How To Sexually Attract A Virgo Man And Make Him Like You

So, you are dating a Virgo man and you want to attract more of his attention without asking him. Like everything, there are ways to do this as well.

By Tanaya Nath
How To Sexually Attract A Virgo Man And Make Him Like You

How To Sexually Attract A Virgo Man And Make Him Like You

So, you are dating a Virgo man and you want to attract more of his attention without asking him. Like everything, there are ways to do this as well. But before you go hunting for ways to sexually attract the attention of a Virgo man, you must know the traits of them. If you understand these traits clearly, you will be able to make your Virgo man go crazy over you in no time without much effort. So, what are the key traits of a Virgo man that can be used for attracting his attention sexually? To begin with, Virgo men are very intelligent, attractive and family oriented. They like to keep their family in a strong bond. They are also old school and old-fashioned, this makes them different from men of other zodiac signs.

Virgo men are not really into modern changes and prefer things in their old-fashioned ways. They are honest and this makes them a good friend, a good human being, a good boyfriend, and a perfect husband. However, they are extrovert in their social conduct and loves creativity. When it comes to relationships, they are mysterious. Virgo men are practical and cool minded. The need of their women is important to them and they know exactly how to treat a woman. They will do anything to make them happy. So, if your boyfriend is Virgo, you are very lucky. It doesn’t take much effort to make him want more of you. Virgo men like to mold their partner completely within their ideology. So, if you are not ready to change, you can’t be with a Virgo man. Now that you are enlightened about the traits of a Virgo man, listed below are a few ways to attract his attention.

Don’t Rush Your Virgo Man

Virgo men don’t like to be rushed when it comes to romance and relationship. They like to take their time even in making friends. So, if you have been dating a Virgo man for a while now and he still hasn't shown interest in taking the relationship to the next level, have patience. Give him time. A woman who doesn’t push him attracts him sexually. A Virgo man likes a woman who understands him and let him know that it’s okay if he is not yet ready for making a serious commitment. These signs will make him respect you and see that you are the right woman for him.

Help Him Express Himself To Sexually Attract Him

A Virgo man often finds it hard to express himself. So, if he has never complimented you or said I Love You, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. It is just that he is having trouble expressing himself. Don’t hold a grudge over it to him. Instead, have patience and help him in expressing his feelings. Ask him how are you looking. He might not compliment you in the way you like but you can see it in his eyes. Let him know you understand and it's okay if he isn’t comfortable in expressing himself. When he will see that you don’t need constant I Love Yous for knowing he loves you, he will be sexually attracted to you.

Attract A Virgo Man With Intelligence

A Virgo man is sexually attracted towards an intelligent woman since they are very intelligent as well. So, stimulate his mind to attract him. Virgo men are attracted to women who are smarter and more intelligent than him. But be who you really are because they don’t like pretentious people. Acquire knowledge over different subjects, keep yourself updated about the ongoing events. This will help you in making intelligent conversations to your Virgo man. Intelligence makes him happy and comfortable. These signs will surely attract him to you sexually.

Look Your Best To Attract Virgo Man

Virgo men are a visual creature. They like a put together look. So, if you want to attract him, you should take good care of yourself and the way you look. Take great care in dressing, use the colors that enhance your skin tone. Wear designs that flaunt the attributes of your body. Be very selective in picking your perfume. And the most important thing, don’t overdo your makeup if you want to sexually attract a Virgo man. In the signs of his character, you will realize that he prefers natural beauty.

A Virgo Man Is Attracted By The Perfect Setting

If there is a perfectionist in the zodiac signs, Virgo is the one. A Virgo man is highly attracted sexually and happy if the romantic setting is perfect. You will be able to experience his inner beast in that case. A perfect romantic setting for the Virgo man is a crisp spotless white bed sheet and nice fragrance. A Virgo man is very attentive and he will notice the areas you haven’t paid attention to. Intellect is the best foreplay for him. An intelligent conversation sexually attracts a Virgo man and you will be able to see the signs during your date.

Attract Your Man By The Technique

Getting your Virgo man to the point of expressing his sensuality is an intellectual task. But once he has reached to that point, it is all about technique and performance. With every move, he will be watching you care about what pleases you and what doesn’t. So, don’t pretend or fake pleasure. Your Virgo man can deliver the kind of love making you have always dreamed of.

Let Your Virgo Man Be The Boss

Even though Virgo men are very adaptable and can compromise to make you happy, however, they can be very fussy and bossy. They love to take the charge. And when they feel things are not going right, Virgo men tend to become cold, remote and detached. So, let your man take the charge and show you what it could be like under the sheets. This will make him feel understood, appreciated and valued making him all the more sexually attracted to you.

Positive Feedback Attracts Any Man


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Always reassure your man and give him positive feedback. Criticising him will never help your cause. Your Virgo man is, after all trying hard to make you happy. So knowing that he does will make him happy. Telling the Virgo man that you love his technique will make him feel useful and good. It will tell him that he is doing his best. It will work as an incentive to him for finding new ways to outdo his previous performance. He will do anything to give you the ultimate sexual experience with him. When he feels as though he is pleasing you, it will bring pleasure to him. He would love to look into your eyes as he takes you the new heights. This will sexually attract him to you more than anything else that you can possibly imagine. So, let him take his time in pleasure you. Let him look at you to know how greatly turned on you are and he will respond with taking the heat to new heights.

Let Your Virgo Man Fulfill You First

If you are the kind of woman who likes to please your man first, you will have to wait patiently. Let him please you first. He will be more excited and fulfilled if he knows he has satisfied you first. Let your man take the lead as he starts to head for your hotspots. After he has taken you to the bliss of sexual pleasure, you can return the favor. He will already be so riled up with the satisfaction of the pleasure he gave you, it will heat him up even more. You could give him more pleasure easier. And the ecstasy that you took him to will attract him more to you sexually.

Be Emotionally Authentic With Your Virgo Man

For a Virgo man, the world is either black or white. They have a tendency to look at everything as either being something or not being something. In their mind, there is very little space for grey. This is especially true for their emotional state and applies even more in relationships. Many people who have really known a Virgo says that they live in the state of denial or that they try to be the drama kings and queens. But a Virgo man likes to think that they are emotionally authentic. And hence, a Virgo man pays close attention to emotional authenticity Be attentive because he will always be trying to ready you emotionally. He will keep trying to pick the signals you are sending. Your man will read the signs. If you lie about the signs you're sending, it will create a perfect disaster. Remember, a Virgo man has an ideal picture of the woman he is dating and if it is based on a lie, things won’t end well for you.

Boldly Accept Your Vulnerability

You have done everything else, but the final straw to sexually attracting a Virgo man is the way you accept your vulnerability and are not afraid of it. He is the guy who looks at the world with the pure emotions. For him, everything is either black or white. So, it attracts him sexually when a man sees a woman who is not afraid of her vulnerability, weaknesses or shortcomings. To him, this is everything he thinks he is all about. So, don’t hide your mistakes, failings, and issues from the past. You can’t attract a Virgo man by hiding them. Be candid about them and he will be pulled towards you, respect you and like you even more. But don't volunteer or advertise them as well. But when they come up, be upfront. It will help you gain his trust and attraction.

Fine Dine Your Virgo Man

Virgo men love fine dining their heartthrob with wines and exclusive cuisine. So, to sexually attract them towards you, fine dine him and make it perfect. Pick an extraordinary cuisine accompanied with an equally wonderful wine. If you have no idea about it, consult someone who is an expert. It is vital to get it right to you just might be successful in pissing him off for the rest of your life. Virgo men walk with a tongue that is loaded with taste buds. Plan even the minutest detail. And if you are on the other side, meaning, you are the one who is being treated to the dinner by a Virgo man, don’t ruin it and don’t forget to appreciate it.

Make Your Man Feel Desired

The mind of a Virgo man is his erogenous point. Gently stroke his ego and make him feel desired. It is the key to attracting him sexually and making him like you even more. You love his company and make your man feel that. Make sure he knows and understand that you find him attractive. Pay genuine compliments to him and don’t lay too thick on it. Let him know naturally that you appreciate being with him a lot and keep patience.

Keep Your Mind Open For Everything

Virgo men are usually uptight where sex is concerned. For this reason and much more, they often get a bad rep. The fact is, when a Virgo man deeply cares for someone, he is often quite kinky and open. You might have some ideas about toys, games and new things. Similarly, he might also have some ideas and fantasies he would really like to fulfill. Instead of refraining your man from doing that, try to find out if you can fulfill the for him. It will sexually attract him towards you even more. Don’t hesitate or be scared in spicing it up. Your these efforts will help you last longer as couples. If your physical relationship is more fetching than your expectation, other facets of your life will also be better and easier to work out. Virgo men aren’t prude and they want someone who isn’t prude as well. He needs a woman who will understand his inner kink and live it with him. He has some wildness inside him.

Try New Things With Your Man

And not just in bed. Of Course, that is one place to be innovative. Once your Virgo man has become comfortable with you, he will be up for trying new things for finding new ways of satisfying you. So, if you have a fantasy or an idea that you want to try out, let him know. He likes his woman open minded and so is he. Apart from that, you can also try new things in life as well. Let him know that you are open to the idea of anything he wants to do. He is considered prude by many but in reality, a Virgo man isn’t prude. He is open to new ideas for you. He will not feel adverse of many things as you think he might be. To make you happy, he will be willing to give anything a whirl.

So What Have You Learned?

It is not easy to attract a Virgo man especially sexually. It takes a lot of effort and patience to deal with a Virgo man. He is a perfectionist and can be easily turned off by any mistake. He can’t be rushed. You will have to give him time to consider his position with you and be sure about you. You will have to put in a lot of effort to make him feel desired and be comfortable with you. You will have to express your love to the fullest. Think in the terms of creating a slow burn rather than the raging flame. A Virgo man needs to be ready mentally even before he could be physically ready. Be emotionally honest with him because he needs to make a mental and emotional connection with you before he could be attracted sexually. Intelligence and the genuine person turns him on. A Virgo lover is second to none and if you really want to unlock his passion it is important that you take care of his needs, to connect, to trust and to know you.

If there is even a whiff of lie, deception, hypocrisy or betrayal, all the best with your Virgo man will be off. Because he has let you in his personal space. So, if he detects any game, even a little hostility or negativity, he would interpret you as someone who has entered into his heart and life with a knife. Be unequivocal about it if you are going to be emotionally supportive to him. For him, there is no guessing about your intentions and emotions. Remember, you are dealing with a person who sees everything in either black or white. For him, there is no other color. Make sure you don’t try to create a gray space. It will make him doubtful of you and instead of getting attracted, your Virgo man will run in the opposite direction altogether. The bottom line is, you have to be absolutely clear if you want to win over your Virgo man.