set ablaze with this one. The open fire might give you the hint of romance you’ll need to get closer to each other. This is suited for winter nights where you get to cuddle with your date and have a smooth conversation flowing or even play some truth or dare kind of game. The comfort will have you opening up and enjoying a lot more than usual. You can even go on a group date and enjoy games and drinks while at it. This will indeed help you build a fun interactive memory with each other!
Second date rules you should know
With the second date, you can open up more about yourself. Thus, always ensure your comfort with the second date. Choose something which is right up your alley and you can then really let your personality shine through. Never pick out a place or an activity that you are not comfortable in.
Have fun! This is by far the best advice you’re going to get on this. If you’re having a good time it is almost always going to be reciprocated by your partner. Whatever you do, remember it is for the both of you and it shouldn’t be trouble on your nerves. Let things flow naturally and don’t do anything that feels forced to either one of you.
There should be some intimacy involved but don’t force anything. Respect each other’s privacy and boundaries. If it is meant to be, it’ll happen in due time. This will help you build trust in each other and give a firmer base to the relationship in the future.
There are a million ideas out there for a second date. You have to choose whatever works best for both of you. Your situation is never going to be ditto of someone else so it is okay to be anxious but try to make the experience as relaxing and soothing for both of you, as possible. Just keep it in mind that you should have fun and enjoy the company mainly. If you are both well suited for each other, any place will feel perfect and you’ll just make wonderful memories that’ll have you smiling till the next time you see them! Butterflies, I know right? Best of luck!