French kisses; we have seen them in movies, tv shows, at the park, at clubs, and the majority of us have already experienced them ourselves. What is the big fuzz about this type of kiss, and why do we love it so much? How do you master it and become the best at it? What are the dos and don'ts? Find out everything you need to know about the famous French kiss and become a pro right here!
What Is The Definition Of French Kissing?
French Kissing is basically a deep amorous kiss in which the tongues from both participants extend either to touch the other person's lips or tongue.
As we all know, this kiss is considered to be very romantic, erotic, and sexual, and we usually share it with people who are romantically involved with us. I said usually, no judgment intended here! You might french kiss any guy out there, and it is completely fine, too. After all, it is a fun thing to do.
It stimulates the mouth, tongue, and lips, all areas that are extremely sensitive to touch, and because of this, people find this type of kiss to be extremely pleasing and intimate. To be honest, there is no foreplay without some French Kissing here and there.
History And Facts About French Kissing
Sometimes, we might wonder why making out is called French Kissing. What does it have to do with the European country? Why give it that name? Where did it exactly come from? It is probably the opposite of what you are thinking of, stay tuned!
Learn the origins of french kissing and some interesting facts you probably didn't know about it here!
French Kiss History
Opposed to what you might be thinking, the French didn't actually invent this type of kiss. Let me explain, nobody exactly invented the action, as it probably exists from the beginning of human history, what I mean is that French didn't put the French Kissing name on it. Actually, there was no verb for kissing this way in France until May 2016 when they added the verb " galocher", which basically means to make out.
Now, let's talk about how it actually became a thing. Well, after World War I, when American and British soldiers went back home from Europe, they would greet their wives and girlfriends with a passionate deep kiss which involved tongue. The reason why they called it a 'French Kiss' was that these men that came from war saw the French kissing in that way as they were extremely sexually adventurous. Basically, they learned to kiss that way from the French. Well, now we can say that we owe them for such a great lesson.
French Kissing Facts
We all love to learn fun and random facts about everything, and French Kissing isn't an exception. Find out some weird stuff you didn't know about your favorite activity. You don't have to deny it.
How many muscles?!
A French Kiss uses all 34 muscles in our face, whilst a simple peck involves only two. Who knew that our body needed so much muscles in order to make out?
Some weird word we got here; Cataglottism is actually the scientific term for French Kissing. I bet you can't even pronounce it.
Splendor In The Grass
The 1961 film " Splendor in the Grass" was the first to cast a French Kiss on screen in the history of cinematographic productions.
It is basically cardio
French Kissing for one-minute burns 26 calories. If you are looking to kick some weight off you, but can't seem to go to the gym, get it on and french kiss like crazy. I bet you will enjoy this type of cardio more than spinning, won't you?
Nasty, but good
When we kiss, 10 million to 1 billions bacteria are exchanged between the two of us. Don't freak out!; it is actually good for you. 20% of our bacteria is different from the other person's, which means that it will help boost your immune system. Though that doesn't mean you should be kissing like crazy when the other party is down with the nasty flu.
The longest kiss in the world goes to a Thailandese couple that kissed for 58 hours, 35 min and 58 sec in 2013. Yes, you read right; 58 hours! You can even do the math on how many calories they burnt. Hell, they might as well just run a marathon!
Ekkachai Tiranarat and Laksana Tiranarat (both Thai) at Ripley's Believe It or Not! Pattaya
How To French Kiss Like A Pro
A French Kiss is way more than the union of lips and tongues. It is an art in which we can express feelings, emotions, and passions without words, but with our bodies. For these things to be correctly transmitted, and for it to spark a flame between two people, the French Kiss has to be amazing, and for that, the person needs to know how to actually French Kiss.
Trust me, there is a huge difference between a good kisser that knows what they are doing and a bad kisser that seems lost. Regardless of the fact that the other person likes you a lot, if you are a bad kisser, it is basically inevitable that he or she will turn away from you right after you share a kiss. If you want the opposite effect, he or she is attracted and addicted to you, follow these tips on how to french kiss like a pro:
1. Show enthusiasm
Once you lay eyes on the person you are looking forward to kissing, you have to show your interest in your body language. You should show enthusiasm from your greeting, your first words, your smile, and your posture. The kiss is fun for both of you, but if you don't show excitement, it won't happen, you might as well start forgetting about it. If that magic doesn't happen, the kiss will be extremely uncomfortable, or, again, it simply won't happen, and nobody wants that.
2. Have good breath
If you are having a date with a person that you know you will end up kissing, look out for what you eat. Some foods leave a stinky breath for many hours, and bad breath is just an automatic turn off in any situation. Brush your teeth, have some gum with you, and your good breath will be a turn on for that person who will want to kiss you even more now.
3. Control your breathing
When you French Kiss, I advice you to use all of your senses and body functions. Breathing is one you should use to your advantage, as it can be a turn on when it is done correctly. Inhale and exhale deeply and passionately during the kiss, enjoy their smell, and puff some hot air in their necks. You will see that they will lose control.
4. Balance it out
Many think that because French Kissing involves tongue we shouldn't use our lips, and we have all probably had someone put their tongue down our tongues rather violently, which I know we didn't like at all. Nobody likes to be chocked and poked by a tongue, reason why it is important to learn how to control it and use our lips, too.
Move your lips softly and relax your muscles. Keep your mouth slightly open so there can be a soft tongue play. Then, with it, slightly brush your partner's lips, and move it inside of their mouth softly. Build expectation; start slowly and progressively add more strength to your movements being careful to not overdo it.
5. Use your hands
As I said before, a good French Kiss involves other parts of the body than the lips, mouth, and tongue. Your hands can transform an okay kiss to an unbelievable one. Grab their face, pull their hair slightly, trail your fingers down their spine, grab their ass a little bit, honestly, there is so much you can do with your hands during a French Kiss that will drive him or her crazy.
Quotes About Kissing
Quotes pretty much make everything better, and we can relate on a huge level with them. Why not show you some quotes about kissing, and get your flame on?
“A kiss is a secret which takes the lips for the ear.” ― Edmond Rostand
“It's the kind of kiss that inspires stars to climb into the sky and light up the world.” ― Tahereh Mafi
And we were kissing like drowning people breathe—like suddenly we’d discovered something that has never been so sweet before that moment. —Morgan Matson
It was a kiss to level mountains and shake stars from the sky. It was a kiss to make angels faint and demons weep…a passionate, demanding, soul-searing kiss that nearly knocked the earth off its axis. —Lisa Kleypas
Congratulations! You are now an expert on French Kissing, and you could get anyone you want with your awesome techniques and tricks. From its history, facts and best tricks, you basically know everything there is to know about this awesome activity. Now, you have got to go out and put this to work, pal! Any guy or chick will cast under your spell right after kissing you. Honestly, they will be astonished. Yes, I know, thank us later!