Sex Parties 101: 15 Things To Expect For A Beginner

Sex parties are just as the name suggests, meaning it’s a party where people go to either watch or engage in sex. More often than not, the participants are either attending the parties to satisfy a sexual curiosity or take part in one. As a beginner, there are certain things you ought to know about the whole sex parties/killing kitten parties experience:

It is a sex party for crying out loud! So, don’t expect to go and just sit there holding hands and singing kumbaya or something. People are definitely going to get drunk, have a nice time which includes lots of steamy sex. And now that we know what this is all about, we shouldn’t use that as an excuse for not preparing ourselves beforehand. Make sure that you have protection at all times just in case you want to “live a little”. If it’s a sex party that has a lot of strangers in it, always make sure that you have a couple of friends that will always have your back no matter what. That way, even if you get a little too drunk, you can always be in safe hands. And since all of you are planning on getting drunk and having a good time, having a cab on speed dial should be a priority. So, before you get down to that steamy orgy or group sex (for those of us who like keeping things direct), then make sure you have taken care of your safety first.

Inasmuch as everyone in a sex party wants to experience something out of this world, it is very important to note that looking good is what is going to get you laid. So, it wouldn’t hurt if you take some time and investing in some hot lingerie or boxers. Smelling good at a sex party is also important because you don’t want to zero down on your crush and say hi only for your breath to choke him/her to death. Okay, maybe not to death but you get my drift. So, making sure that your oral hygiene is amazing and most importantly, ensuring that you invest in some cologne so that you are killing the competition and hooking up with some amazing people instead of settling. Shave that kitten if you are a girl and the same goes to guys. If not, at least keep your bush trimmed and well-kept, though it is always a brilliant idea to just shave clean if at all you want is the sex to be remarkable.

Inasmuch as it is obvious that people attend sex parties to have sex, you also need to do your own research, especially if it is your very first time. Thankfully, there is the internet and you don’t have to look the word orgy up in a dictionary and wonder what the hell it means anymore. You can also carry out a little bit on different kinds of sexual play, sex positions and everything about practicing safe sex because, as we earlier stated, it is important to always keep safety in as much as we all want to have fun. And the sex aside, you can also research on how to stay as cool and as respectful as possible during these parties because people just want to have fun and not get disrespected. Bottom-line, there is a lot of things that need to be considered when talking about a sex party and that means you need to carry out a lot of research before doing anything drastic.

You also need to understand that sex parties come with their fair share of rules. There are different kinds of people who want different kinds of experiences. Some of these people are elites, celebrities, power couples and so forth. So, you need to understand that this is an exclusive and very secretive sex party. That said, you need to not only be comfortable but also make sure that you put on a mask or something close to that so that your anonymity is intact. Also, learn to always show to be sexually attractive through your body language and if you keep doing that, everything will most certainly work out to your advantage. Also, if you take your time to fully understand the rules and what is expected of you, then the entire experience will most certainly be worth it.

If you are new to these, especially when it comes to killing kitten parties, you will get the chance to experience quite a number of things that you haven’t encountered before. That said, it is very important for you to be as open-minded as possible and you will have the time of your life. So instead of acting all cagey and out of place, try being a little open-minded and your sexual experience will most certainly increase. And if you try out something and it doesn’t appeal to you, then it would be a good lesson never to try it out again. That said, a little bit of open-mindedness isn’t going to be a very bad idea at the end of the day. And for that matter, you need to ensure that you are doing all in your power to also research and get to know a thing or two about sexual orientations and it will be less awkward during the sex party.

I fully understand that when it comes to being intimate with people you haven’t met before, it can get a little bit awkward. So, the best thing for you to do before engaging in any sex or intimacy is to learn the art of relaxing. Taking a couple deep breaths before getting into the sex party looking great in your boxers or lingerie will be a good start. Also, you can learn how to be flirtatious and as said above, open-minded and you will get to relax when you realize that your mayor isn’t as intimidating as he looked during the campaign trail. He isn’t trying to take you down because you aren’t an opponent or anything of that sort. Ha-ha, I am just kidding. Other people might want to have an orgy or any other kinds of kinky sex. If you aren’t comfortable, just politely decline. And if you are okay with it, then do it as long as there is protection involved then you have nothing to worry about.

Attending a sex party doesn’t mean that you have to actually have sex. If you aren’t comfortable with getting intimate with anyone, you can just join the spectator bandwagon and still have the time of your life. The catch right here is making sure that you are looking sexy and showing some skin because, well, it is a sex party and not a skating tournament in Alaska where you have to wear a ton of woolen jackets so as to be warm. Be nice to people and smile a little since you aren’t contributing to the pleasure, you can at least contribute to making the aura a little friendlier and sexier. Again, the killing kittens or sex parties aren’t all about sex. So, the next time you get an invite and aren’t in the mood of having sex, you can still go and just lighten up the place. Besides, there is no effort in watching others having sex now is there?

Remember when we talked about polite declining an invite if you aren’t into someone or a fetish? Well, that applies perfectly well at this point. For instance, if you happen to be straight and you are cordially invited to take part in a gay orgy at a sex party, a simple “no, thanks” would suffice. You don’t need to stress yourself out with explaining because everyone in there understands the rules, which is why it is important for the rookies to research all about the rules. You don’t have to end up doing something sexual and be uncomfortable. Sex parties are supposed to be fun and that is exactly why the rules are there to make sure that you are in a position to enjoy yourself without having to worry way too much about hurting people’s feelings by politely rejecting their advances – operative word being “politely”.

For the umpteenth time, sex parties are about having fun, drinking a little and making lifetime experiences. So apart from relaxing and having some good sex, or just watching, you can also use the sex parties as a place to make good friends. There is always a very interesting crowd of people in sex parties who are always up for trying new things which makes them a tad interesting to be around. It is therefore very important for you to not only enjoy the sex, sexual experience but also use that platform to talk to people. You might be surprised when your next connect or employment finds you in some parties or any other sex party because as mentioned earlier, there are plenty of influential people in there trying to experiment sex parties and just have a good time.

Ever wondered why the porn/sex industry is a billion-dollar business? It is because they are very interesting to watch. The same happens in sex parties where the experience, especially to open-minded first-timers, is often described as a mind-blowing sexual experience.

Life is all about experimenting different things and a sex party can be a very amazing place to start. As long as you are a confident person who isn’t afraid of exploring sexually, then you can find sex parties very interesting to attend. As long as you know your limits, look good in your undergarments and needless to say, understand and respect other people attending such parties, then you can end up enjoying a lot. Always remember that your safety comes first. So always have your protection with you at all times and you won’t live to regret it. But if you happen to try it out and it doesn’t seem to work out for you, then don’t sweat it. But the most important thing is the experience. There are plenty of other things that you learn about sex parties and that is why carrying out your own research is very crucial and important.