What you need to know about attracting a married woman
When you are attracted to a married woman, it is important to note that just like it is the case with a single woman, you are the one who needs to pursue. Also, you need to understand that your success rates are much lower than when you are hitting on a single woman and so you have to be smart about it. Here are some tips that will help you attract that hot married woman with ease:
1. Tell the married woman she is beautiful
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The number one rule of being able to seduce any woman, let alone a married woman, is telling her that she is beautiful. Truth is that every woman is beautiful in her own special way. It is, therefore, a good idea for you to always make her see this and she will love you for it. Besides, most married women don’t get the props that they deserve because their husbands assume that they already did everything in a bid to win their love. That means that if you are as smart as I presume you are, then you know that telling her she is beautiful will only make her love you more. If you don’t believe me, then try and tell a married woman you are attracted to that you love her and just get to hear what will happen. I bet she will get wide-eyed, speechless or even get to the point of blushing.
2. Attract her by giving off positive vibes
Women love guys that ooze with positive energy – period. As I have always said, women associate people with the kind of emotions that they evoke in them. For instance, if you are the kind of guy who makes her laugh, she will always want to be around you and not with the guy who is constantly nagging her (for instance, her husband). The good thing is that everyone can be funny as long as they are comfortable in their own skin.
Also try as much as possible to maintain eye contact while talking to her and making her laugh. Doing this will most certainly draw her in and make sure that the attraction is immediate. That said, even if you feel as though you aren’t happy or have a lot on your mind, always brush aside those feelings when you meet with her and everything will be ok. Remember, don’t sweat it!
3. Genuinely praise the married woman’s efforts
Let’s just get one thing clear – a lot of women are unsung heroes especially when it comes to married women. More often than not, the woman goes above and beyond just to make sure that the husband is having a good time – period. It would, therefore, be an incredible idea if you notice the little things that she does and praise her. Did she get a new haircut? Good. Make sure that you have mentioned it. The trick here is noticing the little things that would have been missed by anyone and the married woman you are trying to attract will love you for that.
Remember to always be genuine because women also have a radar that can notice when you are overdoing something. So, make sure that whatever you are doing is genuine and you shall reap the rewards effortlessly.
4. You can attract any married woman with passion
Any woman will go head over heels for a man who has passion, not fame, not money or anything else for that matter. That said, you need to find that one thing you love and be passionate about it. For instance, if you happen to be a fitness freak, then be a fitness freak and be proud of it. The same goes for your career and values and don’t be afraid to be vocal about it. Doing so will not only make it easy for you to seduce that hot married woman but also attract other women as well. Again, just make sure that you are as genuine as possible and you will most certainly reap the rewards of doing just that.
5. Attract the woman through listening
Women love a man who listens, so learn how to listen keenly if you aren’t good at it! More often than not, women are smart enough to solve their own problems. But the reason why they keep on complaining to you about Keisha from the salon or Salome at work is that they want you to listen. And as you are listening to that beautiful married woman you intend on attracting, always make sure that you are maintaining eye contact. Doing so is a very important thing because, in the end, she will get drawn to you. The good thing with listening to her is you will mostly remember the little things she says and that, my dear friends, will score some major points with the married woman you want to attract.
6. Dress to kill
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Inasmuch as the wise one once said that we should never judge a book by its cover, or a movie by the trailer, we will always judge everything by appearance. That is just how humans are wired and no number of dictums will ever change that fact. So, if you want to attract any beautiful woman, let alone a hot married woman, then your wardrobe will surely be in need of a bit of face-lifting. You don’t have to wear some of the best designer clothing. But as long as you wear clothing that fit and complement your body, then you will be a little more attractive than the regular guys. It isn’t too late to pick up some fashion magazines and try updating your looks. Doing so will most certainly put you on the map and it would be a tad easier for your crush to listen to what you have to say.
7. Unpredictability is key
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If you want to get that hot married woman eating from the palms of your hands, then you will need to make her look forward to your next move. That is how you will get her to always be thinking about you and in the end, get to bag her without any problems whatsoever. Another reason why you should strive to be mysterious is that chances are that her husband is already predictable and boring for that matter. And since all women are hotwired to seek adventure, your predictability will go a long way in making sure that she loves you or is attracted to you. The good thing about unpredictability is that it is an art that can be practiced. And since it has been proven time and again to work on any woman, it will most certainly work on just about anyone who is seriously looking to get down with that hot married woman.
8. Make your intentions known
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If you want to seduce that married woman that you just can’t stop thinking about, then it is about time that you make your move. A very big part of making your move is ensuring that your intentions are known from the start and everything will most certainly work out in your favor. It takes a lot of courage for anyone to approach a married woman and guess what? That is exactly what will separate the boys from the men. She will not only respect you but also admire your confidence altogether. Making your intentions known from the start will also help you save time especially if she isn’t into you and again, you will love the convenience that comes with being direct.
9. Attract that married woman with your touch
Again, all women are the same. So, some strong eye contact game and coupling it with some “innocent” touches here and there will go a long way in attracting the married woman of your choice. Again, don’t make the touches seem a little too obvious. You can touch her hand and pull her closer before telling a joke or touch the small of her back while leading her into a bedroom… ha-ha, I am just kidding about the bedroom. Don’t you dare try that at first. You can lead her into a restaurant or somewhere else since we are trying to seduce her. And just like it is the case with everything else, you can also take some time and practice your touching so that it can be effective at the end of the day. Make use of the many YouTube videos or blog posts that are about touching intimately and everything will most certainly work out for you in the end.
10. Tease and flirt with the woman
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Whether she is a single or a married woman, she will most certainly respond to flirting, either positively or negatively. You should, therefore, strive to improve your flirtation and teasing game without coming off as a creep. And one way of flirting without coming off as a creep is by reading her body language. Make sure that she is comfortable with being teased and everything will go as planned. It is also important to tease and be playful with her when she is in the mood for it. And that is why reading her body language is important. Always test the waters when flirting with a married woman because, inasmuch as women are different, a married woman doesn’t have the liberties that every other single woman can enjoy.
As I have mentioned over and over again, it is very important for you to understand that every woman will always be the same. Try your best and be yourself and you will get to enjoy virtually everything good that comes with dating a married woman. But if she just isn’t into you, then be polite and leave her be! Besides, there are a lot of single women out there who would kill to be with a guy as hot and as amazing as yourself! So don't sweat it when you like her and she doesn't like you back. Just move on to the next!