Why does flirting with a girl the right way matter?
Flirting is a very important aspect of life that both men and women have to fully understand and master if at all they are to get with the person they deem as desirable. But since men are always looked upon to flirt in a bid to get the girl of their choice, it is important that they get to invest much more time learning the art of flirtation. Thanks to a rapid advance in technology, flirting comes in different forms and that includes Facebook, text messaging, WhatsApp and so forth. The good thing is that all one needs to do in order to get the girl of their choice is to stay confident, direct and be as original as possible. Without further ado, here is how you can get that girl you’ve been eyeing to not only like you but crave for you:
1. Flirt with your girl by likening her to art
When you flirt with any girl, always make a point of likening her to art. Telling her that she is the perfect of art is good, but going down to the specifics will always be great especially if you want for the flirtation with the girl to go to the next level. Needless to say, you will be required to carry out some research here and there just to ensure that you are saying things to her that make sense. You can also look at her strong features such as her eyes, burst, face or hair and use it to like a masterpiece of art and get to see just what will happen. If it’s true that she has an amazing pair of eyes and you liken it to a glowing piece of art, she will fall for you almost immediately. It just shows that you aren’t just a flirt but someone who truly likes her and that will definitely improve your chances of being with her without a doubt. If she is far away, you can try and WhatsApp her a photo of the work of art and then tell her what made you think of her when you came across the masterpiece of a painting. Thankfully, there are plenty of examples online that you can use and once you do that, you won’t go wrong with your flirtation.
2. Signal the girl through suggestive eye contact
You cannot have the desired effect with any girl without flirting with your eyes. Girls can get your intentions by looking into your eyes and that will make your work a tad easier when you flirt with her. Any person who knows how to flirt with their eyes can get the message to any girl that they want without putting much effort into it. It is much more powerful than sending a text or poking her on Facebook and that is why you need to learn this trick. And also make sure that you compliment the eye contact with proper body language so that in the end, she has the ability to flirt right back at you because she fully understands your intentions. Always make sure that you aren’t holding the eye contact for too long because, well, the girl might mistake you for a creep. Just make sure you are holding eye contact when she is talking to you or when you are talking to her and you can also get to stare at her lips for one or two seconds before reverting back to her eyes. In order to learn that gaze filled with desires, you might want to get a mirror and practice once in a while.
3. Flirt with her by being original
Social media platforms such as YouTube, Facebook, WhatsApp, Twitter and Instagram (as well as Myspace for those of us who are considered to be old souls) have made recycling jokes a norm. and the same goes to pick up lines as well as jokes. The thing is that if you ever think of lifting any example from social media, don’t! why? Because chances are that she already saw it somewhere and developed a counter for it. So, it would pay off if you choose to be as original as possible. In addition to that, you can lift some of these flirty lines from social media but you can modify them right before using them on any girl. Most importantly, always challenge your creativity and try to be as cool as you can. That way, you will find it a tad easier when you are flirting with any girl. Once you do that, flirtatious lines will flow to you naturally and you won’t have to worry about anything, which is always a good thing at the end of the day. Again, as you are being as original as you can be while flirting with the girl that has tickled your fancy, don’t forget your body language. This is because if your body language is off, then she won’t believe any word you say.
4. Remembering every detail will turn your girl on
Girls are intelligent beings who are wired to solve their own problems or tasks. But all they need is a pair of ears to listen. A girl will most certainly get attracted to the person who pays attention to each and every one of the details, including those that seem insignificant. And the only way you can do that is by ensuring that you are always listening to what she says. Not all girls have the guts to be as straightforward as some men might be. That said, it is, therefore, a good idea for you to keep your eyes open especially on the text messages that she is sending you or even her Facebook posts. You can also use the funny things she posts to tease her and that is how flirtation with a girl you like is made a tad easier. If you aren’t that good when it came to flirting, you can start with a close female friend. If they have your best interests at heart, then you can rest assured that they will come through for you and you’ll be in a position to flirt with any girl at any time!
5. Giving the girl her space is effortlessly flirtatious
Girls need to be given space to make up their minds if they like you or not – period. So, once you have spent some time with the girl of your dreams and you aren’t with her, try and lay off sending her WhatsApp or text messages apart from thanking her for the good time you had. If you keep on flooding her phone with texts and what not will only show you as a needy man, an example of the kind of man that she doesn’t ever want to be with. So, as the macho man that you were born to be, you need to understand that being a flirt or a girl’s favorite man is to learn how to give her space. You will also realize that she will look to you as a man with value especially because other men are competing in her inbox. But since you are the alpha of other alphas, you aren’t going to stoop to the level of competing with mere ‘mortal’ men because their dreams of being with that girl died the moment you stepped into that girl’s life. You can do this by flirting with a number of girls at a go (as long as you are still single and playing the field). That way, once you are done talking to one girl, you get to give her space as you flirt with another prospective girlfriend. Doing this will also improve your odds as opposed to only banking all your hopes on one girl.
6. Get a girl to like you through your elocution game
A person who has a great command of any language is usually deemed intelligent. And even though girls won’t admit it, they are all notoriously known for their sapiosexuality, meaning that they get aroused by smart people. Thankfully, you don’t have to have Albert Einstein’s IQ in order have a good command of any language. All you need is a lot of practice and you will be good to go. Apart from just speaking well and authoritatively, also make sure that you are applying the same when you text the girl o your dreams in a flirtatious manner. The same goes when you are updating on Facebook and WhatsApp. Making it your business to speak and write well will turn her on and you will realize that you don’t even have to invest a lot in flirting for you to get that girl. Thanks to the internet, you can learn a lot about using your elocution in flirting. And since it is a learning process, you will get the chance to enjoy the entire learning process. Just be patient and confident and you will be a good, fluent speaker in no time!
7. Relaxing will make flirting easier
Have you ever wondered why James Bond is usually calm especially when he is talking to attractive women? Well, his character fully understands the important role of composure when it comes to flirting with gorgeous girls. And James Bond is the perfect example of how any person should be especially if they want to flirt with that girl the right way. Being relaxed shows that you don’t have any worries. It also shows that you are confident and are quite a good leader. As a flirt, you need to understand the importance of being confident in your own skin because real relaxation comes from within. You can’t fake confidence especially when things start going wrong. Some girls always throw shit tests at you just to see how you will respond and if you are faking it, then the first thing you will get to do is panic, which isn’t going to be a good idea especially if you want to be successful when flirting with that hot girl you have been eyeing for a while now. So before going out on your flirting escapades, you will be work on your confidence as a person. And then from there, everything will fall into place with so much ease.
8. Flirting and humor go hand in hand
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Girls love guys who make them laugh. But that doesn’t mean that you have to be the funniest man on the planet. You can text her some funny jokes from time to time just to make sure that she is in a happy mood or even better, tag her on Facebook and Twitter especially when it comes to funny memes and updates. The same courtesy should be extended on WhatsApp and doing so will only make the flirting a tad easier. Flirting just doesn’t mean that you have to be talking to a girl funny all the time, but also make sure that the gestures are funny as well as flirtatious. Doing so will always give you the upper hand with any girl that you like. For example, getting to do a funny face or accent while you are out on a date or just chilling can make the girl laugh. That way, everything you do will always make her laugh. At the end of the day, she will always link you with that feeling of happiness which is always a good thing. Remember, just like in all matters of flirting, don’t get to overdo it or else you will come off as a fake.
9. Make the girl feel special
Girls are very special and it only takes a great guy to make her feel that way. It is, therefore, a good idea for you to work as hard as possible to ensure that you are the only guy making her feel that way. For example, always compliment her on things that she didn’t expect you to. Many guys always focus on a girl’s beauty when they are flirting. But if you choose to focus on a girl’s intelligence and her amazing personality when flirting with her, you are most certainly going to do things in a better way, which will be another reason for her to love you unconditionally. You can also focus on what she loves and give her gifts that complement her hard work. For instance, if she is a painter, get her a new canvas that has her initials engraved on the wooden edges. You can also get her a dress if she is a fashionista and so on. And you can make the most of this by first and foremost, paying attention when you are talking. You can’t make every girl feel special using the same technique since everyone is different. That said, always try to get things all sorted out through in-depth research. Don’t be afraid to ask her close friends about what makes her tick and you’ll be on your way to getting the girl of your dreams with so much ease.
10. Flirting is easier when you make her happier
Real guys know that flirting with the girl of their dreams will only get easier when you make her happy, apart from just making her laugh. If you have ill intentions, you will not be in a position to make any person happy, let alone the girl that you are really trying to woo. It is, therefore, a good idea for you to learn the art of making her happy through text messaging, conversations and your general attitude. You can celebrate her talents and how much of a good person she is on Facebook or any other social media sites. You can also prepare a surprise birthday group on WhatsApp when her birthday is close and surprise her in a big way. Making her laugh and showing the girl you are flirting with that you care and have her back will almost always make her happy. And that is exactly what you are supposed to be focusing on the moment you spotted her and begun flirting with her. Like it is the case with everything else, learning how to make a girl you are flirting with takes time and so without further ado, you need to start practicing immediately!
As you have already seen, you need to get to learn a few things in order to seduce the girl that you are flirting with. You can always feel free carrying your own research so that in the end, everything works out to your favor. You should also know that real men only hit on girls that they really want to be with. Hitting or flirting with girls you don’t want to be with is an example of a weak man and since you are here trying to do better, I believe that you aren’t going to do that. Flirtation is an art that takes a lot of practice. For that matter, don’t be afraid to carry out practice so that in the end, you can end up bagging the girls that were seemingly out of your league. Here’s to being and doing better!