7 Ways For Younger Men To Get Laid With an Older Woman

You have discovered that you like an older woman and you're wondering if you should pursue her and try to have a relationship... well one thing's for sure, you're not the only one. More young men date older women than you realize these days so there's a lot of tips on how to ensure that the lady you have your sights on will fall under your charm. In the past, there was more scrutiny when it came to couples with an age difference, especially if it was the woman who was older but it seems that today these kinds of relationships are thriving.

Many surveys have been made to shed some light on the allure of dating older women. The younger men's answers about the reasons why they prefer to date older women are numerous. Older women, for them, are self-assured, self-confident, and they can talk about anything and everything with them. Also, they like the fact that they are not focused so much on starting a family.

What else? Here are more reasons why younger men like dating older women.

Younger men are attracted to older women because from the get-go they know what they want. An older woman has a strong idea of what she wants from life and focuses her energy on achieving that and reaching her goals. Younger women are still finding themselves and exploring their possibilities, and sometimes that translates in lots of drama, while older women have gone through that already and now their focus is improving their lives and the ones they love. This is alluring to younger men because they don't have to guess about their wants, they can be as straight forward as them. 

Older women have more life, dating, and relationship experience. Younger men are attracted to this because there's much they can learn with them. An older woman can offer a younger man a different perspective on many issues and that will help him see life in a more realistic way so he can achieve higher levels of maturity. She can motive him to be a better man and achieve higher goals.

Older women don't need attention and approval from the public anymore, they are pretty comfortable in their own skin, and younger men find this attractive. The fact that older women don't need to prove themselves to them is very rewarding, plus they are not seeking for the younger men's approval. What you see is what you get and that's magnetic to younger guys. Sure they enjoy the attention of younger men but it's not the focus for them.

Older women have gone through a lot on their lives so they know how to react in front of difficult situations. The level of drama is very low because they don't overreact, they can control their emotions and behavior better than younger women. it's not that they can't have fun or are boring, they just know how to manage their emotions and not be run by them.

Older women because of their life experiences, can understand the world at a deeper level and that makes them exceptional conversationalists. In fact, some statistics show that the majority of women over 30 have a degree, this allows them to have conversations on many topics without a problem, Younger men like that they have their own opinions.

it's not a secret that some younger men seek a relationship with older women because they want to be taken care of. An older woman is capable of providing mental and emotional support and in some cases, this is what a younger man is looking for. This is also called the "mommy syndrome", beware that not all older women are going to put up with it. 

So you have decided to go for it and pursue this old lady that has captured your attention. Kudos! In order to succeed with her, you need to radiate confidence. This is the key, without confidence, you could scare her away before anything happens. You need to check your insecurities at the door and approach her with confidence. Why? Well, it's pretty simple. Confidence is sexy. Have you heard this? Like a million times, right? That's because it's true! Confidence is the sexiest trait you can show when courting someone and it'll really work on your behalf if you're attempting to conquer and date an older woman. 

With confidence your smile will shine and will be more genuine, you'll have a better posture and your eyes will be more focused on her (she'll love that). She knows what she wants and you've got her attention now so that in itself should be enough to boost your confidence... now go for it and own it. 

Now that you've got the attention of your older lady and are actually dating, you may be wondering how to get her to sleep with you. Sometimes younger men think they don't have what it takes to seduce an older woman, they lack the experience and don't know what to do. Is this your case? There are ways to go about this and we'll clue in how. 

 It's true that many older women won't be interested in getting laid with younger men, but it doesn't mean it can't happen you just have to know how to approach them. Older women know what they want, right? They don't want to play games and they want to be treated well. They may be attracted to the younger men's energy and be turn on by their tones bodies but if you use the same games you use to seduce younger women, nothing is going to happen  

Here's what you need to do to ensure a happy ending.

Older women have pretty much seen it all when it comes to men. By now they have zero tolerance for fake guys and their BS. You need to be confident. secure, and mainly because that's what they're looking for. Approach your older lady with confidence, don't try to impress her with superficial things, you'll bore her. Acting all tough and cool pretending you're something you're not is not going to get you laid, she'll see through you. 

Put on your best smile, relax your body, and talk to her straight. Always keep eye contact. Show her that you want her and are willing to do what it takes to have her.

If you want her to disregard your age and find you attractive, you need to show maturity. She'll probably be a sharp conversationalist so you need to be prepared to talk about many topics. When it comes to talking about yourself, about your life, don't dwell on the things you haven't done. Talk about your dreams and aspirations, not about your past. Don't be embarrassed about the fact you're younger, just acknowledge it and move on. The same with her age, compliment her if you want but don't get stuck on it.

Show her you're an independent and worthy partner with your own ideas and thoughts. She'll dig that.

Think of the outcome (getting laid) as a journey, not a destination. This is not the time to be selfish, you're ultimate goal should be to satisfy her. So while keeping your goal in mind, always aim to make her feel good first. Make her feel special while your chatting, and later during foreplay and the main event, make sure her pleasure comes first. You'll find that this way the experience will be more fulfilling for both of you.

Don't play games, older women prefer that you flirt with them in a direct manner, you just need to be tactful and subtle. Overwhelming her with compliment after a compliment is not going to work, it'll seem to her like you're trying too hard. Don't tell her lies. Just mention how great she looks, be specific about your flattering observation, like how great she looks in that dress. Compliment other aspects of her personality that you like too and tell her exactly what you like.

Show her you think she's hot and that you appreciate her, just be totally sincere with your observation and your actions because she'll see through you if you're not being sincere or you're just giving her a line. Maybe she needs a reminder that she's still got it, make her feel that but don't go overboard. Take time to get to know her so you can also tell her what you like about her personality. She'll feel special and your chances of getting laid will improve considerably. 

While dating an older woman you should focus on getting to know her but also you should have fun. Be sure that you spend time with her laughing and flirting a lot. A smile can work wonders for you, especially a genuine one, A sense of humor is always appreciated and it'll make your seduction more powerful.

Older women don't like games, remember? She will prefer if you're upfront about your intentions with her from the get-go. There's no need to be crass about it, that will turn her off. You need to find the right words to state your intentions. Don't bit around the bush either, you can tell her that you find her very attractive and that you'd like to spend the night with her. The choice ultimately will be hers, but if you've done everything right, the night could have a very happy ending for you both. 

Getting an older woman to date you and laid with you will require lots of confidence on your part. Be sure to express what you want from her, make her feel special, and treat her well from the get-go. Good luck!