10 Tips And Secrets Of Maintaining A Happy Marriage

Keep A Happy Marriage With Your Partner With These 10 Secret Tips

By Diana N.
10 Tips And Secrets Of Maintaining A Happy Marriage

What Makes A Happy Marriage Life?

By definition, a marriage refers to the process by which two individuals who truly love each other make their relationship permanent. By this act, the two lovebirds become one, creating a bond that lasts their lifetime. Till death do them part! 
 

Relationships are hard and marriages are not an exception as you will have your ups and downs. So, what makes a happy married life? How can you ensure that even if you go through tough times together, you always come out even stronger at all times? These are without doubt difficult questions to answer as nobody knows what kind of challenges they will face once they get married. But for you to have a happy marriage, you have to love each other, trust one another learn how to express yourselves freely and respectfully, and be there for each other. There are a lot of things that make up a happy marriage but these qualities mentioned above sets a good foundation for a happy and prosperous marriage. 

10 Tips To Maintaining A Happy And Successful Marriage Life

1. Establish good communication

Communication is the heartbeat of any relationship as it allows you to express your love and even concerns. Establishing good communication between you and your spouse will help you to know more about one another and also to learn about each other’s love languages. This is essential as understanding your love language is one of the secrets of having a happy and fulfilling marriage.

Communication also acts as the glue that basically holds any type of relationship together and without it, the marriage will surely disintegrate once the couple faces rough times. Communication is what allows you and your partner to move past your obstacles as by being able to express how you feel, you and your spouse are able to solve any types of barrier that might stand in your way. 

2. Always appreciate each other

Sometimes when people get married and life happens, they can find themselves taking each other for granted. This is something you should avoid at all times as it can make your marriage which was once happy and lovely, unbelievably toxic. To avoid this, ensure that you appreciate each other on a daily basis. Make it a habit and it will soon develop into a culture which will be firmly established in your marriage.

Appreciating each other will make you and your spouse stay satisfied with your marriage which will bring you a lot of happiness. To show appreciation, you can do things such as saying “Thank You” always, recognizing and appreciating your spouse for his or her efforts, buying each other presents, and praising your spouse both in public and in private.  

3. Be a good listener

Listening generally brings about a lot of good. There is a difference between hearing and listening as listening is an art or a skill. It’s not just about being attentive to what your spouse is saying but it also involves being able to decipher even what is not said. Listening involves our hearts and not just our ears. If you are not a good listener, your marriage will have a breakdown in communication which will lead to an unhappy marriage. Without being able to listen to each other, you will be disconnected resulting in an unhappy marriage as everybody will be leading a separate life. 

4. Be honest at all times

Honesty is really the best policy when it comes to marriages. Hiding things from each other no matter how small they are can bring the marriage to its knees as later on eventually, everything comes out to the light. Honesty allows you and your spouse to be able to solve any type of conflict or misunderstanding that may arise in your marriage. Without honesty, such conflicts will never be solved as you will never admit to them. Those lies will create a huge a dark cloud of unhappiness that will always be hanging over your marriage. Honesty allows you to freely express your deeds, feelings, and thoughts with each other creating a happy marriage. 

5. Be independent

The reason why being independent while in a marriage is so important is because you cannot be happy with your spouse if you are not happy on a personal level and this also applies to any other type of romantic relationship. Being independent means that you should continue to work on yourself and find time to enjoy your personal hobbies. Being independent allows you to be whole first, which enables you to make a more positive contribution to your marriage. It is also good for spouses to be relying less on each other as that creates fewer burdens, making you a gift to each other - support system and not a necessity. 

6. Maintain passion and intimacy

A marriage cannot work without intimacy and one way of maintaining intimacy is by having sex as often as possible. Sexual intimacy in marriage makes your spouse feel more loved and appreciated, allows you to become more selfless, and makes your connection even stronger. These are all things that lead to a marriage become happy and rewarding. Emotional intimacy is also very essential as it enables you and your spouse to share your secrets, thoughts, and feelings which helps to increase your love for each other.  

7. Respect one other

A marriage without respect is an unhealthy marriage and an unhealthy marriage is an unhappy marriage. Some of the factors involved in preserving and also generating respect in marriage include reciprocity where you give and take, mutuality which helps in balancing the power, and accommodation. This means respect in a marriage should be mutual, accommodative, and reciprocated. Having respect for each other ensures that there is no excessive criticism as you both value each other and that you treat each other in a loving and caring manner without contempt. 

8. Learn how to agree to disagree

No matter how perfect your marriage is, it will not be free of arguments. Once in a while, you will find yourselves in a disagreement and this is normal. There are some opinions, beliefs, and attitudes that you find a common ground on but there are some which you will not be able to agree on. This is where being able to agree to disagree comes to the rescue as you both have respect for each other’s point of view. This creates happiness as the points of contention will no longer be an issue in your marriage. 

9. Compromise for each other

A healthy and happy marriage is all about compromise. You and your spouse are two different people with different tastes and preferences. This means that it’s not always possible for things to go your way at all times and you cannot be having disagreements every time that happens. Learning to compromise allows you and your spouse to feel important and appreciated resulting in a healthy and happy marriage.    

10. Learn to accept each other

This is especially important to women as they are known for their never-ending nagging. Accepting each other brings peace to a marriage as you no longer look to change each other. Acceptance allows you to focus mainly on the positives of your spouse rather than the negatives that you don’t like. 

Marriage Life Quotes

“The secret of a happy marriage is finding the right person. You know they’re right if you love to be with them all the time.”

– Julia Child

“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”

– Mignon McLaughlin

“Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave.”

- Martin Luther King

“There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage.”

- Martin Luther King

“Marriage is not a noun, it’s a verb. It isn’t something you do. It’s the way you love your partner every day.”

– Barbara De Angelis

Conclusion

A marriage is a beautiful thing when there is love, happiness, and trust. A healthy and happy marriage fulfills purposes such as companionship, protection, enjoyment, fruitfulness, and it also completes you. This is why learning the secrets of maintaining a happy marriage is essential for everyone in a marriage or for anyone looking forward to joining the sacred institution of marriage. 

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