Perfect Kiss: How To Kiss A Guy Passionately For The First Time

Kissing a guy is as natural as learning to walk or do the dishes. Just because it is easy to do doesn’t mean that it is easy to master. Kissing a guy is like cooking a grilled cheese sandwich. It is really easy to make for yourself because you’re not really thinking about impressing anybody. When you make it for someone you care about, however, you start to realize all the different ways you can mess up heating some bread over butter. The good news is that grilling a cheese sandwich is something you can master despite its simplicity. Chefs like Gordon Ramsay use special butter and different techniques to get his vision across. You can master kissing by practicing or figuring out different techniques to make the kiss feel and look good. Yes, a kiss can look and feel a certain way! Finding out what makes your lips and senses tick is just the basics of learning how to master the perfect kiss. Now say that you found a boy that you really like. He’s been flirting with you whenever you guys are near each other, like school or work. He’s also been hinting at asking you out in subtle ways. Does he have your phone number? Do you guys hang out one on one? If the answers are romantic, then you may have a kiss coming your way. Now, you want this kiss to be perfect, and you want it to stand out from all of the other kisses that he’s had. You want to make the kiss “the one” that he’ll never forget. These are some tips and tricks to give the perfect kiss to a guy for the first time.

The first step to giving a good kiss is to make sure the guy wants a kiss in the first place. A guy is a fickle creature. They sometimes give signals that may read one way but says something completely different. The first step to decoding all of this is to figure out if he wants the kiss in the first place. A guy who is into you will recognize when you do intimate things well. If he has responded well to passionately given hugs and passionately given gifts, then he will respond well to passionately given kisses. A guy is not that complicated in that aspects. Guy’s will show you that they are into you and will want to kiss you. A guy will either attempt to kiss or put his face extremely close to yours. In general, a guy that is into you will attempt to be near you as much as possible. If you are still unsure if a guy wants to get kissed, then ask him. If he doesn’t respond well to your question, then you will know the answer and move on! A kiss can be like playing chess, but chess games don’t have to be complicated! The second aspect of knowing if a guy wants a kiss is to be sure that he doesn’t want something more. Guys are socialized to act one way to receive something in hopes of increased activity or contact. If a guy wants a kiss, he will usually signal that he wants to kiss. Make sure that the kiss doesn’t turn into something more if you do not want it to. Many stories of guys forcing themselves onto women begin with a kiss. Men may take that as a sign that he is “allowed” to do something more. Bottom line, be careful who you kiss ladies. Some guys are not what they seem! Guys will attempt to take advantage of you and try to blame the kiss that you guys shared as some sort of message. Please be extremely careful of the men in your life that you kiss. Some of them might take it for something else and become dangerous!

Another mistake beginners make is kissing way too hard and aggressive for the first time. Kissing is like pornography on the internet: showmanship. People kiss everywhere in movies, comics, and cartoon and they kiss in only one way. They go hard, and they kiss for an incredibly long period of time. Kissing in real life is not like what they portray on the TV shows and popular movies. The lips are a sensitive part of the body that was built for more than kissing. They are essentially the first line of defense against sharp and nasty objects entering your mouth. Kissing incredibly hard as they do in the movies may break blood vessels or cause bruising which may end any future kissing. Nobody likes having blood all over them after a good kiss. Guys, in particular, may be picky about bloody lips as they are taught to pick at everything women feel comfortable with. Guy’s can be mean and tease you after they kiss you. This is why it may be important to take it slow. Taking it slow with a kiss gives you room to figure it out and make the first time not as awkward. The first time will always be awkward as it is two people doing something together for the first time. Aggressively kissing somebody does not mean you are kissing them passionately. In fact, it may be just the opposite. People that kiss well know how to control and calibrate their mouth in accordance with their partners. Remember to take it slow!

Most guys will think that kissing is purely lip to lip contact. If you ask a girl, then you will find out that it is so much more than that. Passionately kissing someone may not involve the mouth at all. In fact, most people that kiss well go for places around the mouth. Kissing well involves many other parts of the body than just the lips. Kissing someone on the neck, the corner of the mouth or just the bottom lip can produce different results for each person you kiss. Some people do not get the satisfaction of kissing from just one planted in the mouth. People enjoy collarbone kisses, neck, cheek, forehead, and nose kisses as well. Learning how to navigate the person’s body will give you clues on how to kiss well. If a guy is opening up his neck, he may be expecting a kiss on the neck. If a guy is biting your lower lip, it may be clues to open up to something more. Regardless, kissing passionately and kissing well takes practice and each person will respond differently. The best thing to do is practice on someone with something to get it just right.

Another huge thing that girls forget about kissing well is that each kiss encounter will differ. This is true even when you are kissing the same person over and over again. Kissing well is realizing that you have to adapt and realize your situation before kissing. For example, your husband may be eating chicken soup to get well. You do not particularly like chicken soup. However, if you want to kiss well, you may have to buckle up and get to kissing. Practice makes perfect with having consistency. Kissing well shouldn’t be a chore, but it definitely is a skill. This is true especially if you are doing it the first time. So be mindful of all of the times that you kiss well and take notes. The other important part about this is to have consistency with your kisses. Each kiss may be handled differently than the last. So learning how to maneuver a guy’s body and plant passionately given kisses each time will definitely help you to kiss well. To kiss well, consistency is key. If you don’t have similar passionately given kisses each time, then did you really kiss well? A guy will love that you can keep doing the same thing if you want to. It is all about kiss control.

If this is the first time, it is extremely important to make sure that you are ready beforehand. You may be scratching your head wondering what being prepared to kiss means. It means that the guy you are trying to kiss will be right next to you and in your personal space. Make sure that personal space is clean. If you are trying to kiss well, then it is important that the space is extremely clean and kept neat. It can be the smallest things that you usually don’t think about. Nobody will think that you kiss a guy well if you smell bad so ask yourself what you ate. If you didn’t put on some sort of aromatic or perfume, make sure you do so. This won’t make the kiss go well, but it certainly will help it from breaking down and falling apart. Another thing to watch out for are things in your teeth or on your face. That scab or a pimple may not be very visible and disgusting from afar, but it may be once you are up close. While the process of getting pimples is wholly natural, it may put your guy off of kissing you more than he needs to. Be sure all of these basic hygiene routines are covered before embarking on a kissing journey.

Kissing is very simple but an art form in itself. The only way you will get good is by practicing how to kiss over and over again. While it may not be simple to masterfully, it is fun to kiss and very healthy for you. So don’t be afraid to go to the guy in your life and give him a big fat kiss right in the middle. Or maybe try something new and try kissing the man of your dreams on his neck or chest. You never know what might make your partner feel good. You also never know if it may make his day!