Please And Satisfy Your Woman In Bed: Your Step By Step Guide

Did you know that 80% of the women have faked an orgasm just to please their man? Half of them do not want it at the time their partner wants it and half of them do not like the way their partner has sex with them. For men, its simple, once you ejaculate, you are done. Whether women reach their climax cannot be known. Unsatisfied sex life leads to increased sexual cravings and depression. For women, sex works like therapy. Sex releases feel-good hormones in their bodies, and it is very necessary that they enjoy their sexual intimacy. Women relate sex to emotions. If they are sexually satisfied, they are happier in the relation. After a routine sex life, sex mostly comes down to a routine affair with only the man satisfying his need and the woman wanting to finish it quickly. As a man, you need to make sex exciting with your woman every time. Make sure she gets an orgasm and reaches her climax. The following is a step by step guide on how you can please and satisfy your woman in bed.

Women should not be perceived as objects for male satisfaction. They should not be used as bodies for you to masturbate or reach an orgasm. Men need to understand that they need sex too. Their tastes, likes, and dislikes may be different than yours. You have to be careful about using protection so that they enjoy lovemaking with a peaceful mind. Make sure you smell good, are clean and wearing a fresh pair of undergarments. Your woman's protection and safety is your duty. Men should not look at them as lustful objects in bed. To please and satisfy your woman in bed, you need to know what arouses her. Her specific likes and dislikes. They love to feel pampered by their man, and this fact remains while in bed too. Also, make sure that you communicate with her before and after lovemaking else she might feel she being used only for sex. Enough and effective foreplay is also essential to please your woman. Sometimes it takes time for a woman to get horny; make sure she is completely ready for sex before you begin.

This does not mean that you have to light up candles every time you want to have sex. But a perfect ambiance means a clean room, dim lights and a clean you. Be sweet and gentle and make some sweet conversation with your girl before you get in bed as this sets the mood light and turns her on.

You cannot directly start with an intercourse until your woman is all wet and ready. To make love to a woman who is all wet and moaning will give you better pleasure. A good foreplay can start with a deep kiss, a sensual massage, a light caress on her body and some romantic talks. Women really get turned on with romantic talks. They also get turned on if you let them know what you feel about them. Foreplay need not be only after undressing. An erotic foreplay starts even before undressing your woman. Just feeling her body above her clothes also pleases a woman.

Give importance to all the parts of her body, and a foot massage is the best thing to start with. A sensuous massage with oil or lotion will turn her on. She will not only feel relieved from her stress but also feel more connected with you emotionally. Tease her while massaging her body as this will really turn her on.

Everyone has different erogenous zones. For some its the earlobe, for some its the neck and some women feel deeply aroused when kissed on their shoulders. Ask your woman about her most erogenous zone or try to explore it yourself. Some women love to be kissed on their navels, and some love it on their inner thighs. Be gentle and teasing in her erogenous zones and do not proceed with the penetration until you hear her moan with pleasure.

Men might think that grabbing a woman's breasts or bum will arouse her just like it arouses them. Some even start their act by touching her down there. But for most woman, the best pleasure and arousal comes with emotional stimulation. They need to feel desired, loved, cared for and pampered. Make as much eye contact as possible and leave the best things for last. Men need to compliment their women. Even while undressing her, keep commenting on how pretty you think she is. This will get her really turned on. Women need compliments and love to feel satisfied other than just getting intimate physically.

To satisfy your woman physically, you need to know how she likes it. Every woman prefers a different style of lovemaking. Some prefer woman on top, some prefer 69, but for most, it is the missionary position. The G-spot and the clitoris are the most erotic zones of the body of a female, and they get stimulated best in this position. Anal and doggy style does not please a woman as much as the classic missionary. Oral sex is not only for men. Give your woman oral sex. Know where the clitoris is. Use your hands or tongue and stimulate her sensitive zones to please her.

To discuss your secret fantasies is a great way to spice up your sex life. Sex with the same partner might get monotonous or routine after some time if done in the same way. Ask your woman about her sexual fantasies, and you tell her about yours. Even enact some fantasies if possible. Make sexual foreplay as fun as possible. Treat your woman like a delicate piece while in bed, and she will love that. If she likes a hard thrust and rough sex, then give her that. The key to sexual satisfaction is to do and obey as she commands. Your woman should not hold any sexual desires from you. Make sure you know in detail about her sexual preferences and do as and when she wants to please her totally. Try sex in different places. She might like sex out in the open or in front of the mirror. It could also be on the kitchen table. Ask her about her secret fantasies and oblige.

Suckle her breasts, fondle with them and squeeze them gently until she moans with pleasure. Women need to be touched everywhere while making love. Stimulate her clitoris gently and then go back to fondling her breasts again. This will tease her, stimulate her and have her begging for more!

Do not rush into intercourse very soon. Women like it slow. Tease and pleasure them till they beg you for it. This way they feel completely satisfied and pleasured. Else, they would lose interest and only let you pleasure yourself.

Women value that a lot. If you just turn to the other side after you have had your climax or leave the room, then they feel dirty and used. You need to hug her, compliment her and kiss her after your lovemaking is done. A small effort from your end will please her and satisfy her, or it could ruin the act completely. Men tend to doze off immediately after sex, and this greatly hurts most women. They need to be cuddled, kissed or complimented after sex to feel good and loved. Their brains work all the time and to get the feel of a completely satisfying sexual experience; they need a little hug or cuddle, which is as important as the beginning of the act.

In spite of reading about it a lot, hardly any men go down on their woman. Not only does this greatly satisfy and pleasure them, but it also makes them connect with you emotionally. They feel that there is a man who is concerned about my satisfaction too instead of just his. While going down, one needs to understand the entire vagina first. The clitoris is at the top and is the most erogenous zone of a woman's body. One needs to tease and stimulate the clitoris gently to get a woman turned on. The vaginal lips also have numerous nerve endings which drive a woman crazy with lust on being stimulated. When you go down with your tongue, it feels soft and ticklish and its very arousing.

A man's hygiene quotient also greatly matters during sexual intimacy. Make sure you don't smell of sweat or have not worn clean clothes. Women also give a lot of importance to clean sheets and clean room. Do not hurry during foreplay and make it as long as possible. It might take some time to get your woman hot and horny and so your act of foreplay should prolong for some time. A woman needs to be excited in her mind to get pleasure and satisfaction with sex. Arouse her or excite her by talking about sweet nothings or secret fantasies with her. Make sure of what you talk about and do not offend her in any way as this may spoil her mood. Sex gets boring or repetitive after some time. Try playing some sex games or try some dirty talks with your woman to get her horny. Play with her body and massage her all over than just focusing down there. Bite, kiss, suck and do all the amazing things with your tongue to pleasure her. A love bite can be deeply satisfying for women. And the most important of all is that let your woman have her orgasm first. Control your erection better and let her come first. This way your woman will be completely satisfied and pleasured while lovemaking.