30 Ways To Make Your Boyfriend Happy And Feel Special Every Day

: It is very sweet of you if you are looking for little ways to make your boyfriend happy every day. Show him how special he is in these 30 steps.

By Gerald Matiri
30 Ways To Make Your Boyfriend Happy And Feel Special Every Day

What It Takes To Make Your Boyfriend Happy

It takes a lot of commitment to be in a happy relationship and it is not always easy to have a boyfriend. Your special guy is just waiting for something that will make him happy from you. What nice things do you have in store for him? It is imperative that you factor your boyfriend into several things and spend more time with him. Let’s explore some 30 tips that will have your boyfriend smiling every time you are together.

1. Respect private moments of your boyfriend

It is only natural that you want to be with your boyfriend all the time but that’s simply impossible- he loves you very much but he needs space. There are some things he wants to do alone and you must respect that. In addition, he wants to spend time with his buddies and do the guys stuff and the worst thing you can do is interrupt that. Separating yourself from him is fair; you will have more to discuss when you get together. You too, need some alone time to meditate or exercise and doing so improves your health; so why not give him time to meditate? Do not be worried about how long he will be gone; you can make plans of when to see each other later.

2. Warm up to his friends and family

Guys love spending time with their friends just like you do. There is a special bond he has with his family and friends which he simply cannot break no matter what. He needs you to be a friendly person to these people who are a part of his life. Since you accepted him, you have to accept his entire life if you want to achieve a happy relationship. He will thank you for getting along with his buddies.

3. Treat him on a weekend

This will definitely make your boyfriend happy. A Saturday night is a good time to wind down after some hectic work. If you have no plans for making dinner, buy him pizza and rent a good movie to make it a memorable date. You will have satisfied his appetite and both of you will enjoy a great time in each other’s arms when watching a movie. He doesn’t need to be the only one treating you.

4. Make your boyfriend happy by compliments

Men love compliments. You should be genuine when stating the things you like about him, physically or sexually and he will never forget. He needs to know if he looks or smells good. For your information, men are insecure about their physical and sexual appeal and so they care about their dressing. You must let your boyfriend know how hot he looks in those pants or the new t-shirt he bought. Tell him you are addicted to the smell on his neck and that’s why you cannot get enough of his hugs.

5. Make eye contact and smile

This is one way of giving your boyfriend countless happy moments when you are together. A smile is infectious and he will smile back if you start it. It is not easy to do these little things after being with him for a long time but you need to show your vulnerability more often.

6. What attracted your boyfriend initially?

Do you remember what made him fall in love with you? It could have been your hair, your jovial mood, sexually attractive body figure, or your kindness. Make sure he sees the same thing every day to see how wonderful you still are.

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7. Wash his clothes and clean his house

If he were to be honest with you, your boyfriend doesn’t like dirty laundry or house only that sometimes he feels lazy to clean up. If you could help him with the mess, he will forever be grateful. Surprise him once in a while by washing his sheets, clothes, and carpets while he’s working. You will make his days brighter and from ear to ear, he will be grinning all day long.

8. Make him happy by showing some PDA

If your boyfriend is like most guys, public display of affection is something that makes him feel special. Hold his hands when you are in a movie theatre and hug him when he scores a goal for his volleyball team. He wouldn’t mind if you give him a peck after escorting you to your class as your classmates watch.

9. Trust your boyfriend and show him

Having faith in your boyfriend is one of the ways to boost his confidence and reinforce love in your relationship. He will feel more special and attracted to if he knows that you trust him. How do you do that? It is okay to feel jealous but do not badger him with questions. Extreme jealousy will only push him away from you. Do not be the obsessive girl who goes through his boyfriend’s text messages- he will know that you don’t trust him. If you think he is unfaithful, just walk away and move on.

10. Appreciate your boyfriend for everything he does

There are a lot of things your boyfriend sacrifices for your sake and it is hard to do this. Show him your appreciation and let him know that you are not blind to his commitment. If he gives you money, gifts, or his time, acknowledge him and never take it for granted. The last thing you should do is act like you have some entitlement to receiving nice things from your boyfriend. The good things he does for you are a sacrifice and you should also give back. When he buys you a nice top, reciprocate the gesture with some chocolate for him.

11. Be cheerful

Have a fun attitude towards life if you want to make him feel special. Find ways that make him laugh and smile and be spontaneous. No man likes a downer or a girlfriend that sees negativity in everything. Do not frustrate him by being moody or rejecting all the restaurants he suggests. Smile and laugh for no reason and he will be happy that he found you. If you go to a club, make sure you dance with him; don’t just sit because he will find a lady to dance with and you will be the one feeling pathetic.

12. Buy him a material he loves to read about

Your boyfriend doesn’t have to be a writer or a passionate reader for you to give him a book as a present. If he likes sports, buy him an athletic magazine; or an engineering book if that’s what interests him.

13. Keep away your phone when around him

Your phone will always have a new mail, boss calling, text, or social media clip. When you are with your special man, why can’t you put it down for a while? He will understand if the call is an emergency but he would be annoyed if you seem buzzed up with your phone. Take time to look at your boyfriend, see the special person you are in love with, and engage in a meaningful conversation without distractions. If you have to pick a phone call, let him know why.

How To Make Your Boyfriend Happy, Sexually

To keep your boyfriend happy every day, you have to make things hot in bed. He may not be a sex god, but he needs to feel sexually connected in a steamy and transcendent way. For both of you, intimacy must be sacred and intense. There are many ways to cultivate desire sexually in order to achieve a healthier relationship.

14. Experiment stuff in bed

Men love freaky girlfriends in bed so you must be willing to try different things. If you cannot be a goddess in his bedroom, try out some new things in a hotel room. Go and have fun in a tent and talk about your wildest sexual fantasies- there are countless ways to spice up your relationship, sexually.

15. Play with his erotic body parts

Do not forget that your boyfriend has many other erotic areas besides his penis and scrotum. Play with his ears, kiss his neck, massage his spine, and tickle his ribs. Because you are his most intimate buddy, don’t be afraid to explore his body sexually. He will love it when you lick, stroke, and touch his erogenous zones like the nipples, armpits, and buttocks.

16. He will be happy to see you undress

Do not be shy to undress as he watches. Good news is that if your boyfriend loves you, he adores your body, no matter your shape. Do not be so self-conscious in front of him because he looks at you as a beauty; he doesn’t care about your physical imperfections. As you undress, employ some of your seduction tactics to turn him on. He will appreciate you and make love to you.

17. Give your boyfriend a great blowjob

Show him your intimate prowess and how you can be bold in bed by giving him an intense blowjob. You can be holy in all other areas of life, but you cannot afford to be coy in bed. Get dirty and blow his shaft like it’s the last thing you will ever do to him.

18. Make him happy in bed by talking dirty

Sexually, dirty talks are very stimulating. Do not feel inhibited to talk dirty in bed. Tell him to do something naughty if you want to enjoy making love. Studies show that dirty talks in bed make partners attain orgasms faster.

19. Explore different sex positions

Every sex position is unique in its own way and your boyfriend has his favorite. If he likes to dominate, let him penetrate you while he’s on top; and if he likes to be dominated, ride him on top. But make sure that you switch things up and find out what drives him crazy.

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20. Make love to your boyfriend at midnight

If you put your mind to intimacy, you can seduce your boyfriend anytime. For instance, you can wake him up at night by pressing your bottoms against his pelvis. Tease him by caressing his manhood while he sleeps and you will see what will happen.

21. Watch naughty movies with your boyfriend

Most men like watching porn because they are erotic. Before getting in bed with your boyfriend, watch some dirty films to spark some sexual tension and excitement. If you don’t like porn, there are some romantic movies which are not abusive to ladies and they can help you build your anticipation, sexually.

22. Learn how to kiss him well

Gentle kissing is romantic, but your boyfriend will appreciate some full-on mouth kisses once in a while. If you are making out, don’t jump straight into kissing; start by teasing him to build up the anticipation. Then, use different techniques but watch your tongue. Good kissing can enhance your connection so make sure you know how to kiss properly. Note that there are many ways to kiss your boyfriend apart from lips-to-lips. A kiss on his beard, belly, or hands would make him feel so special in your arms.

23. Put on provocative lingerie

When you are in an intimate relationship with someone, you must find ways to break familiarity and intimacy barriers. Know how to dress to impress your boyfriend sexually. Buy some lingerie pieces that will transform you into a sex goddess and he will stick with you forever.

24. Switch sex routine

Every time you make love, do things differently. If the bedroom becomes too familiar, try making love on the couch. Don’t wait for him to initiate intimacy; seduce him in the office and the kitchen and he will never stop grinning any time he thinks about you. Do not let your sexual life get boring- be creative and have fun.

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25. Never make fun of him

A guy needs respect, more than anything. He cares less about his looks but he cares so much if he is respected or not. Loyalty is something he wants from you and if you try to make fun of him, he will feel despised and as if you are against him. Under no circumstance should you make fun of your boyfriend- whether in public or private situations. Instead, show how proud you are being his girlfriend no matter his flaws. It is okay to poke fun at your boyfriend for petty things but it is not cool to legitimately make fun of them. You also don’t want the same thing done to you, so don’t do it.

26. Stop trying to solve all his issues

Unless he asks you to rescue him out of some financial or social problems, let him handle the challenges by himself. You want to be with a decisive man who can take responsibility for your future as opposed to a helpless guy who doesn’t know what to do. Note that you are a woman and not a workforce to handle any hurdle your boyfriend is facing.

27. Do not change your life for him

You should not give up on your friends, studies, and career just because you have found a new boyfriend. Your special guy might lose interest in you if you sacrifice your lifestyle for the sake of the relationship. He will appreciate if you embrace a varied life outside your relationship. This applies to your appearances too. You obviously want to look great in front of your boyfriend but changing your looks all of a sudden will not make him happy.

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28. Do not be bossy

Cracking the whip too much will chase your boyfriend away. If you call all the shots, you will dwarf your poor guy and this is nothing close to making him happy. Avoid the attitude of an alpha male or being a control freak at all cost. Trying to be in control of everything is quite annoying; always confirm from your boyfriend what he wants, what to have for dinner, and where to go on a vacation. Pushing a guy to do stuff is unhealthy and he will run away in no time. The idea is to create some equality rather than tyranny.

29. Do not lie or fake things

One key to a happy relationship is honesty. If you fake orgasms, you are not benefitting anyone; let him know what he can do to make you reach climax. If he realizes you are a liar, he will want nothing to do with you. It is easier to deal with the harsh truth than a lie. You will break the trust he has for you if you continue lying.

30. Never try to change your boyfriend

This is one of the oldest relationship rules you must be aware of. If you think that your man is going to change because he has fallen in love with you, you are lying to yourself. If you don’t like his character, then don’t get into a relationship in the first place. It is paramount that you accept him the way he is. You should fall in love with his real self as opposed to your idea for him. You cannot, therefore, force him to be something he is not. The only thing you can control is how you do things and perhaps he can emulate you. Give him space to be what he is at his best and love him for that.

Last Words

One critical element of any relationship is the willingness of the lovers to make each other feel special always. The love between two partners should be mutual for it to grow. Do not struggle to make your boyfriend happy if he is not willing to reciprocate your gestures; you will be wasting your time.

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