All About Sex Parties and Now, Virtual Sex Parties

Feeling adventurous? All about sex parties before trying it out

By Kimmy
All About Sex Parties and Now, Virtual Sex Parties

What are Sex Parties?

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Group orgies and scandalous, shameful, sinful intake of drugs and alcohol, even satanic rituals. Is that how you thought of sex parties before attending one? Don't worry, most people have misconceptions about sex parties and believe it to be the most sinful thing on Earth.

First of all, sex parties are no different than your ordinary parties other than that it involves sex. People don't gather around and perform seances nor do they dress up like a cult member. People aren't there because they are weird and crooked. They are there to have a good time.

Second of all, sex parties don't equal orgies. That's probably the biggest misconception about sex parties, that you have to f*ck a group of people. In fact, many couples go to sex parties together and only end up having sex and performing their acts in front of others. By no means, you have to have sex with others at the party if you don't want to. In fact, you don't have to have sex at all if that isn't your night.

Misconceptions flying around sex parties make it difficult for genuine participants to open up about their fun adventures. Don't want to be deluded? Read on to find about what is done in sex parties and how they have evolved with the lockdown since the pandemic.

What is Done in Sex Parties?

Usually, every sex party has a theme, whether it be the 50's, "animals" (cosplay), or an evening ball. Each theme establishes the attire you are expected to show up in and the props you should bring. Having a theme is useful so the atmosphere is consistent.

Some people choose to attend sex parties alone while some choose to attend with their partner. It's up to you how you want to go but many couples find it to be a good bonding experience and there are sex parties exclusive to couples only. Find one suitable for you and your needs.

Sex parties are high school parties with drugs and alcohol. A lot of people in a sex party are sophisticated individuals lacking an outlet to fulfill their fantasy. They aren't here to get high or wasted, but something much more rewarding, to fill up their ego.

You are indeed expected to perform in front of a crowd, which is a major self-esteem booster for many and the reason they attend sex parties. People often take turns to perform sex acts while others sit and watch. In some instances, there would even be a friendly competition of rating the performances that night.

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Sex parties are supposed to create a positive and friendly environment and not a hostile one where you feel the need to compete with other participants. Rather, you are there to grow and support each other. You can open up about any insecurities you have about sex and let others guide you.

Set clear boundaries for yourself as other attendees do. Everyone sates clearly what is off limit and their wish must be resepcted. Sex parties aren't a place to make someone feel less. It's a place for them to feel big and worthy.

In fact, getting wasted or getting high can be frowned upon as sex parties emphasis the human connection and sex. Being under the influecne skims away your ability to connect to another soul and often is discouraged. It's not the time for alcohol. It's a place to show your sex skills and feel supported.

Sex parties are also a place for you to promote yourself and your attractiveness. Many found their lifelong friends or even their partner in sex parties because they are able to be real and fully be themselves, not afraid of being judged. Advocate yourself and stand up for what you believe in. Many use sex parties as a place to promote and educate of gender rights and minority rights. It's a far more educating platform than you'd expect.

Just like many being judged, attendees often feel the pressure in real life when speaking up about their passion, hence they are also more supportive of minority rights.

Enter the World of Virtual Sex Parties

With the pandemic (can we reboot 2020?) and the whole world descending to chaos, most are staying home as much as possible to be responsible. Social distancing is still in place and many are advised to not meet up with friends frequently and avoid even domestic travel if possible. Parties are strictly prohibited in some areas. Even if it's not strictly prohibited, it's highly discouraging and might get you into trouble for throwing or attending one.

Hard times like this gave birth to the boom of virtual sex parties. Not that virtual sex parties were non-existent prior to the pandemic. They simply never took off as people are more like to attend one in real life.

The pandemic encouraged couples longing for human connection and missing the fun sex parties to enter chat rooms and meet others to enjoy an equally fun night at home.

The idea of virtual sex parties is really taking off because you don't even have to join with people in your area or your time zone. It's a wonderful international exchange to see how sex is done differently in other countries. Virtual sex parties are really taking off amid the chaos happening around the world, a place that offers comfort for many to have a little fun at night.

With virtual sex parties, you can either remain anonymous by wearing a mask or make new friends by showing them the skills you have. A lot of organizers are now switching their platform to the online world so they can attract more views.

What is Done in Sex Parties?

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Virtual sex parties are essentially real-life sex parties, but online. Instead of conversing in a room, you converse via chat. Usually, virtual sex parties are organized by admins and each round has about 20-something guests, most of the couples.

Couples take turns to perform in front of the camera and it usually follows by a group activity and admins will choose who is the best to zoom in on. It really brings up your ego when you get chosen by the admin. Everyone is there to support and encourage you so you don't feel so self-conscious. Most people only have good things to say about virtual sex parties from their experience.

There is a comment section where you can converse with attendees live and share your thoughts. You are also allowed to dm them in private and continue to build up your connection if you see fit. Many couples have found others to send nudes and wild pictures via these kinds of virtual sex parties. 

Most of these virtual sex parties are strictly monitored and managed. You are not allowed to solicit with attendees other than to build a friendship. And you are not allowed to send hateful or insulting comments to other attendees. You will feel respected and protected. If you feel uncomfortable you always have an admin to report to.

Virtual sex parties are a safe place for couples to bond with others while this boring lockdown time. You still get the human connection even if you can't physically meet. And many endorse the idea of virtual sex parties because it opens up a lot of doors to meet up with others from different countries. An international sex party is always a blast.

Just like a real-life sex party, a virtual sex party isn't to get wasted. You are not there to watch others get drunk too. It's about the soul exchange and sex skills you could acquire from other attendees. It's a learning and sharing experience.

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Summary

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Sex parties aren't as diabolical as you'd think. Many are very healthy with good intentions to help people bond. Many misjudge it and see it as a sinful act when they don't even know what is done on sex parties. In the time of this pandemic, virtual sex parties are really taking off and more are finding the fun to show off themselves in front of the camera.

One thing to know before you join a virtual sex party, ask if you are being recorded. That's an important fact to know. If you are comfortable being recorded, still pursue further and ask what the recorded video will be for. It's good to know why someone would need a tape of you getting it on with your husband.

Try out a sex party and learn to enjoy sex on the next level!

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