9 Reasons Why Missionary Position is Still the Best

In today’s age, whatever is too mainstream, is lame. In sex positions, my opinion is that whatever works for you, is hot and wild. I get it, Doggy style is hot but is it intimate and romantic? For some, the answer may be yes but for most, I don’t think so. I mean in Doggy Style, you can’t look into each other’s eyes, the girl’s back is aching plus she has to look all the way back to see his handsome face. Doggy and cowgirl may have their own perks, but when you’re looking for an intimate and personal lovemaking session that ensures a deeper connection and speaks to your soul, I’m going in with Missionary. Here are the top 9 reasons why missionary is the best of them all!

The position required a lot less effort. Yes, the woman is at more ease than the man but the later also has room to ease by letting his weight on to his woman. Apart from being easy, many partners tend to be more comfortable and less intimidated while trying the missionary position.

If there was an award for the most intimate position of all, the winner would be none other than the Missionary position. I mean, is there any other position out there that can counter the eye contact, the view of how pleased your partner is because of you, the sight of the women’s body in all her glory and the ease in communicating? Whispering is a huge turn on for both men and women and you can easily do that in this position. The best way to cover the level of intimacy this position provides is that it involves the use of all your senses. Your eyes are pleased, you smell each other’s sweet-scented hair, your hands have access to all the good parts and you can communicate with each other. Even if you decide to just stare into each other’s while doing it with the sound of both of you gasping for breath filling the room, that’s an electric experience in itself.

A missionary position is one of the best positions out there that provide more stimulation. Let’s get a little bit scientific here. G-spot is a delicate part that rested on the higher wall of the vagina. The more the G-spot stimulated, the higher the chances of women reaching an orgasm. This position calls for the penis to enter from a lower angle which makes it easier for the guy to hit the G-spot again and again.

In most cases, men like to dominate and women like to lose control. If that’s the case with both of you, this is the position that will satisfy the underlying dominant and submissive cravings of yours. With the dominant perspectives, missionary position gives them the control they desire with their lady lying beneath his weight, under his control and mercy. He gets to control the pace, he can hold both her hands above her head and even have open access to her neck for consensual light choking.
Now with the submissive perspective. She gets to hand over control to her dominant male partner. She gets to complete submit under his weight while he takes the steering wheel. She gets to relax and view how her submission is pleasing her partner.

Hopeless romantic? If yes, Missionary is your position! For all the love birds out there who don’t want to trade for the old fashioned passionate make-out session with anything else, The M.P is the best way to explore your partner’s mouth while having the best session down there too.

Even though, for some, the higher the risk the higher the pleasure. But here is an interesting fact, missionary sex is a lot safer as compared to Doggy Style. The risk being, a broken penis. Of all penile fractures, doggy style was 44% of the time, the cause of it. The missionary was to be blamed for 25% of the time.

Doggy style tends to be more rough and vigorous. This can lead to poor aims which can either result in slamming the penis in pelvis bone or completely missing the partner and hitting a hard surface. Even though the chances of this are pretty low, you sure don’t want to be one of the unlucky ones.

Even though in the guy’s eyes, their women might be the most beautiful creature in this entire world; girls don’t think of their bodies that way. Most girls tend to be shy about their bodies and have insecurities. For such a couple, to get the girl comfortable with her body, starting with a missionary position is the best way. She might be the most confident with the missionary position because her stomach lies flat, her breasts are perfectly bouncy and perky and her lower body is hidden. The guy can further boost her confidence by whispering sweet things in her ear like how beautiful she looks and how her body makes him go crazy. All of these perks with amazing sex! What more can one ask for? After a few sessions, you might even notice her coming out of her shell and being more confident.

To be very honest, reaching orgasm can get hard when in the cowgirl position or the doggy.  A woman can focus on making the right noises while bouncing and catching her breath and focus on not breaking the guy’s penis or she can focus on her pleasure to reach orgasm. The position is so tiring that the muscles begin to throb soon. Focusing on G-spot stimulation is the last thing on your mind when the man is pushing you to increase the pace every 2 seconds.

On the other hand, the Missionary position caters to women’s needs as well as men’s. Your man is in the driving seat which gives him control to set pace suitable for him while simultaneously hitting the right spots for you. This is why, in this position, orgasm is much more likely as compared to the cowgirl and several others.

The simplicity that accompanies that comes with a missionary position is just beautiful. After a long day of work, when you’re lazy but in the mood to make love, this is the go-to position. You both can be lazy, the lady more than the man, and still have a good session. This position just feels right and always gets the job done.

The addition of something as simple as a pillow will turn the pleasure up quite a few notches. The guy will have better access and control over her body and the girl will experience the G-spot delight like never before. Place that pillow under her ass and go at it. You both will thank me after.

If you’re into bondage and sex toys to spice a session up, adding these to the missionary position will just further enhance the dominant’s experience and submissive’s submission. You can blindfold her and even tie her hands or legs any way you want (with her consent of course). Throw in some nipple clamps and other toys for some more heat!

If you like going a step further with missionary, try one leg up while the other is down. This will give the man better access and more control.

The conclusion is that a missionary position may be boring for some but in my experience and that of the people I asked around, boring in sex means you’re just not doing the right things. It’ll always be a mystery to me why, when something is tried and tested or is too mainstream, people deem it to be uncool. A missionary position is, unfortunately, one of the victims of this stereotype. But with sex, you got to go with whatever floats your boat. Don’t listen to the weirdo out there. If you like Missionary, do it! Ain’t nobody is judging here.